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Love Triangle or something
Hi! So i have these two friends, Steve and Mike. Steve is 19 and 4 years older than me and mike is 16 and one year older than me. i like mike, not steve. and steve is like a physco and is going to mikes house tonight to go talk to him and scare him so he does not talk to me anymore. But also Mike is adorable and so polite to my parents, but he might just be wanting to have sex with me. Its so crazy. If you have any advice on what i should do PLEASE HELP ME!
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really this isnt a hard question if you like mike ,thats okat let steve be your past if you dont have any feelings for him . you basically need to sit down and talk to mike about yall realtionship like tell him that you want him to love or like you for you not whats in your pants thats all and if he dont understand then he just aint the right one for you!
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You're 15 and a 19 year old wants to go old with you... what a pervert go for the 16 year old and stick to guys your age. Why would you allow yourself to be groomed lol
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It would help to know if you mean psycho, as in literally mentally ill, or just a jerk or whatever. If he's more than just a jerk, his mental illness can cause him to act irrationally and possibly do dangerous things. If you feel safe doing so, you can talk to Steve, and let him know that you do not want him to go over to Mike's house (if he hasn't already), because it isn't right for him to try scaring anyone. He might be planning to threaten him, which is not only inappropriate, it's illegal.
So definitely try to calm Steve down, so he is less likely to go over to Mike's house. But if you really feel he's a threat, even to you, you should talk to an adult for more advice/help. If he's already gone there, you could give Mike a call and ask him what happened with Steve. If you really feel worried about this whole situation, talk to your parents or another trusted adult, and see what they say.
Also, just remember, if you feel that Mike only wants sex from you, you might want to keep an eye on him too. You can still hang out with him, but don't ever do anything you aren't ready for. If you get to a point with him where you're ready to take things further, you will just know. Be safe.
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