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Heyyy, I'm Mary:)I've been on here for over four years--Ask me anything, and I'll try my best to help you out. :)
Alpha female, always tries her hardest, analyzes the situation too much, overthinks what the other person says, tries to please others, stresses easily, high achiever, loooooves to laugh. I'm still learning the facts of life, but I can always share my mistakes and lessons learned. :)
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Okay well i have a friend and she makes me do EVERYTHING 4 her well at lunch like she will be like here is 50 cents go buy me a cookie and i do it! i dont want to but i do anyways. and i through her trash away 4 her and she pays me a dime and i dont want to do that either i just feel like i can tsay no and when i do i feel like she will be mad at me but whp cares right i cant do stuff 4 her right? well i dont know what do to please help!
Tell her FIRMLY, no! You aren't her slave..and if she keeps using you like this, then she isn't really your friend.
Me and my boyfriend has been dating for about eight months now and i love him to death.. i mean he is my world, my everything, my one and only, but i feel like i am causing problems for him and his friends who was here before me, i mean he ignores them when i am around and now they are mad at him, and i feel bad i mean i dont want to break up a friendship thats been there for 6 years, i mean she was there before me, but the thing is if he chooses he has to choose one of us because we dont like each other REALLY HATE EACH OTHER.. but like i said i love him and i dont want him to think i am making him choose but i also dont want them to not be friends.. what should i do???
talk to him and tell him how much you love him and make him understand that he can hang around with his friends too..maybe he just feels that he has to commit to you to make you happy..or maybe one of his girl friends like him too..you just need to talk to him and together, figure out what to do..
earlier today a friend of mine asked me a question...they asked "if i show you something will you be mad?" I said no. so the person showed me and it happened to be that the person had cut their wrist. i didnt get mad..but they had done it once before. i want to do something before it gets to bad. what can i do?
talk to her and tell her that it's not good for her...maybe get into something deeper and figure out why she cut her wrist...try to make her stop.
Recently my boyfriend and I moved in together. Afterwards I found out he has been making new female friends and not telling me. He never talks to them when I'm arond and only on his cell phone (never our home phone)and calls have been made and recieved all hours of the day and night even as late as 1:00-3:00am. I am ok with his previous female friends, the ones he had before we met, but don't like the new ones. He said he wouldn't do this anymore, if I was uncomfortable with it and stopped talking to them for a few weeks. I recently found out he has a new female in his life and again didn't tell me. Am I overreacting or do I have a right to be bothered by this?
Yes...you have a right to be bothered by this..You told him that you were uncomfertable with this and he stopped for awhile..maybe you should talk to him again and if he doesn't stop then maybe consider taking a break for awhile to let him figure out what he wants since it's obvious that he's not ready to commit to one person..sorry if this was bad..:-\
O.K please help and fast... my mom has the flu and shes throwing up and stuff... what do i do? is there anything i can give her that will help her feel better?!? (not medicane) please help!
*i rate*
Give her liquids (water, soup,etcc) Then maybe call a doctor or something...hope she feels better!
The guy who I've really liked for over a year said that he kind of likes me. What does it mean if he kind of likes me? My friend who is friends with him thinks that since he's shy, he said that he kind of likes me because he was too shy to say yes. This other guy who I talked to who doesn't even know the guy I like said that he thinks it means that the guy I like thinks I'm hot and has a little crush on me, but isn't really like in love with me. What do you think it means if he kind of likes me?
I agree with your friend. He probably likes you but was too shy to say yes.
As a seventeen year old female who is oober tired of stupid highschool guys and would like to move on to more mature ones... how old is too old for me?
Umm..putting aside that illegal 18 thing, I would say 21??
If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong?
God has give us free-will so that we can do whatever we want. He also might want you to learn on your own that porn is wrong. Only you can decide what to do. Sorry it didn't help.
I'm starting to think i have some form of depression.Here lately I will start crying for praticaly nothing.I try not to cry but then I start to cry even harder and forget every thing good that happend in that day and start thinking baout my life sucking and me hating myself.Im starting to lose self confidence.I've got freinds who have to have anti-depressants for the same reasons im starting to think I need them the only thing is most of the time they go and get advice from people like special docters and stuff.But I dont like telling alot of people about my life it bugs me specially knowing a stranger knows everything about me.I was just woundering if someone could tell me some of the ways you can tell if you are having a depression problem and need to seek a docter to get medication.(sorry for it being long)
I used to think I was depressed too..but i was too embaressed to tell anyone so I just kept it inside of me and stayed strong because I knew I could get through it. If this is really serious, then yeah, you should tell a parent or doctor or something and get help..or maybe talk to a counselor...hoped that helped..please rate..>:-)
i have a very high self esteem like i feel really good about the way i look because i know no1s perfect but sometimes i get really hurt when this guy at my school lets call him james makes fun of my ears because they stick out a little i know i shouldnt let him bother me bcuz im proud of who i am but he makes me feel so ugly because he can say some really mean stuff and im not the kind of person who will defend myself because im a very quiet girl because of my family backrounds can anyone tell me what to do about this situation
Ignore him...and you may think this is really crappy advice but I used to get made fun of EVERY SINGLE DAY and i had to live with it..what i did was just either laugh it off or pretend that it didn't get to me even though it was killing me inside..and I cried everyday because of all the people that tried to make my life a living hell..but I stayed strong and now most of the people that used to make fun want to be my friend..:-) please rate
Hey guys and gals, i was wondering if someone would be considered anorexic if they only ate once a day, or even nothing all day and maybe once the next?
Thanks
Yes, I would consider that anorexic..or maybe you just have a super small appetite..you might wanna go to a doctor about that..
me and my da havent spoke for about a yr since i got caught smokin weed... my dad completely turned his back on me while my mom was there with me the whole time and i love her i miss the relationship witt my dad but at the same time im so mad at him (even though i was the one that screwed up) for turnin his bak on me i have two sides about this and its gettin mixed and i dunno wut i shud do... hes not the type of dad u cud sit down and have a conversation about this with... plz help
yeah I have the same relationship with my dad..just let things go the way they are and hopefully things will work out..sry its not really good advice :-\
hey!well this might be long but here it goes...Ive liked this guy for a year and a couple of months now...but ive never liked someone so much and im quite sure its love. i didnt really talk to him before but now we are good friends..and during thanksgiving 04...i kinda told him i liked him...over aim..i didnt want it to happen that way.. and its a long story but my friend kind of made me. anyhow..i thought i was gonna die..i was so sadd so weak so upset.. i couldnt stop crying.i evn thought of suicide at times..but not anymore. then ive noticed after that we have become even closer and i like that..but we have never talked about the whole thing about me liking him and whenever im about to mention it..i get scared. i dont know wat to do anymore though..because im always thining about him.. and i really do love him. hes usually very sweet to me but there are some days when he just kind of ignores me or he feels upset.i dont kno what to do..its like evrytime im near him theres this feeling i get..and i fall for him over and over. sometimes i even think he likes me but im not sure and i really need help.
Maybe he's not ready to be in a relationship or he's just shy to admit that he likes you, too? You should talk things out with him in person or by phone..hoped that help :-)
I have REALLY horrid discharge..and sumtimes it can stain my panties an off-yellow...does anyy one know how to make it stop...or when im going to NOt have discharge any more?
Umm maybe wear pantiliners or something to stop the leaking..:-\
You know those wristbands that everyone has? Like the ones that say 'Livestrong'? Someone told me there's a place online where you can make your own. Anybody know a site like that? Thanks!
www.wearyellow.com i think..or just google it..
Ok so here is the deal i know that i am supposed to be a good freind and all my friends say i am a good freind. But latley my friend who is a 14/male has been trying to act well cool he is drinking and i dunno if that is such a ood idea seeing as he is trying to get me to do it i know that i used to be an alcholic but i have stopped because my other friend who is a 14. female told me to so i did. But that is not the real deal. My friend has also begun to overdose and talk about suicide i have talked to people about it yet when i try to talk to him i am to afraid to tell him to stop i know i need to and i know i just would rather have him be mad at me yet he knows me o to well and will put up a fight.
Do i dare try to talk to him because he is violant or should i leave that to a parental unit???
thnx
Monn
Yess talk to him before he hurts himself even more...and maybe even tell an older person or something..and also good job on not drinking anymore..:-)
hey every1
k well i went out with this guy last year, his name is ben. then we broke up over the summer but now for like a month i have liked him again and i found out that he likes me too cause he asked me out tonight online, but as soon as he asked me out and i said yeah he had to go football. im worried that tomorrow at school it will be akward and i really don't want it to be akward cause we have been like really good friends like forever. please tell me good ways to flirt with him tomorrow so it isn't akward! thanks so much I RATE WELL!
Maybe write him a note and see what you guys can do after school or something..
Ok sorry if this is long, but you need to know everything......... there is this guy at my church named Adam and he and i have fallen in love. The funny thing is, back when we were in middle school/ high school, i first met his parents and they loved me. Sounds good right? So anyway, then he met mine and lets just say they didnt mave the same reaction to him as his did for me. After that we drifted. Diff. Collages ect.... Well now we have met again, and we found that we still love eachother. Now my dad wants to meet this amazing guy that i love, and i dont know if i should because of what happened last time. I really dont want any of that "well if your truely in love your father shouldnt care" because my dad is not like that. Once he makes up his mind even 7 years later, he still stiks to his word. WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????? any help is appriciated.
21/f
Talk to him before and tell him what this guy means to you..SORRY IF THIS DIDN'T HELP :-\
Well I straigten my hair everyday because otherwise my hair looks disgusting. My hair has a lot of static whenever I get done straitening it and I even put lotion in it sometimes since my sisters do it and they dont have any static. Is there anything I could do or a product could do for me? Any suggestions?
biosilk- get it at trade secret
I am 13/f, 14 in july, but i took a baby-stting class for 2 days at a saint francis hospital...well now that i have done that, i dont know what to do! i mean theres like nobody i can babysit! anybody know a site that i can go to thats like a teen babysitting line or soemthing haha!?!?
go to your local ymca..maybe they'll have somethign there??