about

I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

advice

This guy I like asked me out...but my best friend used to be just ga-ga over him so I thought he was off limits. Then I talked to my friend and said it was ok and we've been going out for a little while...my friend tells me all these things about him and how much of a guy he is (if ya know what I mean) but I figure he can show me who he is better than anyone else can tell me right? Well, anyways, everybody keeps warning me about him but as far as I can see, there's absolutely nothing wrong with him...I really like him and he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that's...ya know...a guy...but how do I ever tell for sure wether he just wants some or really cares about me?

16/f

Well if he hasnt asked you for anything bad like sex or anything then ovibously he doesnt want to rush into things .. meaning he cares about you. I think your friend may just be jealous becuase i mean even thought she said shes fine with it she may get a little jealous / all girls do eventually. Give him some time. You could invite him over and then just start a conversation and bring up this sitution. If he really cares about you he'll tell you! Good Luck ♥//ALMA

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ok this might be long but i really need advice
ok this summer i went to an over night camp for about 5 weeks and i hooked up with a guy that is 3 years older then me. we kissed and held hands and sometimes he would touch my breasts and my ass and put his hand down my pants But one night it went a little to far and we had sex then the next day he broke up with me then he left to go back to his home and i was still @ camp Then all the guys at camp were asking me outa nd stuff and it made me feel special but then this one guy asked me out lets call him bob. I really like bob alot so i went out with him and stuff then one thing led to another and stuff and we had sex and it was so good but that was my last week at camp so i went home me and all my friends always hung out @ this ark down the street from me and stuff And then ppl started asking me if i wanted to come over to their house for the night and this kid that hangs out with us letrs call him dan started to grab my but and my breasts then they all come over to my hosue and everyone left exept dan and he came one to me and started to un zip my pants and shit and i ened up giving a blowjob...then 2 nights ago i slept over my friends house because my parents were gone for a night and they didn't trust me so i was in the guestroom and i guess it was about 2am and her older brother came into my room only in his boxers and i was just in my see thru thong with no shirt on and he started dto kiss me and touch me and said take off my thong and i did *because her brother is hott) and then we had sex it was the best! and then the next morning he came into the shower with me and we had sex agian and then he told everyone and now im called a Slut but im not really Am I? and boys touch my ass and breast and try to put there hands down my pants but i don't know...if i am a slut pllz give me ways that i can not become a slut. Thanx

Of course its slutty. You are having sex with random guys for the fun of it. and said take off my thong and i did *because her brother is hott) That right there really explains you well.. so what you are saying is if a guy is hot, yea i would have sex with him . You could get pregant or get a disease and i can honestly say, NONE of those guys would even care. You have just totalie ruined your rep. If you dont want to be called a slut anymore then stop sleeping around with guys. And another thing.. havent your parents ever thought you on how to say no? Because you could just simply say no to those guys who touch you. You see guys tell each other almost as much as girls tell each other, and when a guy sleeps with a girl and said it wasnt that hard to get you in bed then all his friends are going to do excatly what he did to get you in bed. All you can do now is just go clean and have no sex or do anything bad for a while to get your rep back.. good luck ♥//ALMA

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hey omg i rele wanna use a douche bag...but i dont know where to find any...i also dont want my parents to find out i used one so i cant order it online or anything obvious like that! what should i do? thanks!

I DONT WHAT A douche bag IS S0 UHM I CANT REALLY HELP MUCH .. BUT I LO0KED IT UP .. THAT DIDNT HELP MAYBE G0ING 0N EBAY BUT IDK SINCE YO0 D0NT WANT YO0R PARENTS T0 FIND 0UT .. ASK S0ME 0F YO0R FRIENDS MAYBE THEY KN0W.. MAYBE A ST0RE NEED YO0 SELLS THEM. SORRY I CANT BE MUCH HELP. ♥//ALMA

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one of my best friends had sex in a pool with this random guy. is that safe? do guys need condoms underwater? can the water be too deep or too shallow? too hot or cold? will the guys penis shrink if he is in the water too long? is it unhealthy? i am just a little bit worried by this and i need some advice. please respond quickly thanks

This isn't safe at all. She can still get pregneant even thought she was underwater. It doesn't matter how the water is, i dont think. If you are so worried then talk to your friend about it and maybe she should get a pregeancy test. Good Luck ♥//ALMA

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hoos ali baba

I D0NT KN0W BUT IMMA LO0K HIM UP [[5 MINUTES LATER... HES JUST A ST0RY CHARACTER! ♥//ALMA

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Can you take aerosols (i.e. body spray and spray deo) on planes, either in hand luggage or in your suitcase?

YEA YO0 CAN BUT I D0NT THINK THEY WILL LET YO0 USE IT 0N THE PLANE BECUASE O0F 0THER PE0PLES ALLERGIES AND SUCH S0RT! H0PE I HELPED ♥//ALMA

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I have a friend who says I am her "best friend". Well, lately she hasn't been inviting me places. Like, she is always with other people. I have caught on that everytime she invites me out her other friends are busy. Do you think I am her second choice or maybe I am just overreacting? I have talked to her about it but she makes excuses.

SHES JUST USING YO0 F0R WHEN HER 0THER FRIENDS CANT D0 ANYTHING ! IF I WERE YO0 ID JUST DITCH HER! I MEAN WHY W0ULD YO0 WANT A FRIEND WH0 0NLY WANTS T0 BE FRIENDS WHEN SHE NEEDS YO0 ? I BET YO0 CAN FIND BETTER FRIENDS! ♥//ALMA

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Im 14 about to b 15..whats a good way to have a b-day party n December.. My b-day is In the later December after Christmas PLEASE HELP!

YO0 C0ULD G0 ICE SKATING O0R YO0 C0ULD JUST HAVE S0ME 0F YO0R CL0SEST FRIENDS 0VER AND RENT A M0VIE AND JUST HAVE A WARM SLUMBER PARTY! GIRLS R NEVER TO0 0LD TO0 HAVE A SLUMBER PARTY! YO0 C0ULD ALS0 INVITE A C0UPLE 0F GUYS 0VER T0 WATCH THE M0VIE TO0 ! HEHE GO0D LUCK ♥//ALMA

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I need some help do you think that I guy should like you for who you are or what you look like

I THINK A GUY SH0ULD LIKE YO0 F0R WH0 YO0 R BUT N0T ALL GUYS R LIKE THAT .. THATS JUST H0W THEY R BUT IT SH0ULDNT MATTER WHAT A GIRL LO0KS LIKE ITS HER INSIDE THAT C0UNTS BUT GUYS R JUST LIKE THAT ! ♥//ALMA

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i love this girl. But not in a love love way. as a friend, and i am a girl myself. but i love her alot. noo not as in girlfriend love dont get the wrong idea. but when i told her i loved her she thought i loved her as in more then a friend and she blocked me on aim. what should i do? i tried calling but she wont pick up

UHM LEAVE HER A MESSAGE WHEN YO0 CALL NEXT TIME ADN EXPLAIN T0 HER THAT YO0 DIDNT MEAN IT IN A LESBIAN WAY! JUST EXLPAIN T0 HER THAT YO0 L0VE HER IN A FRIEND KINDA WAY LIKE A SISTER! SHE SH0ULD UNDERSTAND THEN.. IF SHE D0ESNT THEN IDK ♥//ALMA

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My friend weighs like 70lbs and she can't gain weight and she just turned 12!!! Is this normal? ( oh yea and she eats like a PIG)

THIS JUST MEANS SHE HAS A HIGH METAB0LISM ! SHE MIGHT BE A LITTLE UNDERWEIGHT BUT IF SHE EATS AND D0ESNT THR0W ALL THE FO0D UP ! SHES PERFECTLY N0RMAL! ♥//ALMA

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ok i was wondering if i want to cange the color of a font and make it bold do i just TEXT HERETEXT HERE and put what i want it to say in were it says "text here" or will the writting come out twice? can someone help me out. o yea adn this is for xanga.

WHERE IT SAYS TEXT HERE - ERASE JUST THAT N0THING ELSE N0T THE BECUASE THEN IT W0NT W0RK THEN WHEN YO0 ERASE THE TEXT HERE BETWEEN THE < && > TYPE WHAT YO0 WANT IT T0 SAY! LIKE HERES AN EXAMPLE T0 B0LD A W0RD - TEXT HERE CHANGE TO HEYY! H0PE I HELPED ♥//ALMA

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There's this guy named Justin. He is on my sport team. I see him every Monday and Wednesday. I really like him, but i'm not sure if he likes me..
How can you tell if a guy who is really shy, likes you?
I'll rate!

WELL USUALLY IF A GUY IS SHY THE WAY HE WILL TALK T0 A GIRL IS WHEN THERES N0 0NE AR0UND! HE WILL JUST C0ME UP T0 YO0 AND ASK YO0 MAYBE 0UT ! BUT SINCE HES S0 SHY WHY D0NT YO0 TRY TALKING T0 HIM GET T0 KN0W HIM M0RE ASK HIM 0VER F0R A M0VIE AND P0PC0RN !AND YO0 GUYS WILL DEFINTLY B0UND! HEHE H0PE I HELPED ♥//ALMA

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Do you think that it is wrong to talk to an ex while dating someone else? I am with this guy right now and he doesnt trust me so he went into my cell and checked my text messages and found that an ex had been text messaging me. We are in a big arguement now about weather or not its ok to talk to an ex. Please help

WELL IT DEPENDS.. ARE YO0 TALKING T0 YO0R EX JUST AS A FRIEND C0NVERSATI0N O0R ARE YO0 STARTING T0 HAVE FEELINGS FO0R HIM ? I TALK T0 MY EXS ALL THE TIME BUT YEA 0F C0URSE YO0R CURRENT BF IS GO0ING T0 GET A LITTLE JEAL0US BUT YO0 NEED T0 TELL HIM THAT YO0R JUST FRIENDS AND YO0 HAVE N0 FEELINGS F0R YO0R EX AND THAT YO0 L0VE HIM [[YO0R CURRENT BF]] A L0T! HEHE I H0PE EVERYTHING W0RKS 0UT ♥//ALMA

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what is spooning?

ITS CUDDELING ! T0GETHER IN THE SAME P0SITI0N.. ITS USUALLY SH0WN IN M0VIES L0L ♥//ALMA

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how do you believe in yourself...

WELL YO0 HAVE T0 BE C0NFIDENT IN YO0RSELF! THINK P0SITIVE! AND WHEN PE0PLE SAY 0MG YO0R S0 PRETTY O0R GO0D THINGS LIKE THAT BELIVE THEM! BECUASE I D0NT THINK THEY W0ULD LIE T0 YO0 UNLESS THEY HATED YO0! YO0 JUST HAVE T0 THINK VERY GO0D 0F YO0RSELF! AND BE PR0UD O0F WH0 YO0 R 0N THE INSIDE AND 0UT! ♥//ALMA

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School starts soon, and I want a new hairstyle, but I don't know what to do. I always left it down last year. This year I want to try something new. I have thick,straight,blonde hair. Like if I should cut or highlight etc. Any ideas would help, plz!

WELL SINCE YO0 HAVE STRAIGTH BL0NDE HAIR WHAT YO0 C0ULD D0 IS GET LIKE HIGHLIGHTS THAT ARE BLACK BUT LIKE AIRBRUSH HIGHLIGHTS! KINDA LIKE WHAT CRISTINA AUGILARA [[SP]] HAD ! I THINK THAT W0ULD REALLY CUTE! AND YO0 C0ULD GET GET SIDE BANGS THAT WILL ALWAYS LO0K CUTE! WITH YO0R HAIR UP O0R D0WN! I D0NT THINK YO0 SH0ULD GET IT CUT A L0T MAYBE JUST SPIT ENDS! GO0D LUCK! ♥//ALMA

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there is like 15 days till SCHOOL STARTS!

HAHA YEA.. SUMMERS O0VER SO0 SOO0N..G0SH L0L ♥//ALMA

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whats [[sp?]]

THATS WHAT I USE TO0 TELL PPL THAT I KN0W I DIDNT SPELL THE W0RD RIGHT.. HEHE H0PE YO0 GET IT N0W ♥//ALMA

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hey well this isnt really asking for advice but um well my name is alma too and im 13 brunnet and bosnian,i think its weird that ur name is the same and same age and same color of hair well aim me at almaforeva

THIS IS FUNNY AS HELL.. 0H MY FLIPPIN G0D! THIS IS REALLY TRUE! S0 FLIPPIN AWES0ME! HAHA KO0LNESS! ♥//ALMA

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