when i laugh really hard i start to pee..its starting to get embarrising. is this a problem? or what can i do to stop?
You have a weak bladder.. um i would suggest you try not to laugh so hard.. much luv and maybe see a doctor bout it..
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my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do???
Well dont look at her any different.. and by the way she also could be lying to you so she look cool cause few my friends done that to me.. much luv dez
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im constantly wet down below im a female btw.i cum home from school and my knickers are soaked thru.im too embarresed to tell ne1 i know so plse help?is it bladder weakness?thanx
maybe your having a discharge..or maybe your really horny im not sure ive never heard of that.. maybe go to the doctor.. much luv dez
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ok i need a serious answer on this because i am really confused. i want to shave "down there" but i don't know how because last time i did i got major razor burn and itched forever and it was soooo uncofortable so i don't know how to do it and how much to take off... do you shave all of it off? please help
Well i shave all mine off.. and use conditionor you know for your hair.. use that when you shave or shave with some real good shaving cream..and use a good new razon..and after put lotion on it.. after you do it for a while and keep doing it then it wont be uncomfortable anymore..and shave down wards first and get all the hair off and it will still be stubbly so shave upwards also..but gently.. and best of luck to you..much luv dez
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this boy asked me out and i said yes but his friend told me that my b/f said it was over. i asked my b/f if it was true and he said he wanted his friend to tel me it was over but he changed his mind.. i think he's having his doubts, ahould i break up with him b4 he breaks my heart?
Talk to him first.. cause it does sound like he is having doubts but find out for sure if he likes you and everything.. and tell him you wanna know cause you dont wanna get hurt..so make him tell you up front before you get hurt.. much luv dez
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Last year I broke up with my ex. I thought that we myte have juss been taking a break but we were really done for good. Now i relized that i still like him and i dont know if i should tell him or not. I know that he thinks i am a b***h and i dont kno if he likes me and i dont want to take the chance...Should i tell him?
Yes you should tell him.. if you like this guy still then tell him and take the chance of hurt cause you never will know how he feels unless you find out..much luv dez
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Hi! I'm having thoughts about marriage, I'm a 19/f btw. I recently viewed the film, Romeo and Juliet and was wondering on what other people's opinions are. Do you think Romeo and Juliet got married too soon? Why or why not? I'd like to talk to someone about this. I gove good ratings. Thank you in advance. =)
i dont think they got married to soon.. i think if you love somebody and know there the one you want to spend the rest of your life with then i think you should.. so i think if your ready and they wanna marry you then i hope the best of luck hun..and by the way i plan to run off and get married soon and ima 16/f.. but much luv to ya dez
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OKAY, someone made a s/n almost exactly like mine and is telling me that im gonna get my ass kicked ass school but they wont tell me who they are and is putting up stupid away messages such as: "having sex for money"
and tellling me that my boyfriend is cheating on me and stuff. and she says that i've been mean to her in school. but i have no idea who it could be because im not really a mean person.. what to do?! lol
Well jus walk your back and see who likes stare you down and shit.. cause who ever hates on you the most is most likely the person.. and also um maybe get a new screen name and it has to be somebody who knows you.. and it could be somebody fuckin with you too.. but much luv to you and best of luck dez
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I'm a thirteen year old female. Recently Iv'e started eating super healthy. When I'm at home eating the food there, or eating foods with nutrition information I'm fine, but whenever I eat at someone else's house or eat out and the food served looks fattening or sugary I panic. I don't know whats in it and so on. Sometimes I make up excuses for not eating things. My friends jokingly said I was anorexic before. That didn't bother me. However, now they have started to say it seriously and my own mum said I was eating in an anorexic way. I know people suffering from anorexia have poor self image, but I think I am at a perfect weight. Please tell me if I am anorexic or not. Honestly.
Just cause you wanna eat healthy doesnt mean your anorexic.. theres nothing wrong with wanting to eat and look healthy.. just dont worry about it..much luv dez
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I have a simple question that I can't find the answer to. In the middle school I go to they have a P.E. class. In P.E. class we do jumping-jacks. What do jumping-jacks help you build? Your arms, legs, stomach, or something?
Cause your jumping and getting your heart rate speeding up it makes you lose weight if you do it long enough..much luv dez
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does stretching help you grow taller?
i dont think so.. much luv dez
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how do u get crabs to go away??
Go to a doctor.. but also go to a store and ask at the counter and wash all your clothes and sheets and jus everything and vacuum everything..much luv dez
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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?
um i guess so cause being prepared.. but maybe talk to your priceable or your parents..much luv dez
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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*
Well i guess you could forgive him but apparently isnt very sorry if it took a month to say sorry..but um maybe try to be a lil cool with him and see how things work jus try not to get so attached to him..much luv dez
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I just had a really quick question. My boyfriend and I have done some.. hmm "stuff" and I was wondering- what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at 14? ( we haven't had sex ) - and I don't want answers like "do what you're confortable with," because I was very comfortable with what I did, I just want to know if it was right for what age I am.
Well yes i think if your comfortable with anything you do i think its fine for your age.. i think if your mature enough to handle it then your mature enough for the consequences if you have any after you do what you do.. but i think at your age i would jus make out and maybe do some expermenting with like feeling on each other.. but i think if you feel okay with doin more then do what you want..much luv dez
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ok my friend is only 12 and she was sleeping at my house and was talking to this boy on my computer about doing drugs (pot, ciggarettes, alcohol) and now i don't feel right when talking to her should i still be her friend?
thanks, ~lost n confused~
Well if thats not your crowd and your not comfortable with it.. then dont be her friend.. friendship can be fun with out drugs.. um well when you hang out with her jus make sure you stay outta trouble.. but she hasnt exactly done anything to you for you not to wanna be friends with her.. jus wait and see if she does something round you that makes you uncomfortable..and also if she is gettin involved with this kinda stuff and your not most likely ya'll will not wanna hang round eachother cause you guys are oppisite but dont follow her.. much luv dez
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my and this guy are just friends now. hes really nice and sweet and i like him a lot. the other day, i spent all of my class time talking to him. not romanticly, we were talking about what was going on that day. we didnt say anything about us well i didnt. he talked about his mom a little and we talked just talked like friends. i do like him a lot becuz he seems like a nice guy. so what should i do. becuz if he doesnt like me in that way, i dont want to screw up our friendship and i dont want him to break my heart
Well jus continue to talk to him cause this only sounds like a one time thing which im sure you guys will talk again like that..and if it gets to the point where you want him to know then the right time and place will come where you can tell him..much luv
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I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks!
Well for my first time it was a great feeling not cause what he was doin but cause i was with somebody i love and somebody i know loves me.. and everything went okay.. i mean yea it hurted and everything but i dont regret losing my virginity to him and never will..much luv dez
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Im 13 and I am a female. I have the guy that I like and he likes me. One problem is that he lives in Florida and I live in Alabama. The second problem is he is 17 and my mom says that he is to old for me. I really like him and I am willing to do anything. Should I follow my heart or do what my mom says is right and just forget about him???
listen to your mother.. your only fuckin 13.. and this guy probably isnt worth it and you guys live so fuckin apart.. you had to meet this lame off the internet..much luv
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I am asian, and I think my nose is quite broad and quite flat. Compared to others, it is not that bad, but I'm just not satisfied with the look of it. I want something like the nose of Lucy Liu, it has a prominent bridge and it is narrow.
The thing is, I need to ask the permission of my mom! We are not close, and I think I'm (middle child) her least fav. child out of her 5 children.
I think I have enough money in the bank to pay for my own beauty enhancement, and I'm old enough to have rhinoplasty because I'm turning 21 in July.
Pls. give me tips and strategies so that she will say yes!
well if your almost 21 hun your an adult you dont need your mothers permission to do what you want.. but tell her how you feel about your nose and why you wanna do it.. i mean if she dont except it do it anyways.. much luv dez
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