about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

So theres this guy that i've likes for three years and he likes this girl that i've always hated and so the boy and i are freidns cuz we talk and everything and he broke up with the girl i hated and so i was liek maybe i should make a move then he got back with her and now they broke up aagin. so i really wanna try and get his attention and i mean i guess im pretty cuz i always get compliments and a lot of guys ask me out but not the right guy, so wat can i do to get him 2 look at me as a girlfreind?

first off i would relax. it sounds like he isnt really over her yet, if he keeps going out with her. second to get his attention flirt with him. in a way that will show him that you like him more then a friend. if i were you i would be careful because you dont want to ruin your friendship with him to go out with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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im 15/f almost 16 and i am a small girl.. 5'5 but 150 lbs.. it soudns like alot and it kind of is.. but i dont look fat... i am a little chubby espeically my stomache and my arms, even though i look like decent i really want to lose like alot of weight. first so i can have confidence and wear things id want to. 2nd just so i can be comfortable and 3 i really want to look good for my upcoming sophmoreformal


what can i do to atleast lose like 20 lbs within like 2 months? im a 9/10 -11/12 in pants now and i want to get in a solid 5/6 or 7/8

help i have no self confidnce!!

sorry that i didnt answer you question earlier. but i am going to answer it now. the eastiest way and non stress full way to loose weight is to eat whatever you want because eating whatever isnt the probably it is what you eat. so if you cut down on food. i promise you will lose weight. you can alway work out. like do some sit ups, crunches, push ups, and run and everyday in crease the amount by a lil bit. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm not having sex, but the month is almost over and I haven't had my period yet. I run track and that's about it. Is there any reason why it hasn't come on? Please help me asap. thank u

it could be because of stress and the first couple years 2-4 years are irruglar and dont always come when they are supposed to. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay ...I had have 2 blood infusion before.
my question is does my DNA change by getting blood from someone else ?

It may be a stupid question but I have be wondering??

nope it should. i dont think there is a way for it to change.
*~Stephanie~*

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13/f

i was recently raped and im scared. the guy who raped me..was my bedt friends boyfriend (shes 14 hes 15 turning 16) and im scared. i have nightmares about it and im afraid to go to sleep..i keep getting calls that have perverted breathing for like 15 seconds then he hangs up i havent told anyone..and im SCARED!! he threatend to kill me and my family..what should i do??

you have to tell someone! tell your family about. if you dont tell anyone then no one will help you and your sistution will get worse and you will stay scared forever and hemight even do what he said he would so i would tell someoen right away. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm a 7th grader and i'm pretty good at ball i play for the highschool jv team and i'm atleast in the top 6. I don't have a lot of confidents so i tend to not to play as hard. How could I get my confident up?

Basketball is my favorite sport and i think you should have passion in it. dont play hard to win but play for the fun of it. i mean winning is fun and all but if you dont have fun in it there is no need for it you know. to build your confidence up i think you should think about how important you think it is and how it can get you places in life. (like college schoolerships) and how you can even go pro. hope this helps. if not i am sorry.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so last year (i was dumb and i regret it) this guy was EXTREMELY persuasive and i would never do anything like it, but this guy totally made me want to take pictures of myself. not nude but not much on. this year we dont at all talk-i mean at all and he goes to a different school. and i dont want to talk to him. but i always worry hes going to post the pictures of me on teh internet or send them to someone. it really bothers me and no one really knows of my friends/family. it scares me of the possibility of posting the pictures. i know its my fault, but sometimes persuasion works. i want help, but to anyone who reads this-just a reminder from someone, whatever you send to someone or put something somewhere-anyone has access to it. sorry its long.

if you used to talk to him and you guys were friends i dont think he would do something like that no matter what. i mean you trusted him with your pictures he should at least respect that and not only respectyou but himself. and you are right about pictures online. everyone should read that and understand it and be aware and warned. i dont think you should worry about it to much he might have just lost them or throw them away.

*~Stephanie~*

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male/17. i feel that lately whenever i talk to my girlfriend i get hard. or even when i think about her. i don't think about her in a sexual/lustful way, and havn't been. we don't talk about things on that topic anyway, but why is this happening? is it normal? i'm not sexually active or have had sex or anything. i almost never have thoughts that would cause it or anything, so when it does happen i feel like theres something wrong with me, since its almost involuntary. i havn't told her yet, but i think she might have noticed but i'm not sure, its really embarrasing. what should i do, because i'm not thinking about those kind of things and happens even when i just think about her or talk about her. please help

the same thing happens with my boyfriend he always has the same reaction when he is talking to me and even when i am with him and we arent even doing anything. it is perfectly normal. i can tell you that much. i dont know how you should handle it because it all depends how long you guys have been goin out and how she feels about you. i have been with my bf for 8 months i always know that happened and he never told me until about a month ago. some girls think it is a turn on and others dont. it all depends. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I know that when a girl first has sex, it [usually] hurts. So, are there any cons for the boys when they first have sex? Do any disadvantages come with it (pain, etc.)


thnx

nothing happens to them we get all the pain..
*~Stephanie~*

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I need your help. I have been going out with this guy for five months now. He is a very nice person, he treats me well, and we have fun together.

The main problem is recently he lied to me. We were supposed to meet, but he did not appear. He claimed he was carjacked. He has keys to my house, so he went and took money and pretended the carjackers did it.

I want to forgive him but I'm not sure what to do. He asked for forgiveness and promised that this incident will never be repeated. Can I trust him again?

but i raelly luv him and i dont know what to do :(:(

i would forgive him but tell him he has to gain trust again from you and not you just give it to him. i wouldnt leave him for somethin like that because if you love him you will forgive him.
*~Stephanie~*

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i want to go to comm. college for a year then transfer to a university but does it look bad to the university that ive been to community college? like-- would they think i didnt get into a university?

if i were you i would go two year to a community college then 2 years to a universirty. because the first two years are always going to eb general education. why pay twice as much for the same thing. and when you got o a community college you have a higher chance getting into a university then you would just gettin into it.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay, well my boyfriend broke up with me and it took me sometime to get over him. When I finally got over him, someone else asked me out. I thought I liked him at first .. he's funny and nice, but sensitive and shy. Then I found out that my ex wanted me back, I really want to go back out with him. But, I don't know how to break up with him. He really likes me, and he'll be like devastated when I break up with him. I don't know what to do ..

i get what both the perople below are saying. if i were you i would think about the pros and cons about both of them. i mean your ex broke your heart once do you really want him to break it again? i would just stick to the guy you are with because your ex had his chance and he lost it. but in the end all i can say is follow your heart. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I like this boy who is 4 years older than me. I am 13 years old.He has alot of respect for me and everyone else. I think he likes me. Today he gave me a heart from his fingers and was trying to hug me. He is really funny.He doesn't go with anybody.I don't know if I should go with him because of the age difference. Should I go for it or what?

i think if you like this go for it. i used to be in the same situition as you are in now. i would give it a chance because age is only a number. a couple points i would like to tell you about.
1) make sure you dont ever do what you dont want to do
2) since he is older he might want to get somethin from you (sex)
3) just be careful
4) i would end the realtionship be4 he turns 18 because he can go to jail for that.
hope this helps. and i hope everything works out.
*~Stephanie~*

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So I have had my cell phone since November (2005), I have a plan with my mom with Verizon for like, 2 years I think. I want to switch to Sprint, do I have to wait to do that till after my two years with Verizon is up? Cause I don't want too, lol.
Any help would much much appreciated, thank you.

i am in the same situition as you except both my parents have a plan with verizon and they want to switch to T- mobile and add me with them but they cant until there two year agreement ends. other wise you have to pay 200 dollars. and it is a contract and your mom probably signed it saying that.
*~Stephanie~*

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what is the formula for the are of a triangle?

(b)(h)(1/2)

b= base

h= hieght

1/2 = half the total
*~Stephanie~*

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14 female
How can I tell if a guy likes me???

does he flirt with you? how he acts around.. to test if a guy likes you try messing eith him like touching and etc. (bacially flirt) and then see his reaction. he reacts in a way like he likes it then he likes you.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay so, my boyfriend calls me everynight and half the time I dread his calls. DONT GET ME WRONG; I really really like him, but I Hate the phone. Like he's kinda shy so theres always that ackward silence and idk I've never liked talking on the phone. I always feel guilty cause I always make some excuse to hang up to end the ackwardness and since I hate talking on the phone. He doesn't have AIM so we can't talk on that .. soo what do I do?

i think you should tell him about it. just tell him not to take it personally but that you just never liked talking on the phone. i mean your not like the only person that hates the phone.
*~Stephanie~*

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help there is this dance on saturday that im going to with this guy but im gnna make a fool of myself cause i cnt grind:( cal someone help plz ill rate 5

grinding is simple. trust me i was just like you. here is all you got to d. pur your booty on the guys penis and move it all around and shake it. like you can do it round and round, side to side, and up and down.. (he he) and you can do it fast or slow which ever you want but most guys like it medium. hpe this helps. if you need anyhting else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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I would like teenagers to answer this one,

My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be?

no a days everthing is different ever person is different everyone likes something new and i dont think it would be right of you to interferr with your daughters liek ebcause she is who she is and no one should change that.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so recently i've found someone that i really do love and he loved me too. But this other girl came into the picture and he left me.i still have this feeling that he loves me, but its not enough for him to leave this girl. so how can i show him or make him remeber, everything that me and him had before this other girl came?.ill rate all 5's

13/f

please dont say "ur to young to be in love and be worrying bout guys". cus if you even believe in love,, you know that you can be in love at any age. and this isnt just some stupid teen love. its the real deal. so please none of those replys, cus i really do love him.

hey girly! i always tell this to my friend that are older then you by one year. if the go loves you hee wotn leave you for no one no matter who or what. i know this isnt what you are askign but i think you should just let go and if he comes back you will know he loves you back.

since you want to know what to do i suggest mayb calling him and talking to him about it. maybe even writting him a note and giveing it to him and explain to him how you feel and tell him everything you want to tell him. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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