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can you get birth control without your parents knowing? and how much does it usually cost?

well everyone knows where to get condoms but for the pill, if you dont your parents to know, you make another excuse to get it besides contraception. it can be used for acne and for regularity/pain of periods as well as birth control.

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I got this stuff over the weekend called "Lemon Lights" it's from the beach blonde by John Frida brand. Does this stuff really turn your hair blonde out in the sun?

well it doesnt work on darker hair but my friend who is a bit blonde had a noticeable change.

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hi its me again okay i have a question well me and my boyfriend have been having sex and he says he can't have kids . well we have been having safe sex and i am not scared of it i am just wonderin can i get pregnant if he say's he ant have kids and he doesnt wear a condom when we have sex again?i mean should i trust him on him saying he cant have kids or should i ask someone like his sister? i just dont know if i should believe him and plz answer my question here it is again. Can i get pregnant if my boyfriend says he cant have kids?

well even if he cant get you pregnant that doesnt mean he cant give you STDs. so just be safe.

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Is it normal to have a late period?..like a 2 week-late period?Also,anyone have websites that would answer my questions please?

www.beinggirl.com
that should help you out...and yes its normal. take care!

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ok so we have an 8th grade formal comming up and i wanna know some cute wasys to do my hair could anyone give me any web sites to look at the "formal" hair styles or cute oes that dont look to old for a 14 year old??

I will rate!

well i looked at the prom issue of seventeen and they have a whole section for hairstyles. i would go for all up in a nice (kinda J.lo) bun with a side part and lots of loop type things.

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Is it possible to loose a few pounds by just eating healthier (with some physical activitey but not alot) If so, can you tell me some good health foods to subsitute with my normal junk food? Thanx i rate high! :)

yeah it is possible! i honestly eat quaker chewy bars...the smores ones are low fat, filling, and are actually really good.

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i have really bad bags under my eyes all the time. no matter how much sleep i get they never go away. can sumone help
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some undereye circle are heriditary so they will just stay like that no matter what you do. try a light undereye concealer that you dab on. that should hide them.

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this is really weird but ..im always afraid to sign on aim because im afraid someone will say something really mean to me and ill get upset for weeks. I over analyze convos on AIM wayy too much and I think if someone says anything like hi instead of hey or um i think they hate me!! what do i do? I love talking on AIM but Ive had some bad experiences and now im paranoid!

well you dont HAVE to go on. if your scared of some ppl in particular, block them. just dont take it seriously!

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Okay.. welp the other day i dyed my hair dark and now it looks like it is black. I HATE having 'black' hair. My mom won't let me dye it again so is there anyway i can get it back to brown? I put that sun-in stuff in my hair but will that have any effect since my hair is BLACK!?

it will eventually get lighter (it happend to a friend of mine) you could get it stripped (like wash it out with chemicals) or do it yourself with the stuff you can get at the store.

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1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
Thank you!

1. yes, jail
2.well if she denies it im not sure they could prove it so im gonna go with no.
this is a pretty bad situation to be in...i say dont do anything sexual until you are of age and you should be fine.

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This guy and I have been talking for 5 months now. And we're both really into each other. And he keeps pressuring me to have sex with him, and I really want to. I don't have a problem with that. But I'm not sure what to do, and what is right. I think I am ready, so what should I do?

talking...are you together? its good that your into each other and all but if he's pressuring you, he is not respecting you. if you want to then thats a whole different thing. i honestly would go with with waiting but if you are 3333% sure you are ready and have protection, a place and a GOOD motive (not for entertainment) then follow your heart. if u need more info, feel free to ask, thanks 4 askin!

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16/f--I have this friend whos mormon. She's really nice & everything, but she's always trying to get me to go to church with her. But the thing is, I'm a proud Christian. I love learning about new religions, cultures, lifestyles, etc. But going to church with her is something I don't really want to do. Also, I've talked to my mom about it, and she doesn't want me to go either. Part of my not wanting to go, is that I've talked with a few people who have gone to church with her (also friends of ours) and they've said that they take down your name, address, number and sometimes take your picture. And thats not something I feel comfortable with. My church on the other hand, won't do that. They'll treat you like a guest and they tell you, you aren't obligated to do anything. But for some reason, everyone has said that the mormons try to talk you into some things. And I'm not disagreeing and bashing on the mormon religion, but its not something I want to be a part of and I've pretty much kept my feelings to myself rather than spreading them or whatever. But I don't know what to tell my friend when she invites me places anymore. Usually I'll say "I'm doing something" or 'I can't wake up that early'. And I feel bad. And now, my other best friend just became mormon...so I'm not sure what to do. And I don't know if my friend's mom would want her to come to church with me, since she's really overprotective (I was thinking mabe we would both experience other churches, but it might be a bad idea).

im glad your open minded but i can see why you wouldnt exactly enjoy this...well ill give you a few options and you can pick...
1) make excuses until she gives up
2) go but dont allow them to convert you or take your picture...i think you can sue for that kind of stuff.
3) go but only if she goes to your church first (this should get her off your back
4) straight up tell her that you have no intention of becomming mormon because you are already christian (not cuz u hate the idea) and you dont want religion to get between you b/c christianity is important to you.
ill edit my answer if i think of any more, this will be on my mind for a while.

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my eyelashers are like tottaly straight!! well i curl them and put mascara and whenever i put mascara on my eyelashes are like not good.. like they are clumped together... does anyone know any good mascara that makes my eyelashes lonnger?

well when you curl them hold it down a little longer. when you put on mascara, roll the brush along them. as for the actual stuff, maybelline is good.

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My parents have officially said that I can have the name as "going out" with someone. There's this guy I've had my eye on for a while, but he has turned me down on several occasions. We're not exactly friends, and I haven't exactly asked him out. He knows I like(d) him and he's kinda weirded out by it. At the next dance should I ask him to dance?

(oh, I'm 13/f)

well by dancing with him, it doesnt mean you are going out or are planning on going out with him so get to be his friend (your 13, you have time) and go ahead and ask him to dance. if he turns you down dance with other guys...lots and lots of them! lol just have a good time and if he rejects you, its his loss.

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well aim is my life and i go on ALLLLLLLLLL the time, but lately it hasn't been allowing me to go in as my name. it allows everyones but mine-i really need help :( please help me!
-i rate high
thanx

someone might have changed your password. my friend and i did that to someone. you can try to recover it through email or just make a new sn.

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Okay well i have been on a diet for about a month now. I have lost 10 pounds. (I'm pretty big so i'm nowhere close to goal weight.) I was wondering if anyone had any tips to speed up the weight loss? And also, I know it takes time, but no one has even noticed that I lost weight so it is starting to really get to me. It is very hard to stick to a diet but I am doing it and no one is even noticing! Some people still make fun of me and it gets discouraging. Does anyone know what I could do to just block out what they say until I lose all the weight?

dont speed it up! it will end up backfiring and youll gain it all back. its a gradual process...if you go to quickly, youll end it quickly and just hate having to go through it again. good job on losing 10 pounds! the first 5 are the hardest from what i hear...dont let other people put you down. you have a right to change yourself for the better.

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ok i had sex with a condom like at the beginning of april. im not susposed to start my period until the beginning of may. but every morning for like that past week my stomach has felt just a little bit upset in the morning and a little into the late afternoon. but my bobs dont hurt and im not throwing up and im not smelling anythign unusual. and i just got over having a really bad sinus cold. so should i be worried or not? please help me guys!!

well just take your mind off of it, the more you worry, the more youll feel sick. being sick to your stomach isnt just a sign of pregnancy. i feel sick in the morning for a bunch of diferent things (chocolate too early) and there is no way i could be pregnant. take a test if you need reassurance.

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ok me, joan, & laura all skipped our electives today. i need your guys help!!! idk what to do
ppl know laura did because her 2 elective teacher called her other teachers to see if she was absent! i feel very guilty & regretful. i told my parents already. but mostly all my grade knows we did because joan is very popular! so what do i do about my rep? what do i say to people taht give me odd looks? what do i do when my teachers+principals ask me questions??? I NEED YOUR HELP ADVICE-ISTS

well yes, you should have thought about that before you did but honestly i dont think you have anything to worry about. rep? its the end of the year and rarely do ppl judge you if you skip class... some ppl actually think your cool. i skip class every chance i get and make up an excuse. dont think to much about what they will do like questioning. teachers dont usually do that, they just make it look like they will to make you guilty and make you freak out and stuff like you are doing now ; ) take care and dont do it again!

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OK, so theres this guy that i REALLY REALLY love. he likes this other girl, but he has no chance with her. someone told me that they were tlaking to him, and he said he might ask me out or that other girl. i REALLY like him and i might have a chance with him, but the thing is i dont know how to get him over the other girl and start to have more feelings for me. in the hall when i walked past him i saw him blush. what should i do?!?!?!?

if hes gonna ask you out and he blushes, then just wait for him to ask you! if you push him away from the other girl, it will backfire against you so just wait n see.

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hey guys. i can never seem to get a bf. like i have a lot of guy FRIENDS. just FRIENDS. im always the friend, never the girl. i cant FLIRT! can anyone give me some flirting ways/tips/techniques? i love anyone who helps!!
i just cant open up so easy to guys i like and then when i do its like hey your funny and im like.. eh heh.. yeah just funny! it never turns into something more. last year (6th grade) i got a TON of guys! but this year im more friendly and brave and open.. ugh

6th grade relationships arent real. theyre just "hey i kinda like you" sorta things. 7th grade theres a bit more meaning in them and ppl look for different qualities. its ok to be the girl, dont get desperate and go for mr right not...wait for the right person. having a bf isnt the most important thing...single girls can hang out with everyone and dance with whoever they want. guy friends are great to have! i have some really good relationships with some of them and they help me out with my bf...convenient eh? youll be ok.

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