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does he still like me ?
14/f.
SORRY FOR THE LONGNESS . BUT PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE .
Okaay . SO this guy named Chris and I have dated twice . I broke up with him first , in grade six , because i wasn't ready for a boyfriend . Then in grade seven , I actually started having feelings for him , and I admitted it to him. He told me the same and we started going out again . I really like(d) him and he was the only boy I'd ever felt that way for . We were in two different classes and on two different lunches too. It was hard to get together because we were both so busy. I was there for him through everything then. I cared about him alot . When he got a suspension because of some lie a girl told , i missed my bus comforting him . I also got presured A LOT that year to break up wtih him becasue he was SUPPOSEDLY flirting with other girls . I really liked him.
But later that year , he broke up with me . It was because we never saw each other anymore. Even though i didn't show it , I was terribly sad and still really liked him A LOT .
Not even my best friends knew I still liked him until grade eight (WHICH IS NOW).
We are now on the same lunches and his class is across from mine. When he broke up with me , he never said he didn't like me . But i never know , he could've moved on . But he's the onlyy boy i've EVER liked and i just can't think of anything else when he's there . He flirts with me , and says I remind him of his girlfriend , and he asked me if i was still going out with my boyfriend (last time i had one , summer 08). He says he misses talking with me and stuff like that ... do you think he still likes me ?
thank youu !
-maycee
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If he has a girlfriend, probably not. If he was really all that into you, he'd be with you right now. Besides, you're 14 and you should really go out an experience new people.
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It sounds like he enjoys toying with your emotions. You also have to realize that if you were his girlfriend, he could do the same thing to you that he is doing to his current girlfriend, by flirting with others. That makes me think that there could be some truth to what your friends were saying before.
If something does happen with you two, remain wary of his actions, you wouldn't want to get hurt if he really is just a playboy. In my opinion, you should have an honest chat with him and ask him about his true feelings and thoughts on all of this.
Girl to girl respect is important too, so remember that he does have a girlfriend and how you would feel if you were in her position.
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Well since he has a gf your chances are smaller.
Your going to have to find out how much he actually likes his gf, and if he likes you enough to leave her for you.
You say you really like him, and he left you because you never hung out well fix that.
Even if it's as friends and he doesn't know you like him, hang out with him as much as you can, talk to him as much as you can and get closer to him. If he has any feelings left they will start to come out the more you two hang out(either in a group or alone). Once you have proven you can be there for him express you feelings for him and hopefully fate will take it from there.
Hope it Helped
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~InsaneChildz~
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