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God help you if you trusted the advice I gave at 13.trisspoke (7:31:17 PM): make me your forum link!
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What can I do to have more energy
SPEED!
Disclaimer: I am 100% kidding. Never do speed. Ever. It is a terrible idea.
However, as the answer below me said, carbs are a great way to gain energy. Focus on eating wheat carbs, as opposed to white carbs, which have nutrients bleached out of them.
Furthermore, cut out soda from your diet. The sugar does give you a brief energy rush, but you end in a debilitating crash. Actually, stay away from all caffeine in general. Stick to water.
For more ideas, check out this website:
http://zenhabits.net/2009/05/55-ways-to-get-more-energy/
Is it bad to do stuff with family members...brothers, cousins, etc.
Yes. This my friend, is called incest and it is extremely illegal.
ok this is a little wierd for me so please be open minded about this, i have a 13 year old daughter and well i need to know the age that girls start have periods i'm her father and only parent and i just don't know these things about girls, and also she said that she wanted to know what sex felt like and that someone told her that it would hurt at 13 years old, but i told her that she shouldn't think about things like that that she should wait until she got married but still she asked and it deserves an answer so i kinda need a womans advice on this because i'm clueless on either part, so please help, thanks
Girls start their period ranging through ages 9-16, so our daughter will certainly be starting within the next few years.
As for sex, it hurts to loose your virginity regardless of what age you are. However, as her father, it is your job to educate her about safe sex and the emotional toll sex takes on the mind. Of course, it will be awkward, but it is extremely important. Urge her to wait, but remember that abstinence only sex-ed does not ALWAYS work.
are nutri-grain bars and granola bars a healthly breakfast/ lunch
No, they are neither a healthy breakfast, nor lunch. Most granola bars are around 100 calories and are not sustainable for a meal. Furthermore, granola bars contain very little protein, which is especially necessary to eat in the morning to jump start your brain.
For breakfast choose things such as eggs or a bagel with cream cheese. For lunch, a sandwich or salad with chicken (or cheese if you're a vegetarian) would be healthy.
im 16/f and share a room the size of a closet (when it has 2 occupants) with my 6 year old sister. thats a bit of a difference. i need my own room before i go crazy.
my mom says if i can give her $10,000 she''ll give the rest to make me a room.
how do i make 10,000 dollars ASAP?
There is no sure way to make money fast. However, getting a job is a sure way to make money in general. You can try and barter your mom down to a lower price, and then give her all of your paychecks.
i havn't had a BF in like forever. my mom was uneasy with the idea of me having one in the first place and now is putting down the foot and completely disagreeing. i really want to have one and i don't know how to tell her i want one without hurting her feelings or just so she still thinks i'm still her litte girl. she also thinks that all my freinds with BFs are stuck up so that complicates things.
To be honest, you don't need a boyfriend. You sound pretty young, and one won't make your life magically better. If someone you really like comes along, then you can start worrying about making it work with your mom. As for now, go on enjoying life and youth without worrying about being attached. It really isn't all that wonderful.
ok i have a boyfriend and he tried to finger me but it wasnt that great. so i tried it myself and it feels pretty good but im not sure if im like doing it right. once your finger is in what are u supposed to do? and how dou know you have orgasmed? thanks in advance for your help.
Any way that feels good to you is right. Once your finger is in, feel around and do what you like. Your boyfriend probably has no idea what he's doing, so feel free to give him a little direction. When you have an orgasm, you will probably know.
By the way, we cannot give you specific advice on how to do these things on here, so search google if you have that much trouble.
can you pop your cherry by masturbeting orbeing fingered?
Indeed, you can. You can also do this by horseback riding, bike riding, penis riding, and by using a tampon.
14/f.
SORRY FOR THE LONGNESS . BUT PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE .
Okaay . SO this guy named Chris and I have dated twice . I broke up with him first , in grade six , because i wasn't ready for a boyfriend . Then in grade seven , I actually started having feelings for him , and I admitted it to him. He told me the same and we started going out again . I really like(d) him and he was the only boy I'd ever felt that way for . We were in two different classes and on two different lunches too. It was hard to get together because we were both so busy. I was there for him through everything then. I cared about him alot . When he got a suspension because of some lie a girl told , i missed my bus comforting him . I also got presured A LOT that year to break up wtih him becasue he was SUPPOSEDLY flirting with other girls . I really liked him.
But later that year , he broke up with me . It was because we never saw each other anymore. Even though i didn't show it , I was terribly sad and still really liked him A LOT .
Not even my best friends knew I still liked him until grade eight (WHICH IS NOW).
We are now on the same lunches and his class is across from mine. When he broke up with me , he never said he didn't like me . But i never know , he could've moved on . But he's the onlyy boy i've EVER liked and i just can't think of anything else when he's there . He flirts with me , and says I remind him of his girlfriend , and he asked me if i was still going out with my boyfriend (last time i had one , summer 08). He says he misses talking with me and stuff like that ... do you think he still likes me ?
thank youu !
-maycee
If he has a girlfriend, probably not. If he was really all that into you, he'd be with you right now. Besides, you're 14 and you should really go out an experience new people.
16 female
ok. um, this is kinda...akward...and scary.
so, me and this guy (we'll call him L) have been going out for the past year. he's one year older than me. L's always been real sweet about the whole sex thing, but lately, he's been...pushing, and i'm kinda scared, cause he's getting kinda angry/violent. i'm scared he's really gonna hurt me, cause he hit me last week when i made him stop, taking of clothes and stuff.
I dont know what to do.
Help?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Anytime a man hits you, regardless of it is just once, you are in an abusive relationship.
You need to get out NOW. Don't wait for him to hit you again because chances are he will.
It is completely understandable for you to be scared to break up with him. Talk to an adult you trust and let them know what has been happening. If he tries to hurt you, they will be there to back you up. It is important for you to get out of this relationship ASAP because he will probably leave a mental scar on you, if he has not already.
http://hubpages.com/hub/Dealing_with_abusive_relationships
Read this for more help.
what is spooning?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=spooning
okay well my boyfriend is having a party in two weeeks and i really am excited. The only bad thing is is that all his friends do drugs and drink. My boyfriend dosne't do these things but he still will allow it at his party. I have 2 problems
1. I cant tell my parents because they would not let me go if that stuff was going on there. i have never been to a party like this before so i am kinda nervous myself.
2. My friends are super good and won't come of there is drugs and alcohol there either so i will be by myself. My boyfriend is super popular and it is his party so he will be mingling with others there to. Not just me.
So what should i do?
Personally, I wouldn't go. It will probably make for somewhat of an awkward situation. A) You don't do drugs and drink and B) None of your friends will be there. You probably won't be comfortable there. Just explain the situation to your boyfriend, he will probably understand. If you fear he'll be angry, you are allowed to tell him you just need a girls night or something to that extent.
okay so my winter formal is in two weeks and i still dont have a dress ! my mom is letting me order one online since the dress stores around here dont have anything good. well im a bigger girl, not plus size, but like a large or extra large in regular sizes. and i need a dress that would flatter my figure, like one with an empire waist. so if anyone could give me some awesome sites or direct links to dresses like that, that would be amazing! my budget is under $100. thankyou!!
Of course, it would be much better to go to the store and try the dress on, but there are a few options for curvy girls that always look great.
http://store.delias.com/item.do?itemID=49417&categoryID=1836&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
This would be a very cute option. Since the dress flows away from the body, it hides any spots you may be embarrassed of.
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=362297&CategoryID=18109
This dress is ADORABLE. Anything with a pleated bottom all over is really great. It kinda gives a nice Marlyn Monroe effect.
I can't seem to find a good one, however, wrap dresses look terrific on curvy figures. They create a great hour glass shape.
http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3427553&cp=2843536.2903751&view=all&parentPage=family
Remember that the perfect little black dress will always look fabulous on every woman. This is just an example, if you look around, I'm sure you can find one you love.
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=dress_dressy&product_id=2057361021&Page=1
I secretly think you should buy this just because it is too fabulous not to...
okay so my girlfriend is pregnant and she dont get her period does that mean the baby is like drinking the blood?
I bet Edward Cullen knows the answer!
Im 15 F and a virgin. lol i was wondering, how bad do you think it would be if i had sex with a guy if im dating him for about 4 months.. Also what if this guy was my first boyfriend and first kiss ?
First off, I'd like to say no one on this site can decide for you whether or not you should have sex. Sex is something personal and it needs to be up to you.
That being said, it's also something extremely serious that you need to put a lot of thought into it. A fifteen year old who has dated a boy for a total of four months probably does not know much about love yet. The majority of people need to wait a very long time before they can be sure if they really love a person or not. Furthermore, you DO need to love the person you lose your virginity to because a piece of you will be attached to you for life. Your best bet really is to wait. You hear of people regretting losing their virginity all the time, but have you ever heard of someone regretting waiting? Probably not.
I need some really cute ways to ask a boyfriend to turnabout, I can think of some ways, but theyre not original. I rate, THANKS (:
Get a pizza sent to his house or a classroom while he's in school with pepperoni spelling out "turnabout?"
Bake cupcakes and ice the letters of turnabout onto them and give it to him.
Have a male friend dress up as you and ask him.
Give him random notes throughout the day asking him in different languages and have the last note be in English.
If you can play any musical instruments, write a song about it!
So basically, I've been asked to study my Learner's book because i want to get my licence as soon as possible, but when it comes to studying Im not good at memorizing stuff unless Im really interested in it, and well, Information about giving way and whatnot just doesn't interest me and if i feel pressured to pass the test, I will have a panic attack pretty much. My mind tends to go off into another direction when im trying to focus reading so im veryy easily distracted. Does anyone know a special way to study and remember informationn?
A really simple trick is to set whatever you are studying to the tune of music. It's proven to work. It sounds quite elementary, but people naturally retain information better when in song form. This is why people can remember all sorts of song music, but can't remember anything for a history, or in this case, a driver's test ;)
Sorry, I dont know if this is in the right category. Is masturbation bad if you are a Christian?
It is a sin, but so is wearing mixed fabrics, such as a cotton-polyester blend. It's really your call on whether you want to do it or not.
Edit: Yes, the bible says it is, but no one actually abides by it. I was trying to show you the correlation that there are tons of ridiculous sins, so if you feel you really want to masturbate, it is up to you.
Anyone know any exotic or different sex positions out there?
I feel like trying something new with my boyfriend.
It's against site rules here to explicitly describe sexual acts, so no one on here can really tell you.
However, you can go out and buy the Kama Sutra. This book originated in the Middle East and is basically a guide to various sex positions.
my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he didn't cum but I did. do you think I could be pregnant ? do boys feel it when they are about to cum ? please help !!!
Anytime you have unprotected sex you run the risk of being pregnant.
Boys do feel it when they are about to ejaculate, however, there is such a thing as pre-cum. Pre-cum happens during the course of sex before a male ejaculates and it does hold sperm in it. Guys cannot feel it when they pre-cum.
If this happened only a few days ago, try and get the morning after pill. Otherwise, if you miss your period you need to buy a pregnancy test. Try not to stress though because stress can also cause you to be late.