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hitting in a relationship

Question Posted Thursday December 30 2010, 2:59 am

Is it ok for a guy to hit his girlfriend, even if she did something to piss him off really bad?

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Brendan answered Wednesday January 5 2011, 3:26 am:

I am married and have been in many relationships prior to that.
I have never hit a woman no matter what horrible thing she may have done.
Anger, fighting, maybe even breaking things... all normal in longterm relationships where things happen.
Hitting is unacceptable under any circumstance.

get out now.

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dimplez answered Tuesday January 4 2011, 9:32 pm:
well to tell you the truth it really isnt healthy in a relaship because if you pissed him off one more day and its worser you can end up in your grave before you even kno it . it best to just leave him alone or get him some type of hep to control that and then again that be the type of enviroment he use to or grew up in!but still he needs help

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moniitah answered Tuesday January 4 2011, 11:01 am:
Dear bad relationship ,
Hello its not ok for you to struck your lover many reasons come upon this you may not have the same affection towards each other she may not feel as confadent as before to tell you things and also for a more helthy relation shi its much better to talk calmed in a orderdly manered way !

hugs and rockets


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geckonumber1 answered Sunday January 2 2011, 11:50 pm:
In a healthy relationship (regardless of whether it's boyfriend/girlfriend, friends, etc.) arguments are bound to happen. However it isn't healthy when either partner hits the other one. It's easy enough to justify that you made him mad, but if you think about it if a friend of yours pissed you off would it be considered good to hit them. Usually the answer is no, in romantic relationships- since they are already difficult and full of fights- it is important to never hurt your partner.

Long answer I know but in short no, a guy should never hit his girlfriend.

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rainbowcherrie answered Sunday January 2 2011, 10:07 am:
If you're in a relationship with someone, you don't hit them.

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jazzyvanscoy answered Friday December 31 2010, 10:19 am:
It is never okay for a man to hit his girlfriend. Even if she did something to piss him off. Hitting is never a good way to handle things, and if this is happening to you, you need to find a way out of the relationship.

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orphans answered Friday December 31 2010, 3:59 am:
no it's never okay for a guy to hit his girlfriend

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ASAPcamille answered Friday December 31 2010, 1:14 am:
Anyone who hurts you doesn't deserve you.

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miranda_love answered Thursday December 30 2010, 9:39 pm:
No absolutely not. That's not a good way to put your anger out on your girlfriend. That's physical abuse. If a girl gets hit she should leave him right away. It's also good for girls not to smack guys and that's not lady-like.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday December 30 2010, 9:18 pm:
Never, and I second what Matt said. Domestic abuse is never acceptable from any person in a relationship. No matter how much he says he loves you, leave now. In the words of Oprah, if he hits you once, he will hit you again.

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Xui answered Thursday December 30 2010, 5:10 pm:
No, It is never okay no matter what the circumstances are. That is abuse, Abuse is not okay.

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coconutcatastrophe answered Thursday December 30 2010, 4:13 pm:

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Matt answered Thursday December 30 2010, 4:05 pm:
It's never okay for anyone to hit their partner, regardless of gender.

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Hitoast answered Thursday December 30 2010, 3:18 pm:
No, it isn't. If a relationship ever develops into a physically violent relationship, you need to get out of it. It's never ok for a guy to hit his girlfriend or for a girl to hit her boyfriend. Best of luck, Jess.

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