I just had a really quick question. My boyfriend and I have done some.. hmm "stuff" and I was wondering- what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at 14? ( we haven't had sex ) - and I don't want answers like "do what you're confortable with," because I was very comfortable with what I did, I just want to know if it was right for what age I am.
gakkuhideto answered Monday February 28 2005, 12:54 pm: Are you asking for a list of what you should do? Should I say, "Well, it's okay to give him head as long as you don't have sex!"?
nicolenicolenicole answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:00 am: as soon as you feel ready to do anything is the right age. i was 14 and 2 days when i lost my virginity so i dont reccoment rushing things, and there are a lot of problems that come with sex. try oral sex or fingering or something like that have fun lol [ nicolenicolenicole's advice column | Ask nicolenicolenicole A Question ]
LilSeXiBlOnD3y answered Sunday February 27 2005, 4:17 pm: well i think it is a good enough age to do all this stuff and i also think that if u trust your boyfriend enough to do this stuff then ya you will be fine. but if your boyfriend tells the whole world then i think he just isnt for you!!! another good thing is if u been going out with him for about {5-6 months} then maybe it is ok to have sex!!! i think [ LilSeXiBlOnD3y's advice column | Ask LilSeXiBlOnD3y A Question ]
icey0990 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:16 pm: Well..everyone has a different opinion. We have no right to tell you what is okay and what isnt. I think almost all of us could agree that sex isnt something people would say is okay for a 14 year old to do. I would say making out and experimenting with touch is okay for a 14 year old to do..however..there are 14 year olds who have the connection and are mature enough..so if you did more than that dont worry because some 14 year olds can handle doing other things. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:05 pm: Dont have sex. Wait until your much older. I would have to say, the farthest a 14 yr old should go with a guy is makeing out. Haveing sex with a guy that you'll probably not even be dateing for a while would be stupid because you wouldnt want to have sex so young Good Luck.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:01 pm: Well yes i think if your comfortable with anything you do i think its fine for your age.. i think if your mature enough to handle it then your mature enough for the consequences if you have any after you do what you do.. but i think at your age i would jus make out and maybe do some expermenting with like feeling on each other.. but i think if you feel okay with doin more then do what you want..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:26 pm: I'm not exactly sure what you did do so all i ca say is that i'd only go up to kiising unles you want to go farther.
i my self am 14/f and i've never actually kissed before but that would be the farthest i would go.
Good luck and hope i helped!
simone*~ [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
Pyroboy10980 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:23 pm: If I was you i would ask your boyfriend what he is ok with and if you are going to ask something like that it would be easyer to answer if I knew what "stuff" you did. [ Pyroboy10980's advice column | Ask Pyroboy10980 A Question ]
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:11 pm: you can do anything you want. it's all up to you. their is not limit. but there is social status. usually if you were to have sex and sumthin like that at yur age, people wouldn't think highly of you. hope i helped [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:05 pm: At your age, you can do anything as long as you are alright with it and you are ready. I really can't tell you what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at your age because everyone is different. What ever you did with your boyfriend, it was alright for your age because age doesn't matter when you do things with someone.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
x_next_2_you_x0 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:04 pm: im sorry if this sounds harsh in any way but at the age of 14 its just not right to do stuff like that i mean wait until at least 16 you hopefully have a hole life ahead of you save it for then otherwise you will have nuthing to look forward to...hope i helped <33 ~danni [ x_next_2_you_x0's advice column | Ask x_next_2_you_x0 A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:02 pm: Age really doesn't matter hun. If your 100% ready, I don't see anything wrong with doing whatever you did. A lot of 13-14 year olds have already had sex, so I'm sure whatever you did with this boy is fine. I wouldn't suggest having sex right now, but anything besides that is okay! Your fine. I mean he is your boyfriend right? So, it's not really a big deal. What you and your boyfriend did is both you and his business, not anyone else.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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