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Shy :-/
Okay. I am really shy. I am going to 9th grade next year & I want to make new friends. And when it comes to guys, Im super shy. I need advice on how too go up and talk to someone. And what too say. Thanksssss
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omigosh.. im super shy too.. but.. l0l.. i realized that people lyk outgoing people better.. lyk.. rather then havin people come up and talk to you.. you go talk to them.. *especially if theyre hot* l0l.. and yea.. just be loud!!
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Well that is what i will be doing this coming year... im going to a new school im just gunna say hi before class starts or something like that... i guess i dont think on it to much because i do make friends easily but im also shy... so i am just gunna bare with it-trix
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Hey,
When Im shy to talk to a boy or even a girl i talk llike he/she droped something or i would on perpouse run in to this person and just start to talk.
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if some of your friends are talking to boys or other friends you don't know, go up to them. see if you can start a conversation. just make sure that they're not talking about something private
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just be yourself...and at all times just breathe! some ppl just totally freak out and the ending comes out horrible so dont freak... if someone talks to you... talk back...it works
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Just be yourself and people will come to you, you'll meet people in time
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Just say hey im ..blah blah blah .... or really you can let your friends introduce you to him ( if their not shy ) i usally get my friendds to introduce me to the ppl i like then i start to talk to them on my own maybe you can like hang out in like group activities like at the movies .. so you wont have to do much talking ... if it works tell me
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Some guys really like shy girls. But if you want to be outgoing, don't hide anything, just be open and stuff, introduce yourself to people sitting next to you in class, just don't try to seem eager to be popular. Hope this helps
Lizzy
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I used to be like that. I would never talk unless i was around my good friends! But i realize that i need to be myslef and not care what everybody thinks. Im me and its going to stay like that! You need to think that if people dont like you then its there problem not yours cause you dont need to change for them! ALWAYS BE YOURSELF dont let the shyness get you!
Hoped I helped! rate me plz*
--Julie
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Just be bold and go up and introduce to yourself to everyone. I know that's hard if you're shy, but try it.. most of em will be pretty friendly, and you might end up being really close with them. If you introduce yourself to everybody, that means you won't have the same little "group" and you'll know tons of of other people. When you're in your classes just talk to the people sitting around you, because chances are, they're just as nervous as you.
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I'm the same way! I started 9th grade last year and I was scared to death of not making new friends. Just be yourself. Someone who has your classes will eventually come around to being your friend. =) People I didn't even really like were in my class (we had 5 classes all together both semesters) and they turned out to be my friends. We had two small classes though (8 people lol) and I think that made us bond more and stuff. Good luck with meeting new people! =)
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I used to have your exact problem too! I'm going into 9th grade and I am just as freaked :) Chances are, you're going to end up sitting next to a girl from a different school and you guys are slowing going to form a friend ship. Other wise, you have to get out there and make friends because a lot of people are just like you! I used to think no one wanted to be my friend, but I was wrong in the end. And, don't worry, in high school, the guys will approach you. And don't worry about going and talking to them! They are just people too! Make some friends first and then you and a few friends can approach the guys in a group so you won't be nervous. This is all I can tell you to do!
Do on to others as you want done to you
You want a friend? Approach one and you'll get approached by more!
:) good luck sweetie!
×Ø *Bonnie* Ø×
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