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meet the parents?
Ok sorry if this is long, but you need to know everything......... there is this guy at my church named Adam and he and i have fallen in love. The funny thing is, back when we were in middle school/ high school, i first met his parents and they loved me. Sounds good right? So anyway, then he met mine and lets just say they didnt mave the same reaction to him as his did for me. After that we drifted. Diff. Collages ect.... Well now we have met again, and we found that we still love eachother. Now my dad wants to meet this amazing guy that i love, and i dont know if i should because of what happened last time. I really dont want any of that "well if your truely in love your father shouldnt care" because my dad is not like that. Once he makes up his mind even 7 years later, he still stiks to his word. WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????? any help is appriciated.
21/f
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I think he could have changed his mind given the situation. Maybe he didn't like the relationship last time because you were younger.Give it a chance but remember, you're 21 and who you love is your decision to make and no one elses.
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Tell your dad that you are in love with this man and I would really appreciate it if you would give him a try a GOOD try.
HIH (hope i helped)
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You're going to have to talk about this to your father. Did he just meet the guy, judge him, then say he didn't like him? If so, this isn't fair to the guy your in love with. You should tell your father all the nice things about this guy and why you love him so much. Tell him how he treats you and how he is when your around. Maybe once you tell him all the nice things this guy does for you, he'll like him more. Have this guy around the house more and get your father and him to hangout. That way, it'll show your father what he's really like. And even though you told us not to say the "If your turely in love, your father shouldn't care" statement, it's true. He should accept whoever you love, because you can't help who you fall in love with, it just happens and he should be happy for you.
♥ Krissy
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How about telling your dad exactly how it is? just explain to him that you understand that he might not be keen on the guy still but that you'd like to give it another go and this guy makes you really happy? could you suggest that they meet again? It sounds like you two are meant to be together if your paths have crossed twice now!
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Talk to him before and tell him what this guy means to you..SORRY IF THIS DIDN'T HELP :-
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