well see ..i was goin out with this kid (eric) for like 4 months and yeah we had sex.. but then like .. i dont know we got in some kinda fight ish thing .. and then like .. i kissed this kid Jimmy and ended up liking him ..so i broke up with Eric cuz i felt wicked mean .. cuz i cheated on him and then i liked Jimmy so i dumped eric .. and now my bestfriend is goin out with him .. ( im goin out with Jimmy and she started goin out with Eric a week later) and Eric made out with my cuzin 2 days later,and then went out with her and then broke up with her and told me that he was like still in love with me and then went out with my Bestfriend.. i mean is it alright to be kinda mad about this or is it like .. wicked bitchy and stupid to be ?
please help =/
sweet_apples answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 2:46 pm: well your not beging stupid but it sounds to me that wouldnt be feeling mad or jelous in less you dudnt still have feelings for him and like you said he said that he was still in love with you so maybe he's trying to get you mad and jelous so if you like tell him [ sweet_apples's advice column | Ask sweet_apples A Question ]
SxyLilPoo47 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 3:01 am: OH MY GOSH!!!!!! You should be mad at everyone in this situation besides jimmy.Cuz eric made out with YOUR COUSIN!!! thats fuckin down n dirty and your bestfriend is a total bitch for what she did.But about eric you cant really be mad at him I mean if you go out w/ other people shouldnt he be able to too? but youshould be mad at him for going after your Cousin and your bestfriend.But you should be even mor mad at you bestfriend and your cousin than Eric because you trusted them more and they knew about you and Eric.
So no, you're not a bitch you probably are just getting back some emotions and you catch feelings when you hear about stuff like that.It's natural don't worry!.
LindasCounsel answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 11:58 pm: Dear uhh,
Wow. You have some drama goin on there. I have to get it straight first.
You were going out with Eric.
Got into a fight.
Kissed Jimmy.
Broke up with Eric.
Started going out with Jimmy.
Best friend starts going out with Eric.
Eric makes out with your cousin.
He goes out with your cousin.
Broke up with cousin.
Tells you he loves you.
Starts going out again with your best friend?
Did I get that right?
And now you're upset with Eric. First of all, feelings are not wrong. They just are. And I think your feelings are valid. However, I think he's kind of got his hands full right now. It sounds as if he's very fickle and goes from one girl to the next. I wouldn't do anything on impulse right now no matter what Eric is saying to you. I think he still may have feelings for you, but THAT is NOT love. Trust me on this.
Also, about the sex issue. When a girl has sex, that level of intimacy really tends to cloud the vision a bit. Pull back a little from Eric so you can see him a little more clearly. I don't think you're being bitchy nor do I think your feelings are stupid. You were hurt. And you have every right to be, just as he had a right to be hurt about you and Jimmy. And you know, he could be trying to reel you back in. But like I said before, before making any impulsive decisions, really THINK about it first.
Good luck!
Linda [ LindasCounsel's advice column | Ask LindasCounsel A Question ]
coolpool0509 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 11:25 pm: right, um your question is kind of confusing and hard to follow but if i understand it correctly then yea you havea right to be mad at him! i mean i wouldnt go postal on him but make sure he realizes that he did something wrong and that you are uset about it!
candace_marie45 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 11:24 pm: well .. you cant really get mad at him because you cheated on him first. But it is kinda wrong for him to make out with your cousin then say he still oves you, then go out with your best friend. Its a confusing situation so i think you should talk to him adn see how he really feels and tell him that it pissed you off that he did that. And see how he feels. hope this helps. lemme know how it goes! [ candace_marie45's advice column | Ask candace_marie45 A Question ]
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