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okay like im a freshman an im 15 an my boyfriend is a senior 19 but we dont go to the same schools. yeah i always get talks about how hes dating me...a minor...an how its wrong and everything so yeah dont repeat plz. well today he asked me if i could go to this really formal dance at his school and i wasnt so sure becuase my mom of course doesnt know about him and she definitly wont let me go and i dont really know anyone else that goes to his school. i really wanna go but yeah i KNOW i cant. so if anyone has anything about what to tell him that i cant go or ways that i could probably can go please let me know. thanks
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Well tell your mom that your going to a dance with some friends.. but how to tell him i would jus tell him what you wrote like how your mom would react and how it would be hard to lie to her and what not..hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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Hmmm...You could try telling your mom that your "friend" that goes to another school wants you to come because their having a "dance" and everyone is going, or you can tell her your going to hang out at your friend's house and go with your boyfriend instead. If your going to try that take all your stuff with you and change your clothes at your friend's house than go. But, honestly, I'd really want you to go, but I don't want you lying to your mom. So, if you don't end up going, just tell your boyfriend the truth. That you really want to go, but your mom won't let you. He should understand, because your only 15, obviously your mom is going to be a little strict when your at that age. ~goodluck~
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I know what you are going through. If you are going to date someone that much older than you, make sure you really like him, and know your boundries about intimacy. If you are really sure, and he isn't some homicidal psycho, then ask your mom to go. The worst she can say is no, right?
And NO, dating someone that older isn't illegal unless you have sex!!
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i hate to be the one to tell you this, but you daying a 19 year old when your under the age of 18 is illegal. you need to break up w/ him. he'll end up using u for sex or something! sorry! hope this helps!!
~Alyssa
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