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18/f
I am the same person who asked you earlier today about whether or not the guy was turned off when I made out with him. The thing is I kissed him again the night after but we made out with really slow kisses and I still never kissed his neck/wrapped arms around his neck even though he did for me. Do you think he was disappointed? Also, when I said I was rubbing up and down his chest and stomach, I meant with my hands, not my body...was that a turnoff or no?
No.
My parents have been married for 31 years. My Dad is a jerk, cheated on my mom several times early in the marriage, was an alcoholic & is now just plain mean to my mom. He treates her like a slave. My dad has been going outside on the patio, smoking cigars & playing online poker/games for over 2 years now. Just recently my sister & I were sitting on the sofa watching TV. She turned around & saw that my dad had a small window up with porn on it. My mom is a Christian & they both go to church. I KNOW she wont be okay with this especially because she meets all of his "physical needs" when every he wants. I have been very convicted about this & think I should tell her. Please give me your advice. Thanks.
I fail to see how it's any of your business.
18/f
I have had my fair share of kissing guys but I'm really worried when I made out with this one guy I did something wrong. I haven't made out in awhile and I was really intimidated by him, and when we were kissing in the car I rubbed up and down his chest/stomach. I wrapped arms for a little and also grabbed/squeezed/rubbed his hips and pulled on his shirt where his hips were. He kissed my neck and put his arms around my neck, but I never kissed or touched his neck at all. Basically, I am scared he thinks I am a bad kisser or is annoyed that I didn't kiss or touch his neck at all. Is rubbing his stomach/chest and where I put my hands on his hips turn off? Is it a deal breaker where I put my hands and because I never kissed his neck/wrapped my arms around his neck?
If it's a deal breaker, then he's an asshole that doesn't deserve to make out with you.
Chill out, you didn't do anything wrong. Nothing you did was a turn off. Kiss his neck next time, and see what his reaction is.
So, I've had this tiny red dot on my hand, VERY tiny. I've had it for about a year or two. Today I decided to poke it with a needle thingy. I dipped it in alcohol first. I didn't even have to poke deep, once it penetrated blood was flowing out of it for a while. A lot of blood for a tiny dot. The blood looked normal to me. It stopped bleeding when I put a lot of pressure on it. It stopped, then I sucked on it & it started again. I put a pressure again. Now its back to a dry red dot. I have no idea what it is. I'm a little worried too. I also don't want it opening up in my sleep or anything. I cannot see a doctor so don't say see a doctor.
Put a band aid on it and don't do it again.
-Dr. Matt
is the lead singer of day of fire the same person as the ex drummer for korn
No.
I wrote this guy that I like a note. But I don't know if I should give it to him . The note say's .
[Persons Name]
Well I don't know what to do, Since that night i've done so much thinking! Yeah my feeling's for you came back and I don't know what to do, You said your not gonna date me because of my age but if you really like someone you should say age as just a number. It hurt me three years ago when you left... I wish still to this day i would of left my ex for you but I didn't. When you left alot of shit happened in my life and I still can't trust guy's but for some reason there's something about you that I know I can trust. I guess what i'm saying is I see something different in you.... When she said the same thing is gonna happen to me that happened with your ex's, I didn't know what to think... And I still don't but deep down inside of me it's telling me your not gonna give me a chance and to lose the feeling I have for you but I don't know... I guess the reason I wrote this note is because I wouldn't be able to say all of this to your face without tearing up... I don't know I guess what i need to know is should I push these feeling's away? I know you still love and care about her you can't deny it. When you called me baby that one night I was stuck and I was confused. You keep giving me mixed single's and your playing with my mind... I need to know how you feel, Can you PLEASE answer me that? I sure hope so....
Do you think i should give it to him ? I need advice like ASAP
If I was him and I got this note, I'd say fuck this and get out of there.
My daughter will be 21 in February and is planning a trip to Las Vegas with her best friend and a few other people in March. I have several problems with this mainly because of the area and what goes on in Vegas. Along with that is a little bit of mistrust with my daughter from previous mistakes. I gave the option of her being able to go it her father and I went but stayed in a separate room from her and her friends. Not to mention her friend's mother is paying for the room. She does not think this is fair and I am looking to hear opinions on wether I should allow her to go parent-free or not. Is my option fair?
Your daughter is an adult. What you think are options are really just your own opinions and hopes.
i want to know wat people think about people who start random fights for no reason
I think they probably win most of the time.
I have been with this guy for 2 years.
We have been through a lot, for a year we had to sneak around because my dad didnt like him.
He made me so happy though and I had so much fun with him.
He even told me his deepest secret-that he was raped when he was 4.
He smokes weed a lot and never seems to be able to quit. He has a lot of problems. I used to not mind the weed thing, but now I have outgrown it and it annoys me he depends on it...
He is also not legally allowed to get a job. This frusterates me a great deal that I always pay, then I feel bad because I know its impossible for him to get one...
Anyways we fight a lot now. I love him, but I do not believe I am still "in love". I promised him I would stay with him forever and help him with his problems.
I have kept thinking about seperating but I always second-guess if I should...
If I decide I am trunly unhappy, I will...I just do not know how....he is soo sensitive and has even told me he would kill himself if I left him. He is madly in love with me and I am the only one that gets him...
What should I do? What do I say to the poor guy if I leave him?
:(
I'm so unhappy and lost right now....
20/f
I don't have advice for you, but as far as food for thought/general confusion and curiosity...
How is it that he can afford marijuana and yet you're always stuck paying for both of you? Doesn't make sense to me. Enlighten?
Is it possible to be in love with a guy who lives in a different state and who I only met once and only hung out with once for a short period of time? I'm 16 and I am a young lady.
Infatuation.
How much this application of antivirus software rates?
http://www.avast.com/free-antivirus-download
Free.
what are some non-profit organizations that do a lot of traveling to 3rd world countries (or anywhere), helping kids, or people? I want to get involved with an organization that allows me to travel as well as make a difference.
The United Nations.
I guilted my girlfriend into a threesome. She told me some months back that she was "slightly" bi-curious. I thought it sounded kind of hott to have a threesome so I really did pressure her to do it with me and this girl she knows (who is openly bisexual). We had the threesome last week, and I did penetrate both my girlfriend and the other girl, but now I feel really bad and guilty. When it was happening, I felt really good though, but now I kind of even feel like I cheated on my girlfriend. My girlfriend doesn't act like anything differently has happened, but inside I feel bad that I pushed her into doing it. I asked her how she felt now that it's happened and she said she feels weird and wants to put it behind her. What can I do to feel less bad, I guess, is what I'm asking? I really liked the threesome and getting to have sex with the other girl but I wish I didn't. I'm torn.
What you did was wrong, and it's good that you recognize this and want to move forward. What you should definitely not do is have a threesome with a guy to "even the score." That is probably some of the worst advice I've ever read on this site, and I've been wasting my life on this godforsaken website for over six years. Doing that would totally decimate your relationship.
What you should do is communicate with your girlfriend about how wrong it was and how sorry you are. This pressured threesome is the sign of bigger issues in your relationship than your desire to quench a thirst. The threesome and your resulting guilt may have put it to bed temporarily, but the issues will be exposed again eventually if you two don't figure out what the root of the problem is and act on fixing it. That you would request a threesome is one thing, but that she would allow herself to be manipulated into actually going through with it despite feeling uncomfortable says much more.
You seem like a good guy deep down, so I really do hope that you're able to work out the issues in your relationship for the better. Communication is going to be the means by which you achieve this.
Are hazel eyes blue, gray, or brown and green?
My cousin always said she had hazel colored eyes when she was growing up. Her eyes are like a blue/gray color.
But then last year we were talking about eye color in science and my teacher was helping someone with her eye color because her eyes were like a light brown with some green color. He told her that she had hazel eyes.
I'd like to think my science teacher is right but then maybe I misunderstood the conversation going on. Just...what are hazel colored eyes exactly? I mean are they closer to like a blue or are they closer to like a brown or what?
A mix of brown and green.
A lot of people with brown eyes also like to claim they have hazel eyes because of their own perception and insecurity of brown as plain.
Do they teach people how to spell anymore? My time on this site shows me that they stopped. Alternatively, are gorilla-finger sized people using this site? I'm quite curious.
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Everybody knows about the Miley Cyrus getting high thing I'm sure. I read she wasn't smoking pot but that it was something LEGAL in California called salvia and it does some of the same stuff weed does. I was wondering what it is exactly? is it grass too? and is it really legal like everybody says to smoke it?
I have a friend that has rolled on E and dropped acid multiple times, and it only took him one time to do salvia to realize it's not for him; too intense, and not a positive trip.
Is it ok for a guy to hit his girlfriend, even if she did something to piss him off really bad?
It's never okay for anyone to hit their partner, regardless of gender.
boyfriend and I broke up (he broke up with me) 6 months ago... I was devastated, I was madly in love with him. he still contacted me saying he still loved me and stuff like that. I asked whether he wanted to get back together and he didn't have an answer for me. I chose not to remain friends as it hurt a lot. 2 months ago I started seeing not dating another guy, my ex obviously found out and said to me "well you might start dating that guy, break up with him and then get back together with me, who knows" why is he saying that?
He's doing it because he's a heartless fuck. Never speak with him again.
Is there a way to easily, less painfully remove a Plantar wart from my skin and not have to pay a small fortune to accomplish that?
Please help me if you can or if you know somebody who could help me fix this problem I have asked them to advise me.
Thank you!
DONTbeSTUPID may or may not be misclassifying Plantar Warts. Plantar warts are very different from regular warts, as they grow into the skin rather than out of it. Because of this, you cannot freeze a Plantar wart off. So maybe their advice is still relevant, but it's possible it's not if there is that large a discrepancy.
Anyway, I had three or four plantar warts on the souls of my feet about four or five years ago. A good dermatologist will not be carving it out of your foot; that is archaic and a good doctor wouldn't dream of doing that anymore. Today, the strategy that is used is acid wrapping.
Basically, the doctor wraps your foot in athletic tape, and beneath the tape is acid which is applied directly onto your Plantar wart area. It is not painful. After a few sessions of this, the wart will have been burned off and all will be well.
Be sure that you're seeing a dermatologist though; this is their area of expertise. A podiatrist (which is what I first went to and was ready to whip out the anesthetic and knife) will not be up to date on the latest techniques.
15/F boy is 17/M. We dated for 7 months. We've been broken up for 8 months and both dated other people. I can't get over him. I still want him and I still think about him everyday. And it hurts so bad. I look at his Facebook wall and I see other girls and him flirting and it just kills me inside, I feel like puking. He was my first boyfriend, kiss, second and third base. Long story short, we both did shitty things and he really hurt me but I miss him so much and he says were friends but he never wants to talk and he never wants to hang out. I just don't know what to do... I'm literally miserable...
You should get over yourself and stop trying to be friends. You're not friends, and that's what is best for both of you.