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i dont know anymore
my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do???
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it sounds like you really care about your friend and maybe you should talk to her one on one to her and tell her how you fell and then maybe things will be clearer good luck i don't know any more
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tell her how you feel about her seeing this guy..and maybe you could even talk to the guy it depends on how serious it is and what "things" she is going with this guy..if its sex i would just tell her to use protection if she wont listen to u
hope i helped *<3 michelle
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jesus the girls only 14!! what could she have done? im only 13 myself, but even i know this shit shouldnt be going down!
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Well, it might not be your business, it might not. Im like you, I'd be concerned because 14 is way to young. I would sit down and talk to her about it, just tell her how you feel.----Spike
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She's your best friend. If she told you these things apparently she did so in the hope that you'd be accepting. You don't have to do what she does or even condone it. All you need to do is be there for her. Warn her of risks and remember not to tell you that you told her so when she screws up.
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It is sortof your buisness and sortof not...like...im sure you wouldnt want someone critisising you about how easy you are and stuff..you can have a talk with her about how you think it isnt right...make sure you tell her you arent trying to tell her what to do your just suggesting she settles down a bit...hope i helped...mucho love~kayla
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Well dont look at her any different.. and by the way she also could be lying to you so she look cool cause few my friends done that to me.. much luv dez
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at 14..people (especially girls) can do some really crazy stuff. I wouldnt not be her friend over it. If its only one guy..maybe overlook it. Everyone has different sexual desires and wants. If she starts to become a slut and does this with quite a few guys..i would talk to her about how your concerned. But for now..maybe say 'wow im a little suprised that you did this stuff. Did you regret it?" I know people who have done things..(people who i would never expect to do those types of things) and they are still the same fun people to hang out with. So what im trying to say is..even though she fooled around..it doesnt mean shes going to totally change. I like that your concerned about her..and hopefully when you talk to her...she'll appreciate that also.
Write back to me if things go wrong or if you need someone to talk to
Hope i helped
-melissa-
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You need to talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about all of the things she has done with this guy. Tell her that she has changed your opinion about you because you have never thought that she would do these things at this age. If she has been your friend for 8 years, she should understand and will stop. You should tell her to stop doing these things because she will eventually be called a whore, slut, and etc. and you don't want her to be known as that.
-Karen
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dont think of her any different and talk about the same things you always talk about with her. or since she has experience in some things you dont, ask her about it. why would you change the way you talk to her or act around her. its not a big deal.
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Just call her up or sit down and have a talk about this to her. Tell her what she's doing isn't making her "cool" and it's going to give her a name, if she doesn't stop. Once she gets that name, example: Slut, whore and all that, it's going to stick with her and never go away. Make her realize she's better then that. And once a guy know she's hooking up with other guys, they'll just want her for skin. Try to get the point across to your friend and tell her everything your feeling. If she's a true friend, she'll listen to what you got to say.
♥ Krissy
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tell her 2 stop dat wat she's doin isn't rite. and if she doesn't stop tell her if she contiunes your not gonna b her friend no more. i hope i helped. please rate!
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