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He says were friends but he never wants to talk...
15/F boy is 17/M. We dated for 7 months. We've been broken up for 8 months and both dated other people. I can't get over him. I still want him and I still think about him everyday. And it hurts so bad. I look at his Facebook wall and I see other girls and him flirting and it just kills me inside, I feel like puking. He was my first boyfriend, kiss, second and third base. Long story short, we both did shitty things and he really hurt me but I miss him so much and he says were friends but he never wants to talk and he never wants to hang out. I just don't know what to do... I'm literally miserable...
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Oh gosh you girl your hurting yourself. You need to make a list of all the things you hate about him first. You need to think that he isn't supposed to be your boyfriend because if he was he would have asked you out already or for a second chance. You need to accept the fact that you two are over and there's no hope in you two dating again. I know it might be painful...but you constantly looking at his Facebook and thinking about all the first things you did together is hurting yourself in the long run. Spend time with your friends. Start working out and getting a good body and try going shopping or dying your hair. Just do anything to change. If you change yourself you will eventually change your self-esteem and your confidence in a good way. You can't keep thinking about this guy. And you cannot remain friends. If he really hurt you then cry for about 3 days straight just to let your heart pour itself out. But then you need to wipe away those tears and put a smile on your face. And think to yourself what could I be doing with my life now that he's gone what can I do with my time? Moping about your ex is definitely NOT what you should be doing. I hope you the best and ask me how your doing in about a month if you aren't happy. Ok? Don't worry about it only time will make you feel better.
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You should get over yourself and stop trying to be friends. You're not friends, and that's what is best for both of you.
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