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ok i know this one girl who ive known since last year we sat at the same lunch table, then this year we have spanish together..were not close but we do talk here and there. she went out with guy danny whos in 11th grade and they recently broke up after 6 months or so. my other friend had met him in a chat and they talk and so on, and anyways we were going to the mall on saturday and so we went. we come back and shes at my house waiting for her mom to pick her up so were talking to him on-line n seemed nice. so after she left we started talking and all, i seem a lil into him i dk, i saw him be4 like once or twice with the girl who went out with him. i just found out that he was in my lunch last sem and all so i kinda knew who he wasnt, i just never saw him only the back or something when the 2 were leavin the caf. i dont know if hes into me or something i never actually met him or anything, but im affaird to accept if he ever asks me out since i have friends who were friends with who he went out with, plus i also know her as well. then today my other friend who was over my house saturday night says she was confused and i asked why and she said bc she "bc i have a bf and i also like danny a lil" and i said "o0o the one from other night on-line?" and she said "yeah" and i just went "o0o" and she asked "y?" and i just said "j/w" and now i dk what to do, bc i dont want to hurt either of them if he ever asks me, which i know he would never do ask me but u never know.
-o n my friend moved so she doesnt go to our school anymore, though i am...i also dk about his ex who im some what friends with who does go to our school..thx
~i know its long n a lil confusing sry
(btw he is in 11th (which i meantioned) and me n the 2 girls r in 9th)
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it seems like you have already made up your mind that you like him... but you have to decide what is more important to you right now, your friends or your guy. that, we can not decice for you.
**_Nicole_**
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Hiya,
This Danny guy...I wouldn't risk anything for him, definately not right now. You don't even know him (and people's online personalities are so very different from their real life ones...), so if you think you're into him, you could be proved very wrong. Remember not to focus on what 'could be' with this guy. That will end up with you giving him qualities his doesn't have and making him better than he is in your imagination, so that if you two do ever go out, you'll be disappointed.
'When you're in love you'll know' is one of the most annoying yet truthful sayings around. You're not sure about this guy, so you don't love him. I don't think you'll be missing out on anything - except maybe losing some friends - if you let him go. What's more important to you - your friends or one guy you don't know?
If you get to know him very well and still like him in a while then go for it, but not until then...besides, if and when that happens, everyone will have had enough time to get over him, if that makes sense, so there won't be any 'barriers' in your way.
Maybe talk to your friends about this?? It'll help to 'confess' to someone :)
Blessed Be and good luck!,
Rach xxx
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Well you should probably jus talk to him as friends for right now.. cause it dont really sound like you know him too well.. so there might be a chance that you might not really like his personality or something.. but like just try to be friends before thinkin bout a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship with you..hope i helped..
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