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friends of the opposite sex
Recently my boyfriend and I moved in together. Afterwards I found out he has been making new female friends and not telling me. He never talks to them when I'm arond and only on his cell phone (never our home phone)and calls have been made and recieved all hours of the day and night even as late as 1:00-3:00am. I am ok with his previous female friends, the ones he had before we met, but don't like the new ones. He said he wouldn't do this anymore, if I was uncomfortable with it and stopped talking to them for a few weeks. I recently found out he has a new female in his life and again didn't tell me. Am I overreacting or do I have a right to be bothered by this?
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Chill out..I'm sure you dont have a friend thats a guy? I mean really..if he moved in with you then it means your something to him, unlike the other chicks that me nothing..i personally think you're overreacting.., not to sound too harsh or anything..
-Christine
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You're overreacting.
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okay, so i agree, a new friend thats a girl isn't that big of a deal. You need to give the guy some space. Yet, he's lying to you. Thats where he made the wrong turn. I say, you confront him, make sure he's clear that he's not dealing with a jealous girlfreind, but a girl that is sumply tired of his lying, that could invlolve cheating.
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Yes...you have a right to be bothered by this..You told him that you were uncomfertable with this and he stopped for awhile..maybe you should talk to him again and if he doesn't stop then maybe consider taking a break for awhile to let him figure out what he wants since it's obvious that he's not ready to commit to one person..sorry if this was bad..:-
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