Question Posted Saturday February 19 2005, 3:36 pm
ok i have a problem, i like this senior at my school ALOT!!! not only do i see him at school, but i swim with him 8 times a week. im only a sophmore, but i like him so much. we talk all the time and he hugs me and he always calls me his fav. he doesnt have a gf and hes only kissed a person once. hes really extremly smart, and i am really sad that he is leaving...i really dont know what to do about the situation...please help!
ChrisAntz answered Saturday February 19 2005, 5:35 pm: Hey it's gonna be okay!
Love conquers and love loses. It's all a part of life, trust me one day you will find somebody as good and mabye better as him!
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday February 19 2005, 4:40 pm: Well i dont know exactly what you ment by he's leaving but that must not be good.. well if your still able to see him maybe you should tell him you like him and tell him why you like him..and tell him that your going to miss him when he leaves..but i mean if you think nothing will happen between you guys then i wouldnt try or if you think it wouldnt work cause like he's leaving or something..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
sumpterislovex3 answered Saturday February 19 2005, 4:22 pm: He sounds like a great guy! He's shown some interest in you, apparently, from what it sounds like, so I think you should really be the one to make the next move. Let him know how you feel about him, while you've still got him here. ♥ [ sumpterislovex3's advice column | Ask sumpterislovex3 A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday February 19 2005, 4:14 pm: Aww, you definitely need to talk to this guy and tell him how you feel! It sounds like he likes you too, since he always talks to you and hugs you and calls you his favorite. Talk to him before you lose the chance of being with him before he leaves. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday February 19 2005, 4:06 pm: Wow, in a situation like this, I think I would be straight up and tell him I like him. It might be a little difficult, but I think that's what I'd do.
I mean, he's leaving! If you don't tell him now, you may lose your chance. Wouldn't you regret it forever if you didn't even try? I would...
There doesn't seem to be much of a chance of him turning you down, but just in case, I suggest (if you do decide to tell him, that is) you tell him that no matter what, you don't want anything to change between you two - you just felt like you had to tell him. In your own words, of course.
You could always just mention something like your friends said you two would make a cute couple ("isn't that crazy?") and see what he says.
BUT if they haven't said anything remotely like that, I don't reeeeeeeeeally suggest lying.
You can do whatever you want, because in the end the choice is yours, however, I do strongly suggest telling the boy. You know him, you're already friends, etc.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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