Every time I'm at a wedding or see a wedding on t.v., it's always a religous wedding.
So my question is, what happens at a no religous wedding?
Thanks.
Well guess you have to get married some way..and you kinda have to do it in some religous way..cause they read out of some sort of bible in like every wedding no matter the religion.. so i guess you'd have to choose what you believe in and have a wedding with that sort of setting..much luv dez
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ok me and this guy, jeremy have been hanging out. he's a year younger than me (school-wise) because he failed, and we met through my best friend.she and him are good friends, so yeah ;) well jeremy has a friend paul, that likes my friend ewelina... making sense? well the guys drink sometimes. everytime we hang out they are bored because they are sober and vodka gets them to express themselves?! haahaa... weird i know. well the i heard jeremy likes me so i startedmaking small moves o him, like laying on him and stuff and well yesterday he didn't do ANYTHING, AT ALL! then later on he called me while i was at my friends house, and i was hey who is this, he's like your're boyfriend. i was like oH the one that ignored me today? he saoid he didn't ignore me today and that he really likes me and he's nervous AROUND girls he likes. the only reason he said all this was because he drank a little. and then he calls ewelina, and they talked for 73 mins, exactly, haha. they talked about me. he likes me a lot, and he wants to change supposedly . he wants to get serious with me and his friends told me the same thing. today i heard they're going out to drink again and i called them and we talked then went to his friend paul's house. they were sober and we didn't talk at all, we just sat there (me,paul, jeremy, ewelina!) and then me and ewelina left and went to her house and then all of a sudden the doorbell rings. we answer it and its jeremy with 2 of his friends. then ewelina leaves and me and them go to the park to talk. they ask why we don't want them to drink, and i couldn't think of a good reason. then they were like to jeremy (his friends said) ok how about u dont drink on mon, tues, wed, thurs, and friday saturday sunday you can? how does that sound lisa(me)? and i was like i dont control him and he's like dude ill drink whenever i want. i really like the guy and i know him and my friend ewelina have had feelings for each other in the past and paul likes ewelina so thats why jeremy ANd ewelina never went out. one of jeremy's friends today metnioned that if paul was a good friend he's let jeremy go out with ewelina. she's my best friend and i loove her to DEATH but i don't know what to do anymre. she's not gonna go out with paul and i want to go out with jeremy and he knows that. so how do i get jeremy to stop drinkinking and how do i tell him and good reason to show that I CARE!!!!!!!????? and should I worry about jeremy and ewelina? i rate 5's for good answrers. thanks babes!
Well um a good reason to probably get him to stop drinkin is to tell him that you do care for him.. i mean thats the truth you care for him and you want him to stop drinkin..jus tell him how you dont want anything to happen to him cause he drinks..and if ewelina is a true friend and knowing you like jeremy she wont go with him.. so you probably shouldnt worry about it..unless you dont like trust her or something.. but also you should talk to this guy more about how you like him..well people have told you he likes you and he's told you himself so why isnt something going on with you guys thats what i dont get... but anyways i hope i helped much luv dez
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I fell in love with my best friend but its impossible for anything to happen between us because he's gay. I can't stop thinking about him and i really need help.
Well most girls end up likin gay guys before they find out there gay cause of the way they act and most of the time they are real sweethearts and you cant find that in alot of straight guys..so thats probably why you love him and cant stop thinkin bout him cause you like how he is and how he treats ya..but you cant really do anything like you said cause he aint going to turn straight..so all i can tell you to do is try to move on and continue to be friends wit this guy..jus try to find somebody that will treat you right and everything..much luv dez
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While I was dating another guy, I told my ex-boyfriend I loved him. He said he loved me. I broke up with the other guy just yesterday. My friend told me that she heard my ex-boyfriend say that he doesn't want us to stop being friends if we go out again. My question is "Do you think my ex-boyfriend will ask me out."
Um im not real sure.. dont sound like you have really any signs that he'll ask you out other then him tellin you he loves you..but all you can do is wait and see..much luv dez
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I know this isn't a question relating to "advice", but I'm going to ask it anyways. I was wondering, does anyone know any sites that you can go on to listen to music without downloading? (You just look up your song and your able to listen to it!)
Well we have this thing on our computer called rhapsody..but i think you have to pay for it im not sure tho but you can look it up anyways if you want..much luv dez
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well my bestfriend pressures me. she wanted me to spend the night last night but i was tired from a trip and did not get back till midnight. She is always getting mad at me for that stuff what should i do?
Tell this girl who it is and how it bothers you..much luv dez
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*16 yr-old female*
Okay well me and this guy were together over the summer and our relationship was kind of, well lets just say he wasnt so good at being a boyfriend to one girl. The thing is though that i fell for him and hes the first guy ive ever felt this way for. And i mean hes done some pretty shady things to me but still through all of that im there for him and i support him with everything (*making the college basketball team/new jobs/new car..everything*) and he knows how i feel. Well the other night we were talking online and he was telling me how amazing i am and how he really does love me and what not. Now normally id believe him but i cant because i know that if he truely did, he'd be with me right now and not a bunch of girls, ya know? So what im asking for is what is your perspective on this whole situation. Do you think im worng for not believing him or do you think he really does care but he wont be with me because he doesnt want to hurt me..thanks in advance..x0x
and im sorry its so long
Well this guy could mean it..cause you been there and stuff for him..but most likely he isnt with you so he can mess with who he wants.. most guys could care less anymore if they hurt a female.. and um if that was the reason for him not being with you then he would of told you so.. and no i dont think your wrong for not believing him.. this guy has made it to where you cant trust anything he says..so i feel ya that and i'd probably feel the same way most likely any female would.. but anyways i think he cares for you but not enough to want to be with you..much luv dez
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does anyone know what kind of job an 11 year old could get(this is for my sister)
Well she isnt really old enough for a job.. um maybe a paper route or washing cars or neighbors dogs..much luv dez
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hey. i have these weird little circle indentation things. it crazy its like these little circles on my face. i have no idea why.. any ideas?..
thanks
maybe its wear acne wants or is going to come in at..maybe try an acne wash and see what happens if nothing happens maybe see a doctor..much luv dez
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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back
Yes you should probably give this guy a chance.. but i know what you mean about wanting to go with somebody at your school..sometimes it dont work out cause you see eachother then rumors get spread round sometimes and then things jus get messed up.. so maybe try it and see..but if you dont think it will work seriously then dont waste your time.. maybe give him a chance..much luv dez
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hi, sometimes im selfish..okay, im always selfish. for example if i get an awesome necklace/shirt/pants/earrings/cd/anything::when peoeple ask me where i got them from i never want to tell!! i dont want people coping off me a iguess but it happens so much! and even the stuff i make, okay well i made a necklace out of a guitar pick and then everyone did the same things...etc. it makes me mad! also when i do homework im the same way, i hate when poeple copy me! and my friend, she copies my essays and uses like the same things i do and i take a long time thinking of them, just like a simple sentence. im christian and i know i shouldnt be like this, but i dont know why i am! how can i cure my selfishness??! i wanna be a better person, help me please~~~~!!!!!!!
Well you shouldnt get mad..about somebody wantin to know where you get something at..they must like your style take it as a compliment..and things you do they must like..but i would be selfish too if somebody was copying my work that i do..i would say something..dont jus hold this in if it bothers you..much luv dez
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i cry all the time. and im sick of it. i wish i could stop but i cant, i dont know what to do. i want it to be so that i dont cry at all. or not every day atleast. i feel so weak and helpless when i do. is there any way for me to stop or am i just stuck with it forever? i know this is a stupid question to ask but i really need help with this...
Well do you have a reason to cry...?Maybe your feeling sorry for yourself bout something and dont even realize it.. maybe you need to talk to somebody about whats on your mind or somethig.. much luv dez
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I complain a LOT. And half the time I do it without meaning to...and it's starting to annoy me, let alone the people around me. Any tips on how I can stop complaining, or at least reduce the amount of complaining I do?
I whinge about all sorts of things, from the weather to homework to the fact that I'm tired/hungry/bored...whatever. It sucks, I feel like I don't have a good word to say about anything any more...I want to be positive again, but how?
Wow i like that too..so i can relate to this and everybody tells me that im like that too but i didnt jus like start being like that recently or anything i been like this i jus speak my mind but everybody seems to think i complain..but anyways jus think about what ever you want to say before saying it..and also maybe think positive about everything..theres a positive thing to everything..much luv dez
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I have to sell these gold cards for a fund raiser at my school for us to go on a trip in may... and I sold 4 today but I still have to sell 6 more in order for my whole trip to be payed for and these things are kind of hard to sell b.c. they are $10 each..but they have 142 discounts in a 90 mile radius that u can use as many times up until 10.31.05... any ideas as to where i can go to sell them?
Try a public place like a mall..or something like that..much luv dez
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when i get older im thinking about like adopting 2 kids and having 2 kids, does anyone have any ideas on why this would be a bad idea? i want to adopt because i dont want all my kids to have the same traits as me, but then i wanna have 2 of my own because having a baby that came from you is..good, right? do you think i would favor the kids i created over the ones a adopted?? suggestions, please??! thank you~~~!!!!!!
Well you should love em all the same..and just cause you say this now doent mean your going to do it.. i mean you said when your older so your apparently not old enough to want kids now so i think what ever makes you happy then do it..in the future..much luv dez
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ok... i am a little overweight and I like this guy who is really cute. and my parents own a pizza joint so everytime we get in a fight (which is like everyday), he says that i get loaded from my parents shitty pizza... and i get really offended and i still really like him... should i still be his friend? should i block him from my screen name? help please
Well he sounds like an ass how could you like somebody who says shit like that towards you.. dont let him be like that towards you..you deserve better then that..much luv dez
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ok i have a problem, i like this senior at my school ALOT!!! not only do i see him at school, but i swim with him 8 times a week. im only a sophmore, but i like him so much. we talk all the time and he hugs me and he always calls me his fav. he doesnt have a gf and hes only kissed a person once. hes really extremly smart, and i am really sad that he is leaving...i really dont know what to do about the situation...please help!
Well i dont know exactly what you ment by he's leaving but that must not be good.. well if your still able to see him maybe you should tell him you like him and tell him why you like him..and tell him that your going to miss him when he leaves..but i mean if you think nothing will happen between you guys then i wouldnt try or if you think it wouldnt work cause like he's leaving or something..much luv dez
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hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff
help meeeee
Well i have to respect that you dont wanna tell your mom cause you probably have your reasons..just go to the store and buy pads or tampons and also in side the tampon it tells you how to use em..and when you get cramps jus dont complain bout it and jus take advil or something..much luv dez
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when it comes to tryin to get a guy...how do know when ur tryin too hard, or not hard enuff.Or wen u should give up...??
You should give up if he dont pay any attention to you or shows that he's not interested in you.. and your tryin to hard if you begin to get on thier nerves..jus dont try to hard for any guy cause then apparently they wasnt worth your time..much luv dez
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Hi,
I'm 5"7, aged fourteen and weigh ten stone (which is 140 pounds I think). I know this isn't majorly overweight or anything, but I feel fat and would like, if possible, to gradually get down to nine stone (126 pounds). I wouldn't mind if this took, say a few months.
I exercise regulary but find it hard to stop snacking between meals. Has anyone got any tips into how to stop this?
Or any other gradual-dieting tips.
Any advice would be very much appreciated :-)
well you can probably still snack you mainly jus need to watch your cabs and your calorines..much luv dez
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