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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.
I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..
My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]
I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥
I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.
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anyone know how to make a picture smaller so i can get it on this site? they're all too big! i dont where to go like i know there is a site where you can go to make them smaller..thank you
www.imageshack.us
Once you go to this site, you can upload the picture from your computer or from a URL. Then you pick what size you want on the drop down list thing. I mostly pick 320x240. Then click on the botton that says "Resize image?" , right next to the list. Then you host it! And then once you click on the host it button it should give you a whole bunch of choices on what to do. Get the URL, go to your Profile settings (on advicenators), then go to where it says URL of a picture of you, then put the URL there, then save your profile settings. If i sounded really confusing you can ask me & i'll help you.
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What is the latest fda approval for treating postate cancer? 01/14/2006
Uhh okay well i don't know if this is right. I just felt really bad because no one else answered this question..so here..
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/medicalnews.php?newsid=8553
Ah..hope i helped a little..=)
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Does anyone know any good sites to get myspace layouts,
or video codes to put music videos on
myspace?
I know urbinmix.net has music video but it doesnt have the song i'm lookng for..
www.singingfool.com
I don't know about myspace layouts...sorry
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ok i like this boy alot and well he doesnt know that cause he likes this other girl alot well about every 2 months he tell her he likes her and stuff and she doesnt like he though but the girl he likes is my friend so in those 2 month i try to get him to like me but i guess its a no and also i think he is like flirting with me also but never told me he liked me last year he told me he thinks i am hot but thats last year i might have changed hes always trying to help me in class work but i just say no i dont need help and i dont except it cause i am kind of dumb but i dont want him to know how dumb so that might turn him off also before he asked the girl he likes whats her screen name and he also ask me i gave it to him it been 3 days and he hasnt signed on or added me to his buddylist.should i just get over him or keep trying
Keep on trying. Don't give up! You really like this guy & you want him to like you, so keep on trying. Flirt moreeee. And ask him for help. Let him know that you need help on something. That'll probably get you guys to talk more. Be funny & flirty & outgoing. =)
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17/f
I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months. But whenever we greet each other, we don't hug or kiss. We just say "hey." However, he is affectionate when we are watching a movie or something. But I want him to kiss, or atleast hug me when we greet each other. How do I get him to do this? I don't want to be the first one to do it .. because it might be akward, and he'd probably think "what was that for?" Help?
I honestly think you should make the first move. Guys shouldn't do everything first. Just hug him and then kiss him. He shouldn't say "what was that for?"..because then he'll just be weird..no offense.
Or if you don't want to make the first move, then talk to him about it. Tell him how you want to be greeted.
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What is a thesis statement?? I have to do a project along with a thesis statement and summary. I did the summary but im not to sure if i included a thesis or not. i just thought it was an opening paragraph to the story but i could be wrong.
A thesis statement is a paragraph. But the last sentence in the paragraph is the sentence that you're going to talk about it your whole essay..or summary..whatever your doing.
Get it? So just use the summary that you did now & at the end of the summary just add the sentence explaning what your going to talk about.
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How do you get someone to finally let you into their hearts. I'm totally in love with this person but they are so scared to let others in becuase they aren't used to having someone love them so they totally ignore the fact that I do. We're still very good friends but ... I dont know what to do. Can someone give me an idea on how to make him open up to me and be my boyfriend? We used to date but he broke up with me becuase he wanted to sort through some things he said he's never felt a connection like this with anyone else but he's pulling away from me becuase I know he's scared, its been 3 months since we broke up, all our friends say it seems like he wants to be with me but one week he'll be flirty with me and then the next he'll try to start fights with me even though I don't budge and I still stay by his side ... can someone help me becuase he's leaving for a week and a half, I just want to give him something to think about while he's gone, I want him to know I won't hurt him. How do I do this?
Make him feel like your there for him & that you won't break his heart. Tell him all the things that you told us. Make him trust you & make him feel like your the only one for him. Don't try to push too hard into him getting with you. It'll just freak him out more.
He's just like me. If i'm in a relationship & i enjoy the relationship, i tend to break up with the person before they can break up with me. I just don't trust people so easily & it scares me knowing that he can easily break up with me.I don't know why i'm like that..but I don't like it.
Like i said, tell him what you told us. How you want him to be with you & that you really do like him. Then kiss him. Aw well hope this works out between you guys. =)
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This is a poem I wrote about my ex-boyfriend answering a poem he wrote to me when we started dating and my best friend thinks I should give it to him along with a copy of his own can you help me? Heres my poem:
Clipped Wings
I’d been flying through the darkness for a while
Now I’m falling to the ground, my wings have been clipped
My fear consumes every word I whisper and every thought I create
If I’ve shown you what you’ve wanted, why have you ended this dream?
I wish I could turn it back a bit
You’ve been worth all the tears and pain if it means I will get my wish
You can make me wait an eternity to receive your love,
You can beat me for years but when ever you look in my eyes,
You’ll still see my love for you reflected within
You froze time for me when you pushed me to the side
Got me realizing that I lost you in that moment
I’ll be your wings when you’re ready to fly
Bet you didn’t dream someone would care for you like this
I don't know how people don't understand the question. Your asking us if it's good & if you should add something to it right ?
I don't know maybe I'm wrong. If i am, that'll be totally embarrassing.
But yea it's a good poem. =)
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does anyone have any suggestions on how to be more open? i've been too used to keep everything to myself. most of the time that i have expressed my feelings about something or a problem, i find that i made things worse, or hurt others. i do want to be more open, but almost everytime i try my feelings get the best of me. my girlfriend has been such a big help - i actually do like to tell her everything - but i wouldn't want to hurt her by being moody when my feelings do get the best of me... any advice? thanks - its much appreciated.
You need to learn how to trust people more often. Telling people something that's bothering you or anything like that will make probably make them understand you better. I'm not saying to go around & tell everybody your deepest darkest secrets, but just trust people when they say that you can trust them. If you have really trustful friends, then you know that they can never betray your trust. Some people will tell you to trust them but then they'll backstab you & it'll turn into a big mess. I'm not saying everyone is like that though.
Maybe you can start a little journal thing to express yourself. I did that for like a month and it really helped me. It might for you too. You can't let feelings get to you though. Try and fight them.
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Does a condom still work ok if you're doing it in the shower?
Oh yea .. it still works..
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Ok well me and this girl have known each other for 3 years or so now right. Ok well we had some problems last year right. And it was cause of an old friend that kept telling blod face lies and i told him off but she decided to still be friends with him. And back when we first met in 2002 you know we would talk alot and we was getting closer friendship wise. And i remember clear as day that she said she dont buy liars. And i told her me neither i hate a damn liar. Ok well as far as me i mean what i say bout that. And back in when we had problems last year we ended up seeing each other at walmart and becoming friends again. And turns out i was right as far as our old friend lying and whatever else. But now the problem is she is lying. Knowing i have went off on her once for that and buying lies from people. And i seriously am about to snap on her. She keep ignoring me on messenger. This morning bout 4:30am or 5:00 am i seen her on and started talking trying to be nice and she sadi hold up. Never got no response so i started talking so then she put be right back and logs out and i she hasnt been on since and its like 12:30pm now. I am fixing to go off on the deep end i swear. But the problem is that her sister and mom well there like family to me. They are really the only people i got i can talk to. And i go over to there house some and visit them you know. And her sister and mom dont really like what she is doing and how she is acting to top it al off. Cause she is 17 fixing to turn 18 with a 9 month old baby out going wild. And everybody from me to her closest girl friend has told her she needs to be taking care of that baby but she wont listen. And she is hanging out with the wrong crowd to top it al off. She is on the internet all the time and in chat rooms talking to crack heads and everything else you can imagine. So my question is what should i do since i am bout to go off on her but her mom and sister are like my closest friends?
First off, everybody lies a little bit. Trust me. You do & she does & I do. We all lie.
Second, if you think she's making wrong choices, let her do them herself. She doesn't need someone going around trying to change her. Life is about making wrong & right choices & learning from them. So let her learn from her mistakes.
Try getting the mom or the sister talking to her about what she's doing. She might not listen, but it's worth a try. Just talk to her sister for now. Make some more friends. Don't just be obsessing over one. Don't do it yourself(meaning going off on her).If you do go off on her, her mom & sister will find out & sooner or later they won't talk to you either. If the mom or sister have tried talking to her & she won't listen either. Then there's nothing you can do. If you want though, you can ask the mom if it's okay to go off on her, but that'll seem kinda .. stupid.
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This isn't one of those am I fat questions.
I'm 5'4 and weight 113lbs. I know I'm not fat or anywhere near there. When I am with my friends, or any other girls really, I feel confident and that I'm the right size. But, when I'm alone I look at myself and start thinking that I could loose a few more lbs. I'll get so caught up in it that I won't even go near a mirror for the rest of the day. I'm not sure why I do this. Any help? :/
Because you think that you can be a little bit more skinner & be the right size. You should be proud of what you look like. Everyone goes through this. I know i did. That's why i became anorexic..for like..a day! Haha just because i missed food too much & it was driving me insane trying to be perfect. But anways, that's really good that your confident in situations like this.That's tre-cool. Just be confident when you look in the mirrors, too. =)
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15f christian....
I used to always masturbate. quite alot. but then about 2 weeks ago i read something that said that masturbating is a sin. well ever since i read that i havent masturbated, i actually gave in yesterday but then i felt reallllly guilty afterwards. is this bad because i mean will it mean i'll never be able to enjoy masturbating? is this normal and will i ever get over it? please help. i rate 5's!
I've heard that in the bible it says masturbating is wrong and it's a sin. Not sure but i've heard that. But if your a really strong Christian, you should know that God will love you no matter what you do. Just because you masturbate it's not like he'll send you to hell. He'll forgive you. And you know that.
Woah.. anyways. Masturbate if you want. Maybe pray after you masturbate.. I don't know.
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should you blow dry your hair before you straighten it er let it dry naturally??
thanks!!
Blow drying your hair BEFORE you straighten it. Because if you straighten your hair while it's still majorly wet, that'll definatley increase you damanging your hair. Plus it'll smell like burnt hair....BAD!
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Is giving head considered Anal Sex?
Noo way. Giving head is considered oral sex. Anal sex is having a guy fuck you in your butthole. =) Sorry for the language.
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i was wondering if that would be a good treadmill because it doesnt look like a treadmill that would help lose wieght.. i wieght like 110 so im not sure if it would be good for me? what do you guys think
It looks good. I think you don't think it's a good one just because its not built up with all these gizmos & gadgets. If it has the tuning button to make it go fast or slower, then that's all you need.
I mean, look at the guy in the picture. He's got a water bottle & towel to top it off with the tredmill. AND OMG THE TREDMILL CAN FOLD AWAY IN YOUR CLOSET. What more can you ask for?!
It's tre-cool. =)
But hell if i know, i'm a girl. So i'm not good with technology.
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A little girl was walking in the winter and saw a frozen snake by the side of the road. She took pity on it, and put it in her pocket to warm it up. After a while, the snake warmed up, and bit her in the leg. She said, "Hey, I took care of you, what did you bite me for?" And the snake said, "Well, you knew I was a snake when you picked me up, didn’t you?"
What is the moral of this story? I'm just curious.
Agree with the person down there.
A snake is still a snake even if it's frozen. So when it warms up, it's not going to be friends with you & have cute little tea parties just because you took care of it. Common sense. Snakes are evil & never should you befriend one.
Putting it in smart turms :
Never befriend something that is evil. Because it's still going to be evil to you if your nice or care about it.
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Why is it that because I have a 24-inch waist and wear 00 pants, that I'm a stick with a drawn-on face? I know that this is a dumb question, but I was reading the responses to a question, one of the users used that phrase as if really thin people are just an empty shell and that hurt my feelings...
What the hell is that first person talking about down there??
Obviously that person thinks it's all the skinny people's fault. He/she thinks that we're putting our skinny weight into chubby girls faces. It's not our problem. And it's not their problem that they are chubby either. They aren't the only ones that have problems too.That guy has problems blaming people just because they are a different size then other people. Idioic bastard.
I'm not saying im super skinny. I'm 5'2 , 15 years old, and weigh 105. I guess i'm average. But I have a friend named Katie & she's diabetic & SUPER SUPER skinny i swear, she's like a "stick". She doesn't like being THAT skinny, but these dickwads at our school have to tease her about how skinny she is & that if you trip her she'll break into pieces. But she doesn't take shit from them. Because she's happy with the way she looks sometimes. Shes an amazing person & people think she's anorexic. And that pisses me off when people can't see past the apperance.
What i can tell you is that you can't take shit from people like that. They have no conceince & just like making fun of people just because they don't look like that. They're bastards & need to stop playing with themselves.
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okay i'm madly in love with this guy. but he has a girlfriend. and he thinks i'm cute and nice and everything but i want more than a friendship. what do i do?
You need to wait. How would you like it if you were with someone & some other girl was going to break you guys up? I know i wouldn't like it if someone tried breaking me & my boyfriend up. I know you wouldn't like it either. Just be friends with him for now. I know it might seem impossible since you really like this guy, but it'll pay off at the end.
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Does anyone know any tips or tricks in getting rid or reducing the appearance of cellulite? (If there are any other than plastic surgery). I cant stand it at all!! I feel that my upper back legs and butt are so gross. Please Help! (Sorry this is kind of nasty). Ill rate.
http://sdsd.essortment.com/ridofcellulite_rmcu.htm
This site can help you . If you're willing to exercise. I don't know exactly what they are talking about .. but you might have a better chance then i did on understanding it.
Easy as that.
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