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im sorry but i need help with a crush and best friend foreve
ok me and this guy, jeremy have been hanging out. he's a year younger than me (school-wise) because he failed, and we met through my best friend.she and him are good friends, so yeah ;) well jeremy has a friend paul, that likes my friend ewelina... making sense? well the guys drink sometimes. everytime we hang out they are bored because they are sober and vodka gets them to express themselves?! haahaa... weird i know. well the i heard jeremy likes me so i startedmaking small moves o him, like laying on him and stuff and well yesterday he didn't do ANYTHING, AT ALL! then later on he called me while i was at my friends house, and i was hey who is this, he's like your're boyfriend. i was like oH the one that ignored me today? he saoid he didn't ignore me today and that he really likes me and he's nervous AROUND girls he likes. the only reason he said all this was because he drank a little. and then he calls ewelina, and they talked for 73 mins, exactly, haha. they talked about me. he likes me a lot, and he wants to change supposedly . he wants to get serious with me and his friends told me the same thing. today i heard they're going out to drink again and i called them and we talked then went to his friend paul's house. they were sober and we didn't talk at all, we just sat there (me,paul, jeremy, ewelina!) and then me and ewelina left and went to her house and then all of a sudden the doorbell rings. we answer it and its jeremy with 2 of his friends. then ewelina leaves and me and them go to the park to talk. they ask why we don't want them to drink, and i couldn't think of a good reason. then they were like to jeremy (his friends said) ok how about u dont drink on mon, tues, wed, thurs, and friday saturday sunday you can? how does that sound lisa(me)? and i was like i dont control him and he's like dude ill drink whenever i want. i really like the guy and i know him and my friend ewelina have had feelings for each other in the past and paul likes ewelina so thats why jeremy ANd ewelina never went out. one of jeremy's friends today metnioned that if paul was a good friend he's let jeremy go out with ewelina. she's my best friend and i loove her to DEATH but i don't know what to do anymre. she's not gonna go out with paul and i want to go out with jeremy and he knows that. so how do i get jeremy to stop drinkinking and how do i tell him and good reason to show that I CARE!!!!!!!????? and should I worry about jeremy and ewelina? i rate 5's for good answrers. thanks babes!
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Well um a good reason to probably get him to stop drinkin is to tell him that you do care for him.. i mean thats the truth you care for him and you want him to stop drinkin..jus tell him how you dont want anything to happen to him cause he drinks..and if ewelina is a true friend and knowing you like jeremy she wont go with him.. so you probably shouldnt worry about it..unless you dont like trust her or something.. but also you should talk to this guy more about how you like him..well people have told you he likes you and he's told you himself so why isnt something going on with you guys thats what i dont get... but anyways i hope i helped much luv dez
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wow that was long but ok.
1. You can't control him and tell him to stop drinking. If he cares for you a lot and sees that it is bothing you he should be willing to stop him self other wise guys end up using the word "wipped" haha sorry that work make me laugh..anyway. If your friend isn't going to make a move on eather one of them then you should make a move.
2. Talk to your friend and tell her your feeling for this guy and see if she would mind if anything would happen between you two.
3. If he doesn't stop drinking make sure you know what you are getting your self into.
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Sorry, that got REALLY confusing at the end, if you can maybe try and get it together a little and more understanding give me an inbox and ill be HAPPY to help you! sorry.!
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I can guarantee that getting Jeremy to stop drinking will be more difficult than just nagging him to quit. He sounds like he has a large group of friends that won't let go of him that easily. I worry about you getting caught up in that world by going out with him, too, so be careful. He definitely isn't worth ruining your life so early.
I would worry about Jeremy and Ewelina, because it sounds like Jeremy "expresses" himself when he's drunk, and that could end badly for you and Ewelina. Be careful, chica. He sounds like he's caught up with Ewelina, and he definitely isn't worth wasting your time trying to get him to change his ways.
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