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i need a BF
i havn't had a BF in like forever. my mom was uneasy with the idea of me having one in the first place and now is putting down the foot and completely disagreeing. i really want to have one and i don't know how to tell her i want one without hurting her feelings or just so she still thinks i'm still her litte girl. she also thinks that all my freinds with BFs are stuck up so that complicates things.
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To be honest, you don't need a boyfriend. You sound pretty young, and one won't make your life magically better. If someone you really like comes along, then you can start worrying about making it work with your mom. As for now, go on enjoying life and youth without worrying about being attached. It really isn't all that wonderful.
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I say your mom doesnt need to know about your bf. I am 19, and my parents have never known of any account of me even meeting with a guy. Not that I have thaat many meetings with guys that i'm keeping secret from them. i have never really actually had a bf tho. I've met a few guys, and my parents dont and wont know about that. And i'm an "adult"! I dont know how old you are, but you have to be younger than me and you're still a kid. But, i would say, your mom doesnt have to know everything, especially if she's not one of those moms you can talk to. But, I advise you to be smart about what you do. I wouldnt know if you are a virgin or not, but these are wise words: be careful about sex. If you want to do it, it is best to wait. Make sure that you have been going out with the guy for a whiile, and be 100% sure that he truly cares about you before you do anything with him. Something has happened to me, where a guy was talking about how he would treat me how i deserve to be treated and i would be his "queen",.. but I did someting orally for him... it wasnt the wisest decision.. he used me. So just make sssssure that the guy you are trying to be with won't just get what he wants and then lose interest in you. And I would say, that as long as you are sure to make good decisions, your mom doesnt need to really know, if you want to secretly see somebody...
Maybe i should be a responsible "adult" about answering your question, but that is my advice... but just remember what i told you honey. =]
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