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ok i'm 13 rite now...i'm kinda emmerised to day this but my boyfreind wants to finger me and leik i dunno what to do cuz i have nvr done this b 4 and i'm thinkin will it hurt and leik thoes kinda questions...what should i do please helpppp
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I'm a guy so I can't answer with anything Scarleteen can't do better on the "how does it feel" and "is it safe" fronts: <[Link](Mouse over link to see full location);
More importantly (and I'm with Scarleteen's general mood on this one), be really careful, don't do stuff just to please your boy, get educated and take stuff slowly if you're going to take it. All the physical stuff is much better in its own time. If you're uncomfortable, it won't be nearly as much fun, and it'll be kind of missing the point.
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Well, first off, I don't mean to preach, but I think 13 is WAY too young to be doing that much sexual stuff. I know it may seem like you really like the guy and now is a good time, but waiting isn't a bad idea either. Also, if the two of you feel comfortable enough to do that kind of stuff you should be willing to talk to your boyfriend about your doubts. He should respect them and be willing to communicate. That is part of a healthy relationship. As far as actually going through with it, well yes it could hurt a little bit, not nearly as much as sex will, but it's your choice whether you think it is worth it. In the mean time, remember, you should NEVER do anything your not 100% ready and willing to do.
Also, try googling "how to..." to find out! :)
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if its embarrasing and scary...don't do it. you can have him start with one finger and everything but really you should wait until you are completely ready. you don't have to do it just yet. that's what i think you should do but if you really want to, go for it. lemme know if you need anything else! <3
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Well if you feel comfortable with it..then it's fine to do it. It won't hurt as long as your bf doesnt dig his fingers up and pop your cherry! Its supposed to feel good so go for it and have fun lol! Hope that helped! ♥ caitie
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Ultimately I can't tell you what to do so you need to make this desicion yourself....but you need to figure out your morals and set high standards for yourself...Read Ephesians 5 in the Bible (i'm pretty sure thats what it is) but don't do something you don't wanna do bc of some guy! If you need anything else, just ask! Love yah!
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If you're not ready then tell him so. If he loves you he'll understand. But if you are ready... go for it. I might hurt, i honestly don't know. I'm sorry this isn't that good of a responce but i can't help alot for this question. I hope this helpss ♥
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