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Losing ur virginity
I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks!
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It's stupid that you did that how old are you
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Its just because of all the hype about it. there is so much of a build up hat you think it will be this amazing this butthe firsttime it isnt cos it hurt. but dont worry, as they always say practise does make perfect! it gets better believe me! its never like it seems in films because of course there not actually doing it so it just shows the good bits! so dont worry it will get better!
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I find it wierd how after your first propper kiss your all like 'O MY GOD!!!' But once youve had sex you dont feel any different - although its so much more of a bigger deal.
My first time went ok, Not like it is in the movies - but hey, it all gets better with practice!! hehe :-) xxx nicki
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i think i know where ur coming from. i was the first of my friends to lose their virginity, and after i was scared that i had made the wrong decision, so i didn't do it again for a while after that. i realized later that i was ready to do it again, and i'm glad i did. if ur like me it might just take time for it to sink in, or maybe you really weren't ready. in which case just don't do it again until you are ready. i know for me the whole experience of it caught me really off guard because it was not what i had expected at all, and i think that was what made me wait a while before doing it again. i hope this helped!
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well when i did it the first time...i moaned A LOT at the beginning...but then towards the end it didnt hurt as bad...i dunno if this is the type of advice you wanted to hear....but if you need anymore advice about this...feedback is greatly appreciated
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Well for my first time it was a great feeling not cause what he was doin but cause i was with somebody i love and somebody i know loves me.. and everything went okay.. i mean yea it hurted and everything but i dont regret losing my virginity to him and never will..much luv dez
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Losing your virginity is never what its cracked up to be. xx
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The circumstances surrounding your loss of virginity have more to do with what you feel than the act of sex itself. Were you raised to believe that sex should only be done in a certain way, with certain people, or at certain times, but have sex outside of the "accepted" manner? You might be feeling a little guilt or regret - but it's not really about the sex, it's about breaking your cultures taboo. Was the sex so good that you felt like you were on drugs for a while, and now your a bit depressed? (highly unlikely for the first time, but it could happen) That's a normal reaction as your body attempts to straighten out the chemistry. Were you expecting something awesome and wonderful, and it was just kinda awkward and now instead of feeling all close your just feeling sore? From what I've heard, that's the most common experience, so I'll give it a more in-depth answer. :) Unfortunately, a lot of people seem to think that loosing their virginity is a magical act that will somehow change things.
Any act can be magical, and no act is inherently magical.
It's been a long time since I lost my virginity, and I remember being surprised when the guy said that he felt older and more mature now. I was a sarcastic little tart - I replied "don't worry, you'll get over it".
I felt good from the contact, sore from the penetration, and honestly didn't have any strong feelings one way or the other about anything else.
I have had sex that felt like it was straight from the movies. It didn't happen until we were older, mature enough to talk about what we really wanted, and had a little spending change to get the little props that made it really feel like a dream. The first time you have sex isn't your only chance to make it special.
Hope this helps a little. :)
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it NEVER works out like you plan. it is perfectly fine to be feeling like that. alot of people feel like that after their first time. if you really like the person and care about the person then theres nothing to worry about. your not a slut or anything like that at all. you only had sex with one person and yu dont sleep around. so dont worry about that issue. but you could talk to your boyfriend about it. he will understand what you are feeling and he will help make you feel better. if you have any questions or want to know anything, let me know. drop one in my inbox or IM me.
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When i lost mine i felt like i had this voice in the back of my head saying that its something i shouldnt have done yet. But i got over it after a couple of weeks, im 16 and just lost mine in December. But it wasnt what i had imagined it to be. Your first time is always akward or so ive heard. The guy couldnt exactly..uh...last too long, and it wasnt like.."magical" lol. I hope yours wasnt horrible!
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Hey. Lemme just say that when I lost it, I felt like a total slut for months, until my friend reminded me that I couldn't be a slut. I'd only slept with one person, I was dating him, and we were/are in love.
So you're not a slut, if you're having those feelings.
You feel weird after you lose it, I think, and it's NEVER what you expect. I mean, I didn't expect it to make me cry, but it did (pain, ow). It frankly sucked. I can use one word to describe it: "OW". It got a lot better as it went along, but for me it hurt the entire time
You feel better about it as it goes. If you're having issues about yourself or whatever, you might wanna talk to the guy you lost it to and tell him what you're feeling. Guys, as much as I almost hate to say it, are usually pretty good at making girls feel better about themselves. So use that resource.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Why are you a slut? Do you like to have sex when you are young?
Kay
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not everyone loses it the way they want... i know i didnt,,, if you lost it to someone you like thats at least one good point... there are worse case senarios such as mine.... i lost my virginity at the age of 13 and i was raped... not a good thing... so there is worse out there.... but it is common for someone to lose it not exactly how they wanted.... but hey you cant go back and change it so make the best of it.... im sure at least some of it was worth while!! hope i helped!!
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Don't worry about this hun. Everyone who lost their virginity, after they feel weird about it. Weird to talk about it, or be with the person that took your virginity. The best thing to do is talk to your boyfriend about this. He'll be the one that will be able to understand everything. But don't worry, mostly everyone's in the same boat when it comes to this.
♥ Krissy
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Well, after you have sex, you're suppose to feel this way, sad, depressed, some anger, and regret. Now, I may not be a person you're looking for, because you wanting people who aren't virgins, but let just say that I know you're suppose to feel that way. And, you should talk to your boyfriend about it, he will be the best one to understand you, trust me. I hope you feel better.
-TheTeenGirl
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