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He's cheating on her!
I really really like this guy I'll call Mark, but he's going out with a different girl who I'll call Ruth. Ruth was at her cottage, and she called her best friend, and Mark was at her best friend's house! This is not the first time Mark did this, he cheated on a previous girlfriend with Ruth. The only problem is, how do I tell Ruth? She doesn't know, because her best friend lied and said it was her little brother.
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Well i would just tell her because you would want anybody to do the same for you because she will get hurt but if she finds out more later on then it will only hurt her worse... and her best friend will probably get a talking to and mark... he'll probably get dumped or a good talking to also-trix
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im confused.. ? i thought a cottage was lyk.. cheese.. and why would sumone be in cheese.. thats really nasty.. ?¿?
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tell it straight...i think thahs the onie way... if she dusnt blieve it then i gess all you can do is wait until she finds out on her own and be there to support her as a frend...
o and cross this guy off your "Crush List" because if he cheats once...you can bet he mite cheat on you too
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TELL HER. you *HAVE* to tell her or she'll be really mad at you if she finds out that you knew but didn't say anything. invite her over to yours or go to her place and sit her down and just tell her gently that you think mark is cheating.there isn't really anything you can do to soften the blow, it'll be hard no matter what you do. just be a good friend and support her. keep me posted. good luck. <333
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Don't tell her that you like him, that will ruin everything. Just tell her that you think that her friend might have a thing for Mark. Just tell her to keep a close eye on Mark and Ruth will find out soon enough. I hope this helps a little
Lizzy
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There's no easy way to tell someone something like that. Nobody really wants to hear that and she might not believe you, but you just have to tell her straight up. If she knows that "Mark" has a history of cheating, that might make it easier for her to believe.. but just tell her and then she can confront him and then they can work it out themselves.
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She may not believe you but it's good to tell her, if you dont tell her now and she finds out by someone else she'll be mad at you for not telling her sooner, so you should just tell her and get it over with now...
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How do you know he was cheating on her? You've stated nothing to indicate this. A guy being at another girl's place does not magically mean that he's cheating. Unless one of them has stated that they were making out, rolling on the floor naked, or something along those lines (which you clearly did not indicate here) - then you have no proof for such a claim. All you said is that he was at someone's house - big deal. I've been to the homes of other women, does that mean I was cheating on my wife?
And thank you for the very mature rating. Your integrity and maturity are greatly appreciated.
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1. Sit down with Ruth and tell him what he has been doing.
2. Do not admit to her you like this guy or she won't believe you.
3. Find some other guy to like. This one is bad news and will lead to heartbreak.
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