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should i stay with him or should i dump him


Question Posted Tuesday February 1 2005, 5:45 pm

I am a 16 year old female. Well i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and at first everything was fine I was happy. Now its like everytime he talks or even if he just looks at me i get annoyed. I don't know what to do. I care about him a lot but i don't know why im so unhappy with him. Maybe its not him maybe im just trippin. sometimes i really want to be with him and sometimes its like why am i with him. I want to know should i break up with him or not. im not sure i really do care about him and all my friends think i should stay with him. but i want to know what you think. Please help. what should i do

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XxJules101xX answered Friday February 11 2005, 8:37 pm:
I am in a similar situation. I think you should just explain to him that feelings for people change and you don't have the same feelings anymore. I hope he understands! (It's better to not be happy then pretend to be happy)

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ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 2:52 pm:
well you should probably stay with him.. you probably are trippin but maybe you guys need space.. and um if you also really think you dont really care bout him i wouldnt stay with him then cause he'll just get hurt in the end.. but you might break up with him and then realize it was a mistake so just try to keep a lil more space between ya'll.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790

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THOSEGirls answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 12:18 pm:
Usually, if you have to ask, you should dump him.
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DANIELLESadvice3239417 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:55 pm:
I think if you feel awkward with him you should break up. But when you do say u really care for him. Maybe you could still be friends. it will give him an idea to get to know you more! rate me!

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angieroonie answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:47 pm:
if your not happy... dump him. he'll get over it.

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everything_special answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:32 pm:
hey girl...i know what your going through....but if i may just ask a ?....do you two spend A LOT of time together??....if you do then you could be rushing the relationship to much....to much of one person....tat you have feelings for like you do...CAN GET ANNOYING....but you still care for him.....just try not to go out so often together....take some time for yourself...and your girlfriends....and then you'll feel a lot more relieved when you see him again....you need some seperation from him....cause if he is the "RIGHT" one...you'll have your whole life together.....so dont rush it now...take it slow......well i hope i helped....!!

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lildiamyn_69 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:03 pm:
This happened to me before. After 3 months, you probably really care about him, but it's just that you dont realize it right now. If you guys ever were away from each other for too long, you might get lonely and start to miss him.
Maybe you two need some time apart(no together, whatsoever) so you can figure out if you really care for him. If you're happier w/o him, then you might have to split:(
Hope I helped any.
~Diamyn~

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