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confused...
Ok, this is kind of a long story. However I am having extreme issues with it. I am 16 and a very curious teenage girl.
I have a boyfriend for the first time in a while, and hes a sweetheart. However, I have two other guys that I think about on a regular basis. One of them I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since the end of october or beginning of november. The other guy I constantly am flirting with and have been mutually wanting to hook up or sleep together. I feel horrible about thinking about this and guilty about it. But what do I do?
The guy that I have been 'with' since late october, we have established a good connection however no relationship,labels, or any form of ties keeping us 'together'. However I think I have real, raw feelings for him.
if you could help me out it would be very appreciative. Thanks so much to whoever helps me out.
-Rachael
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i think i answered this question or one you asked similar to this one but.. maybe you should jus break up with your boyfriend and enjoy being single but i would control yourself with the sleeping with people.. you should try to have only one partner and not sleep with a whole bunch of different guys.. but i hope i helped with the question..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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well im gonna give you the basics you prob. expected to hear... your to young to be sleeping with someone at 16, blah blah blah ... stop cheating on anyone, blah blah blah ... switch shoes, blah blah blah ... and its ok to be thinking about other guys, even having a little crush on them while ur dating, mabey ur guy isnt the right one for you though, you need to think about it more, blah blah blah .. but no i really mean all that( Blah Blah Blah )
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by the timeline you gave, it sounds like you stopped sleeping with this other guy when you started dating the one you really like. You need to figure out the boundries in your relationship. Can you date/sleep with other people, or does he want to slap a label and call you his girlfriend? If you really do love him, you'll want to be just with him, and put aside all the lust you have for others for his sake.
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Since you've just admitted to cheating on him I suggest you stop. And actually, if you did truly have true raw feelings for him, you wouldn't be sleeping with another guy. Its not a crime for liking someone besides your boyfriend but its not fair to cheat on him. And if you do, it doesnt mean you love him. You're frankly just using him. Either break up with him and continue sleeping with whomever you wish, or stop sleeping with random people and be more trustworthy of your boyfriend. He will find out eventually if you dont stop. So I suggest you do.
Good luck
Jacki
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