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Q: Lately my dad has been wanting to spend time with me, and for some reason I just really don't want to. I don't know why, but I feel uncomfortable. Like, he asked me to go to lunch, and I just said "I'll think about it", and then without telling him I went to a friends house, and slept over PAST the next days lunchtime, just to AVOID being asked again. What's my problem? I mean...I still like the guy, but I really want to b left alone. And lately, I've been liking my mom more. Pleeease help me!!! Thanks.
I think your most likely me and my friends ages... we all like our moms more then we like our dads... its just the normal thing lol we are at that age were we dont really like either or but whatever.. i dont know if i always feel comfortable around my dad either so dont feel wierd but maybe you could just do lunch with him and have the radio on and there will be a ton of people around so thats a good thing you just gotta be thankful because some people dont even have a dad around.... I dont got a dad around its a just a stepdad hes good but it would be nice for my real dad to be here but just be greatful-trix

Q: my mom wont let me play the gutire because she thinks its for boys only!!!! isnt that stupid?!?! my friends and i are in a band and i want to learn how to play the gutire! how do i convince her to let me???
First off you spelt the instrument you want to play wrong its guitar and just tell her thats the instrument you have your heart set on and thats what you really really want to play-trix

Q: well i like this one guy and i think he like me! we talk all the time like on the internet and phone. i asked him one day on the internet if he likes me and didnt answer and signed off! does that mean he and is probebly to shy to answer or he doesnt like me???
Well maybe you could ask around but maybe he does have a thing for you to but i dont know if he wants to make a commitment towards it at all-trix

Q: I'm an emapth: a person who can feel a persons emotions when being near them. I can also hear a song and tell you what color it is. (The song "Anastasia" By Voltaire is pale lavender, and the song "..Baby one more time" redone by Bowling For Soup is metallic red). I also have keen gaydar. I want to know if anyone else out there has these abilities. How can I use these abilities to my advantage?
Uh... maybe you can find a wierd job and make money off it... but i dont know... i dont think anything like that-trix

Q: i'd like to start my own babysitting business. how can i get started??
Put flyers around in like grocery stores or gas stations around the neighborhood-trix

Q: i really wanna lose liek 15 lbs. what can i do ??? plz help im desperate
Run/jog/walk or you could bike or go on a excersizing machine or you could also go to the gym-trix

Q: I have written a few short stories and I think they are pretty good and I think they could be full stories if I had more detail. Do you think I could use them as playwrites?
Yeah-trix

Q: My Mom doesn't like when i watch like MTV cuz she sez there is always junk on. like and she wants me to lead such a sheltered life. Like she thinks i don't know anything about like sex and drugs and stuff. i'm 12 wut should i do?
Tell her you do know whats wrong and whats right and you know whats out there and you wont try to immitate-trix

Q: Hey! my hair use to be really healthy..i use die it and i strighten it.. do u no of ne hair product to give my life back to my hair...~XOXO~
I would go to a salon for that-trix

Q: i dance alot (about 12 hours a week) .. does this have anything to do with my not having my period yet because of heavy exercise?? that's what my friend said and i want to know if it's true
Well my dr. said that if anybody is active and in sports they dont get it half as much so the sports are good for you-trix

Q: Okay. I am really shy. I am going to 9th grade next year & I want to make new friends. And when it comes to guys, Im super shy. I need advice on how too go up and talk to someone. And what too say. Thanksssss
Well that is what i will be doing this coming year... im going to a new school im just gunna say hi before class starts or something like that... i guess i dont think on it to much because i do make friends easily but im also shy... so i am just gunna bare with it-trix

Q: My best guy friend wanted to kill himself. At least thats what he told me. He said it was because a girl didnt like him. He said that no one cared and that he had already tried before. It really worried me and I told him that I cared. As I was walking to the bus, it really hit me what he had said. When I got on the bus I realized that i liked him as more than a friend. The problem is, the next day he acted as if nothing happened. I'm not sure if he was telling the truth about wanting to kill himself. I'm only 13 but I have liked him for over 5 months. My question is ...........
Do you think you have to be a certain age to love?
No there is no limit to age and you can love at any age... thats what i believe... if somebody gives you crap about it just watch to see if they say they love someone and only rub it in there face like nicole said to me... she told me i didnt love nathan but i do and the next thing i knew she said she loved someone in her profile and she always said she loved josh-trix

Q: is this a good poem:
Surrounded by friends, but she has none of her own, shes in a crowded room, but feels so alone.

Late one night she was lying in her bed, tear drops falling, thoughts running through her head.

Her hopes and dreams and she cried until she could no more.

Home she could no longer stay, so she ran far away, she left her quiet home that night, she went down the street and out of sight.

She didnt see the car until it was too late. she felt all emotions at once. Pain. Love. Hate.

Now shes somewhere where everyone cares and the streets are paved with gold. She looks down from heaven, shining her light upon the young and old.

So if you have a friendship that is strong and true, then guard it with your life, unlike the girl who spread her wings and flew.

did you like it?
i need advice.
Thats good keep it up! I am sure alot of people can relate to this kind of poem except the whole car part... it may have happaned You need to keep writing I'd like to hear more from you and the bottom part was by far the best-trix

Q: I really really like this guy I'll call Mark, but he's going out with a different girl who I'll call Ruth. Ruth was at her cottage, and she called her best friend, and Mark was at her best friend's house! This is not the first time Mark did this, he cheated on a previous girlfriend with Ruth. The only problem is, how do I tell Ruth? She doesn't know, because her best friend lied and said it was her little brother.
Well i would just tell her because you would want anybody to do the same for you because she will get hurt but if she finds out more later on then it will only hurt her worse... and her best friend will probably get a talking to and mark... he'll probably get dumped or a good talking to also-trix

Q: hey..i am an inexperienced kisser and I would like some tips/advice on it...and the best things to do while you are kissing. thanks!
Just go with the flow... you cant really give advice on it other then... kiss with your lips lol im sorry but do make sure your breath doesnt smell... that could be a minor problem there.-trix

Q: I was reading a girl's question about a friend from church who had a crush on her teacher. You said being gay was wrong. I want you to know I completly disagree and I'll never ask you for your advice. It surprises me how close minded some people can be.
Alright get this straight i have 1 gay friend and his name is Vlad he is a doll i love him he is by far one of the most coolest russians you could ever meet. And my friend Drew we call her bob she is Bi... she is awesome herself! i totally support her. So next time you come to my column you need to read more clearly and i was talking about it being wrong because it is a teacher... now fucker listen closely i dont want to even give somebody like you advice if you are going to go and judge people before you know them or understand what is going on. You could have asked me about it but nooo! If you ever come to my advice column keep in mind to ask before making a statement if you do so. You are pretty much calling me racist against homosexuality. Want me to go and judge you? didnt think so-sincerely The BITCH!! :)

P.S- There is nothing wrong with gay people... thats just like being racist... which im defintly not!!! Cuz we all are equal and we all rock!!

Q: I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird??
Lol no dont worry about it everybody has their shows they like to watch my friend watches barney but she's not wierd :) no im jk but your not wierd-trix

Q: I made up a personage vividly in my head about a year ago. I know everything about him. When something goes wrong, this imaginary person appears in my mind. I haven't told anyone about him yet. His name is Elliot and I suddenly think of him everytime something bad happens. What does this mean? And no, I'm not putting the blame of things that I've done on an imaginary figure. I think he's causing the bad things (??)
Get help-trix

Q: Hey!I am 14 almost 15(august 17)and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2months.And he says i am perfect and like the "one".And says that we will be together forever.And i feel the exact same way too.And he asked me to marry him and i said yes!But we are not going to get married till we are out of school!But did i do the right thing about saying yes???ill rate you if u answer!~Kristen~
Yeah if you are in love and you know its really something but just make sure you guys stay strong but i would have made it a promise like if he got you a ring instead of it being a ring to say your getting married make it a promise ring saying that you'll last forever and you'll eventually get married and you promise-trix

Q: how does hawaiin tropic tannin gel work?
Yeah but use rubber gloves-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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