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hey guys. i can never seem to get a bf. like i have a lot of guy FRIENDS. just FRIENDS. im always the friend, never the girl. i cant FLIRT! can anyone give me some flirting ways/tips/techniques? i love anyone who helps!!
i just cant open up so easy to guys i like and then when i do its like hey your funny and im like.. eh heh.. yeah just funny! it never turns into something more. last year (6th grade) i got a TON of guys! but this year im more friendly and brave and open.. ugh<3 i miss have bfs..dates..ughhhh help!!!!
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Alright your only in seventh grade so I'm sure there will be someone down the line. I know how you feel...Alot of my friends are guys because they are just so much easier to be friends with, but the often treat me as one of the guys. Your friends probably see you as "one of the guys" and dont think about you as anything else. I wouldnt worry about this too much. And just remember your guy friends when you do get a bf because they will always be there for you.
*Kate*
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I have one word for you: confidence.
Walk upright, eyes up. Look people in the eye when you talk to them (especially boys). Remind yourself constantly (in your head!) that these boys are lucky to even talk to you. Soon, they'll think so too.
It's corny, but it's so true. An ounce of self confidence makes a world of difference.
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well to guys like me its normal but it depends on what u look like how old u r and your athletics its not about flirting its about u
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Hey hey common, if the guys don't want you as the 'nice, funny girl' they aren't looking for a 'real' realtionship, they just want girls who they can 'do' stuff with them! Just be yourself and the right guy is going to come!!
Love Always,
Marielle*
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anonymous -
You don't need to flirt to get a guy. Decent guys go for the friendly, nice girl, not the flirty trashy ones.
From what you said, you seem like a nice girl. You don't need to put in any extra effort into making a guy notice you. Depending on what kind of a relationship you want, really depends on how you should behave. If you want dates, but not a boyfriend, go ahead and flirt, but don't overdo it. Smile sweetly, joke around a lot, etc. or you can even ask a friend to hook you up on a double date. If you're looking for a committed relationship, continue doing what you're doing because to be committed, you have to find a guy who likes you for you, not who you're trying to be.
Good luck.
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just flash them cute smiles. make them want more from you. play around a little, just have funn while your at it too. you'll get used to it and from then on you'll be a natural. good luck! ;)
~natt~
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6th grade relationships arent real. theyre just "hey i kinda like you" sorta things. 7th grade theres a bit more meaning in them and ppl look for different qualities. its ok to be the girl, dont get desperate and go for mr right not...wait for the right person. having a bf isnt the most important thing...single girls can hang out with everyone and dance with whoever they want. guy friends are great to have! i have some really good relationships with some of them and they help me out with my bf...convenient eh? youll be ok. <3
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I used to be like that but when i turned 13 i i changed. All you really have to do it be yourself because i use to be really sue but know ive changed to flirt all you gotta really do is make the men laugh and touch them in the arm or something. flirting is really easy smile too it helps out.
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