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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*
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he obviously thinks your fat.
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Sometimes guys say mean things to girls because they like them or there just a holes and say stupid stuff to people. Do you like him like as a friend or more? Why would you like a guy that called you fat even if he did aplogize. But, you can like him if you want. Talk to him and tell him that it did hurt you when he called you that and if he has any simpathy he'll apologize again.Its up to you wether to take his apology. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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well you should definitly forgive him...if hes puttin an effort to get your forgiveness then it probably means something to him. Give him another chance and if he does it again...well thats a different story...
hope i helped
mucho love
kayla xoxo
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:0) just forgive him. I think hes seriously sorry. I no this is a stupid answer . SORRY:0( but I hope i helped XOXO Michelle
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well....it depends on how you feel about it! if you and this guy where in a fight and he said that you were fat then it was just probably out of anger! and in that case i think you should forgive him and give him another chance to be your friend! but if he just randomly came up to you and told you that u were fat n stuff! then i dont think thats right at all. n he would probably do it again! so0o i hope i helped you think alittle more! hope things work out hun!
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I think you should forgive him. He did say sorry and that's a huge step to take. It shows that he knows it was wrong to say what he say and he really cares, so that is what he wanted to say sorry. Everyone should have a second chance, so you should really forgive him. Tell him that what he said did really hurt you, but your happy he said sorry. Ask if you can start all over again and just try to forget about what he said. Since he did say sorry, I'm sure everything will turn out great!
♥ Krissy
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Well i guess you could forgive him but apparently isnt very sorry if it took a month to say sorry..but um maybe try to be a lil cool with him and see how things work jus try not to get so attached to him..much luv dez
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i no its hard but if he really means it then forgive him*
hope i helped
♥ indeed2
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That's harsh. I know forgiving him will seem like the answer, but let him know after what he said, he has to earn back your trust.
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Hmmmmmmm........ I would say screw that kid, if hes gonna be like that all the time it might get confusing.
---Trevor
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No, hes an idiot. Dont forgive him. Forget him.
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i disagree with many others that have written to you about how you should give him a second chance...if a guy called me fat and told me that he hated me then i sure wouldnt give him a second chance he dont deserve a second chance...girls have rights not to be called fat and stuff by guys...but if you really like him i know it would be hard not to talk to him becuase i have been in situations where my friends told me that i needed to get over somone and that i deserve better but i just coodnt because i liked him so much...so you can forgive him if thats what you feel is right but make certain that hes not just saying that hes sorry make sure that he means it
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you should give him one more chance if you really like him and if he hurts you again you should never talk to him again. if he hurts you then he isnt worth liking.
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Hey i know what your saying,
if what he called you hurt you realli bad than you should talk to him about it and when he apologizes to you make sure he means it and than you could try and forgive him.
xoxo amore
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I think you should give him a second cance, but be careful. If he made comments once, then there is a chance that he might do it again. Hope my advice hlps! ♥ jenn
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what you should do is try to forgive him and if he is starting up again with the comments just let him kno that when he says things like that it hurts ur feelings and dont talk to him or even look at him again so i am sure that u will be fine if you forgive and all...love ya danielle
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The truth is there is no telling whether he will hurt you again. If I was you I would try a second chance. If a boy has enough guts to apologize to you, there must be something good coming out of it. So go ahead and try to forgive!
x0x-Sarah
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accept his apoligy and try to give him a second chance. maybe he's differant now and relized he was mean to you and shouldn't have been.
-J*Lyn
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You never know if he's going to hurt you again. Give him a second chance, and if it happens again give up on it. He isn't worth it.
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If this guy apologized to you, it tells you that he really meant it and that he knew it hurt you. When guys apologize to a girl, it means that they are sorry for what they did. You need to talk to him and tell him that you never want him to say anything mean to you that will hurt you. You should forgive him but make sure he won't say anything to you like that again because that is mean.
-Karen
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