ok so recently i've found someone that i really do love and he loved me too. But this other girl came into the picture and he left me.i still have this feeling that he loves me, but its not enough for him to leave this girl. so how can i show him or make him remeber, everything that me and him had before this other girl came?.ill rate all 5's
13/f
please dont say "ur to young to be in love and be worrying bout guys". cus if you even believe in love,, you know that you can be in love at any age. and this isnt just some stupid teen love. its the real deal. so please none of those replys, cus i really do love him.
Paper_Heartsz answered Monday March 20 2006, 8:50 pm: Guys are guys. and some are jerks like that.
And I'm sorry to hear that he left you for some other girl that he is probably going to do the same to her.
Maybe you should call the guy up, invite him to come to the movies, mall, hang out at your house or anything that can get you two to be alone together.
Soon he would realize how much you meant to him before this girl came into his life.
missmissgurl answered Monday March 20 2006, 7:28 pm: I totally can relate, as much as this hurts if this boy loved you he wouldnt of done this. Ik what yur thinking wtf no, well he probably played you and I'm sooo sorry honey. This boy did the same to me and I really loved him but he was a player. I would play it off like your totally fine and it doesnt affect you even though you are really crying your eyes out, and be like omg you two look soo good together. I know it'll kill you and I bet theres barely anything stopping you from just wanting to kill yourself PLEASE DON'T, but you need to do this for yourself honey if you need anything u can email me I'm going through the exact same thing. missmiss09@hotmail.com [ missmissgurl's advice column | Ask missmissgurl A Question ]
Ringingphones answered Monday March 20 2006, 5:56 pm: Even though it's really hard, don't be jealous for this new girl. Try (i know how hard it is!) to feel happy for them! you know how you felt when you met him? Happy and bubbly? The new girl most likely feels the smae way. So cry those last tears and move on.:'( [ Ringingphones's advice column | Ask Ringingphones A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday March 20 2006, 12:20 pm: hey girly! i always tell this to my friend that are older then you by one year. if the go loves you hee wotn leave you for no one no matter who or what. i know this isnt what you are askign but i think you should just let go and if he comes back you will know he loves you back.
since you want to know what to do i suggest mayb calling him and talking to him about it. maybe even writting him a note and giveing it to him and explain to him how you feel and tell him everything you want to tell him. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
durgahelps answered Monday March 20 2006, 9:57 am: Hello! I'm 17 and i faced the same problem you are now. i was really into this guy, and i had so many things about us planned in my mind then a girl came and he left me. And i did whatever i could to get him back. i talked to him about how we were together and i would smile at him and be really nice to him, but he liked that girl.
Then the best thing happened.i usually write stuff in a diary and i was reading through it and this is what i saw.
1. my boyfriend likes another girl better
2.i am still hanging on to a love he no longer believes in
3. i'd probably take him back if he realises soon that the girl was not to his taste, but what if it happened again
4. i don't want his pity or anything cos i'm a great person, that's why he liked me but i'm not that person anymore!
My advice: He didn't believe in your love, are you sure you want to have him back? Ignore him and try to do other things to take your mind off it. You'll think much more highly of yourself after that.
Cheers
Durga [ durgahelps's advice column | Ask durgahelps A Question ]
sexyangel71690 answered Monday March 20 2006, 8:38 am: Well tell him that you love him and if he says you dont know what your talkin about tell him that you know how you feel and you never felt as strongly about someone. Sometimes they maybe stubborn but being completely honest works best. Sooner or later she will [robably be gone and he may come back. Not all relationships last and if it does its rare. [ sexyangel71690's advice column | Ask sexyangel71690 A Question ]
hilda32 answered Monday March 20 2006, 3:47 am: Hey hun
im 13 to lol ( thought id tell u lol ) well um you cant really take a girl out of a picture from a guy thats really hard but hang around with him just joke around and everything im sure he will remember and if he dosnt then he isnt a true friend or a lover boy just talk to him just tell him how you feel adn you dont want things to change because you loved the way they were and tell him if a girl is gonna take that away he should be more careful about what he chooses and tell him you have deep feelings for him but if he dosnt have the feelings in return then tell him its fine as long as use can be friends :):) well i hoped i helped :)
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