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Ok I'm so scared now...I think i have yeast. I have this white stuff coming out of my vigina. I feel like itching my vigina sometimes and i can actually take out the white/clear stuff. It's like a 1 cm ball it feels sticky but it doesn't smell like hell but if u smell it close then it does smell but doesnt like stink. Anywayz it is sticky and my pubic hair is easy to just like take out. This is sooooooooooooooo embarrassing...please answer.... (link)
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Hey, well from what you have described it doesn't really sound to me like you have a yeast infection. It's just discharge. It's absolutely normal to have, as most girls do have it. It is not uncommon for there to be an odor like you said just so long as it is not completely overpowering, you're fine. Every girl has different amounts of dischage from time to time. Sometimes, when you are close to have your period (first time or monthly) you will have more than usual. As long as the discharge isn't an odd color like green, or yellow or something I think you are fine. There's nothing to be embarassed about; it's common and natural. :)
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13/f. Alot of my girl friends say that i look pretty and gorgeous and things like that. But i dont think guys find me attractive,...why? (link)
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Well, how you are feeling is totally common for someone your age. We are our own worst critics. 13 is the age you go through puberty and different kinds of a changes. It can be sometimes akward. But it's something you will grow out of. At the same time, guys you know are going through the exact same thing to them. And usually, it's up to them to make the move but they may find they aren't attractive enough for you. So it's kind of a little cycle. I think you should start believing your friends! The boys will come around. In the mean time, have some self confidence in yourself and go up to a guy and socialize. This will help both you and him get more comfortable. I am sure you are gorgeous just as your friends say! :)
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how old should you be before having sex. (link)
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Wow, what a question! An individual's choice to have sex or not is not as simple as a set age. There are so many more factors. You must take into consideration all the different aspects of what having sex brings along. For instance, are both you and your parter 100% ready and willing? Are you ready for a possible pregnancy? Are you aware of all the various STDs you could possibly contract? Are you ready for the emtional and physical pain you might endure..etc. The list goes on and on. Having sex shouldnt only be done when you are responsible, mature and fully ready. If you have to doubt anything, then you are not ready. Remember, you can only have your first time once. Don't throw that away too soon. If you are even under 17 I would say you are way too unexperienced to understand all the details of having sex. Age varies though. But, as I said, just make sure you don't give in too soon for a few minutes of pain or pleasure. And if you must have sex, be safe. :)
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ok i'm 13 rite now...i'm kinda emmerised to day this but my boyfreind wants to finger me and leik i dunno what to do cuz i have nvr done this b 4 and i'm thinkin will it hurt and leik thoes kinda questions...what should i do please helpppp (link)
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Well, first off, I don't mean to preach, but I think 13 is WAY too young to be doing that much sexual stuff. I know it may seem like you really like the guy and now is a good time, but waiting isn't a bad idea either. Also, if the two of you feel comfortable enough to do that kind of stuff you should be willing to talk to your boyfriend about your doubts. He should respect them and be willing to communicate. That is part of a healthy relationship. As far as actually going through with it, well yes it could hurt a little bit, not nearly as much as sex will, but it's your choice whether you think it is worth it. In the mean time, remember, you should NEVER do anything your not 100% ready and willing to do.
Also, try googling "how to..." to find out! :)
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what purse brands are the best???
example: prada gucci......
and how much are they??
do you no any sites that would help me??? (link)
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Well, what's best is really dependant upon people's opinions. Good and popular brands are: Dooney and Burke, Coach, Kate Spade, Louis Vutton, the above two you mentioned and a few others.
Price wise..well, D&B you can get for a couple hundred on sale. Their price depends on the size (for all purses) For example, a huge Loius Vutton is THOUSANDS.
You can try EBAY for cheaper prices.
You can go to any of the makers websites to see what's in the line right now.
Most cities have knock offs that look like the real thing.
Remember, just because something is name brand doesn't mean you HAVE to have it! You can get a cute purse anywhere from Foley's to Walmart! You just have to look! :)
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I need a new aim sn. Any suggestions?
:) Thanks. (link)
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Well, since you didn't really provide any specifics it's kind of hard to think of something you may like but I looked at your page and tried to gether a little information about you. So here are a few for you:
-LilTeeNy14
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If you don't like any of these just give me some more info about yourself and some specifs you are looking for. :)
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my boyfriend is sort of moving too fast for me. we've made out but he was trying to really touch my the whole time. i liked it for a while.then is just got annoying. i love him more then like..i think¿ what should i do? (link)
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You need to speak up, for sure. I know it may seem difficult and you may be afraid of making him angry but you have to let him know how you are feeling. That is a part of communicating. Communication is vital in a relationship. If you are comfortable enough to be kissing and such, you should be able to talk to him about the physical aspects of the relationship. Just tell him that you feel like he is moving a little too fast for you right now. Chances are, he'll understand. Then see if he makes the change, if he doesn't..then he obviously doesn't respect you. Remember, you should never do something you are not ready or willing to do. :)
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What does it mean to be outspoken? Like examples and definition.. (link)
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In personal explanation to me: Someone that is outspoken is very vocal about their opinions and kind of blunt and sometimes OVERLY talkative. Dictionary definition is: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=outspoken
Hope this helped. :)
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on Facebook registration what do they want you to type under Domain Name? nothing works! (link)
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Well on HS Facebook..I'm pretty sure you just type your first and last name or some form of it. Or at least, that's what I did and it worked for me. Good luck. :)
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My best friend had phone sex with my brother and she doesnt want me to be mad. Do I forgive and forget, or stay mad at her and forgive her eventually or stay mad at her forever??
Signed,
Grossed out (link)
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I can totally see where you are coming from with this, and while I know your first instict (as well as others) would be to just blow her off and not forgive her, but why burned bridges? I mean what you brother does is his own business and so is your friends, but you are sort of involved in all of this. I think the best think for you to do is to just explain civily to your friend how you are feeling and it just makes you feel akward and tell her that you can't stop her from liking who she wants to and having a relationship, but when it comes to sexual aspects involving your brother to just not tell you about it. I think she will get the heads up with this and back down from telling you intimate details or such sexual stuff with your brother. If you feel the need to, you may want to talk to your brother also and just kind of tell him "well put yourself in my shoes-like if the tables were turned" I think he too will understand. Give you friend (and brother) some time to maybe clean up or change habits and resume to the way things were. Don't like something like this be the ruination of y'all. And besides, if you tell her you disagree with it and won't be her friend, she might continue just to spite you. Be the bigger person and forgive, but you don't have to forget. :)
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Do guys find stretch marks unattractive? (link)
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Sure, you are going to find some guys that judge people based on looks nad outward appearances, but that shouldn't be the basis for is someone finds you attractive or not. I know that it's hard to not try to please others, but it should really only be an issue if it bothers YOU personally. A guy that really likes you and care about you is going to think you are atractive not for just the way you look on the outside but for the person you truly are (on the inside). If you do happen to come across someone that does find it unattractive, let them think that. It's their choice. If you really do want to try to reduce their appearance you may want to try Palmers Cocoa Butter lotion and/or Mederma. This is not going to make them vanish or totally prevent them but it will help in the appearance slightly and prevention. :)
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i dont have money i dont have a nice face i am very alone i want to have a girl frind and i know haw i get the girll frind (link)
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Well, first of all you need to def. stop feeling down on yourself. You have to have a postive attitude. And if you have what you may think are problems, then fix them! (Ie: work and earn some money, do extra chores, have a gargae sale, whatever!) As far as the way you look; everyone is their own worst critic. But if you feel the need to, get a new hair cut a new style of outfit and just try that out. As far as the girlfriend thing, don't try hard. Let things happen naturally. It's better off. Just be yourself and you'll meet the right girl. You have plent of time so be patient! :)
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Although I've enjoyed reading through the problems together with the numerous well-thought-out pieces of advice offered on the following page - http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=FrEe2bMe&t=&skip=380 - which have undoubtedly helped many, I do remain dubious as to whether the girl who wrote in (whose question is now just over half way down the page) asking what to do re the stormy, dramatic relationship she had with her boyfriend must have nevertheless been in a relationship that had something going for it and may thus have been worth preserving on the grounds that it had lasted for over a year, since it seems likely to me from my experience of observing other such couples (even though it would be very difficult for me to make anything like a proper assessment on these particular two being that I've never met either of them) that their staying together despite all their problems could have been down to co-dependence and/or a fear of being alone rather than true love.
Perhaps they were both in the kind of relationship they thrived on and wanted deep down despite denials to the contrary (like does appear to have a tendency to attract like after all) - but as I said, this is little more than speculation on my part and is really just something I'm suggesting as a possible alternative reason as to why these two along with many similar couples might feel compelled to stick with each other. (link)
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Thank you for the additional insight on this subject matter. Hopefully some of the readers will read this and be helped from it! :)
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Listen, I really liked your advice. You were right, I am young and stupid. And a year and a half its eternity right now. I would like to keep asking you for advice. I don't know, maybe you could e-mail me at dibrwi7_2000@yahoo.com.
Because now I need advice on how to survive. (link)
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Well, I am glad I was able to help you. Don't say you're stupid; you just made a mistake and made a bad choice. We are all guolty of that at some point or another. You are more than welcome to ask me for advice. If you have AIM, that would be the easiest way. My SN is XxXSasha23XxX. If not, I would be more than happy to email you, let me know! :)
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I had a girlfriend for 1 1/2 years. we got into it some night and I hit her. CAN SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME GET HER BACK????!!! (link)
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Well, I am guessing you are a teen so a year and a half is a long time to be with someone at that age. What you did is considered wrong by pretty much everyone. It's one thing to emotionally hurt someone, but it's a whole other thing to physically hurt them. A huge degree of trust, security, and respect is lost there. It's a good thing that you kind of realize what you did was wrong. Whether she is going to take you back is up to her and will probably be based on the level of degree in which you hit hurt. She has to feel safe first before she can let you back in. I think first, you should definetly apolgize SINCERELY. Abuse is a serious issue. Explain to her that maybe you didn't purposely mean to hit her but it was just uncontrollable as a reflex kind of. Also, you may want to consider some time of anger managment counseling or just talking to some type of conselor. Let her know that you are willing to make a change. And also, SHOW CHANGE. You can't just say it and everything be all good and well again. Give her some time, she MAY come around. But for future relationships, try to deal with fighting in a more civil manner. :)
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hey guys i was just wondering, can u shower w/ a tampon in...need reply's fast, i'm running late (i just got my period this morning) will rate high, much love (link)
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Hey in short, yes you can. If you are wanting to do this because you just pit it in and its not ready to come out the water will make it a little easier for you to take out. You could also try going pee before, but yeah you can shower with it. :)
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Ever since I was young, I have been designing alternative education systems for fun. I'm now wondering if there is a particular job related to this, or whether I should just write a book. (link)
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Well, I am not totally sure what you mean by this, but I think I have a fairly good idea. And yes, I do believe there is a job for this, because it pretty much sounds like what my mom does for a living. In a nutshell, she provides guidance and information for those secondary students that would like to persue other options other than traditional high school. This inclides, GED, HSEP, Job Core, Military, Gradutating early, Charter schooling, and various other options. I know TONS about it. She has a degree in education as well as a degree in social work. But anyways, your goal is totally achievable and it's a great thing to want to do. If you want any other info let me know. And I say, go after it! :)
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Ok, I have a blue and yellow HOLLISTER shirt. What color eye shawdow should I wear with it? It's been bugging me to death!
5's-Thanks! (link)
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Well, you could do either blue or yellow. Or, if you are really good with applying eyeshadow you could blend the two together kind of like you would with a black to create more of a blended smokey look. I think I personally would go with the yellow because it's less obvious and sometimes blue can look cheap or like you are trying too hard, but still gets the point across. And, don't forget, you could always just skip the eye shadow and focus on eye liner and mascara. :)
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does in hurt when myou have sex for the first time iam 15 and a girl (link)
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In short, yes. It is suppose to hurt for your first time. The dfferent levels of pain vary though based on each specific person and situation. You might also experience some bleeding for one or more days. You will for sure experience some soreness afterwards. Remember, you should only have sex when you and your partner are 100% ready and willing. You only get one first time. :)
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ok incase i end up sex with this guy later today and i was wondering if i should shave down there well like i uslly shave but not all just most but i dont know how he likes it so what should i do? (link)
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Well, first of all you should never do something because for someone else. Make your choices based on YOU and want makes YOU happy. That's what really matters. Secondly, if the two of you are close enough to be able to have sex with each other, you should be able to discuss things like what he prefers and doesn't as well as what you prefer and don't. So, try talking to him if you really care about what he wants. Just whatever you do, realize sex is a HUGE thing and y'all need to be PROTECTED and SAFE. :)
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