My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too?
Um probably not.. but maybe go to the doctor anyways so you wont worry so much hun..much luv dez x0x0
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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!
some people think its okay for somebody who gets raped to get an abortion because its hard for parents to raise a child they didnt exactly want or plan.. i think its wrong as well.. much luv dez x0x0
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The country that I live in is debating the Death Penalty. I Do not understand the understanding that the death penalty is ok. You are killing someone still aren't you? I realize that the people scentenced are usually murderers and other things along that line. I just want to know both sides of the story. I looked it up on Google and it is not what i am looking for. I want opinions on BOTH side.
i dont think the death penalty is okay.. i mean there are people who do shit that hurts people and it would make em feel better to see em die.. but still its the thought they should jus be punished and sentenced to prison for life in a room with nothin but a toilet..i dont think that they should let em leave the room.. so they get nothing to do..much luv dez xoxo
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well i guess i have been sort of seeing this guy for the past like month or so but we arent bf and gf. im 17 hes 20 if that matters...anyways he usually texts me while im in school and picks me up and we hang out every monday and we also hang out on like friday and other days too but the point is every monday i believe since i met him we have hung out well todaii he didnt call me or text me or anything so im not quite sure.. the last time we hung out was on friday and he didnt act any different and what not but im confused on why he didnt call me today maybi he wanted to see if i would call him ? so basically my question is do u think he still wants to keep hanging out and maybi he didnt call cuz hes busy and should i call i him even tho its too late to hang out today?
Well he probably had something go on.. and i also think you should give him a ring and see if everything is alright... let me knows whats up on it or if you need anymore advice hun..much luv dez x0x0
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Aright well just 3 weeks ago...my b/f broke up wit me cuz he thought that i cheated on him, when he was the one that slept with sum chic that he met ova the net...so basically he's blaming everythin on me! So anyway...ever since he broke up with me ive been kinda wantin to go bak out with him, but i kno that if i do all he's goin to do is hurt me again! I mean i guess i still kinda love him in a way...but i hate him at the same time,cuz of all the pain that he has put me through...i don't even talk to him anymore! so like i said before i wanna go bak out with him but then again i don't! Please sumome help me!
Thanx,
lost and confused!
Well hun i think you should continue to not talk to him he sounds like an asshole.. any guy that cheats is an asshole to me hun.. but i think you should try to move on with somebody who isnt going to do that to you.. i mean it doesnt seem like your exactly madly in love with the guy so it would be easier to move on.. dont try to get back with him cause you might actually fall for him deeper and then he'll do the same shit again then you'll jus be put through more pain.. much luv dez x0x0
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im 5'6 106 do you think thats healthy?
yea sounds pretty healthy to me hun..much luv dez x0x0
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i am pregnet like 2 months along, and as we know your not supposed to have sex, well my boyfriend really want it, but i cant give it to him, and i dont want him cheating on me, i was wondering if you can have anal sex while being pregnet?
Yea you can have anal sex... and you can have regular sex too.. nothing happens to the baby.. much luv dez x0x0
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hey im 15 and never had a boyfriend, and not even kissed someone, and all my friends have! i dont hang around with any guys, so how can i meet a guy?
thanxz for the help
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Go out with some friends to like a dance or something where you have to comunicate with other people *including guys*..and try making friends with guys.. much luv dez x0x0
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ok in my english class I have to write a paper on a assigned topic. My topic is abortions. I need opinions and any information that is good and bad about abortions. Please I need help on this. I have my own opinion but I need more than just what I think.
In some ways im for abortion cause i think if its going to cause death anyways then abortion is a good idea.. but thats the only reason why i think abortion is okay.. I think that abortion is agood thing because its a living person and thats murder.. and i dont think it should be legal for mothers to kill a baby jus cause they made the mistake of having sex and its not the childs fault.. i think if they dont want the child they should jus put it up for adoption.. Much luv dez x0x0 good luck on your essay..
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hey. alright, im kind of nervous about shaving below my belt. does it itch growing back? how do i prevent razorburn? should i just use shaving cream? what about nair? if anyone could give me some tips or adivce on doing it, that'd be great.
Its okay to still shave down there weather you are sexually active or not.. if your comfortable with yourself like that then do it.. um i wouldnt be nervous hun its really no big its as easy as shaving anything else.. um yea it does itch when it grows back but after i started doing to for a while it actually stopped itching or maybe i got use to it..*i dont know* but um i wouldnt use nair ir probably would irritate your skin down there and burn.. um you can use shving cream and use a good razor and wash with warm water.. um also if afterwards put baby oil or some kind of lotion on it.. and if you have problems with shaving cream i would use conditionor.. it keeps it real soft and helps more with razor burn.. also when you shave..shave downwards first and get the hair all off then shave upwards it helps it not be so stubbly.. much luv dez x0x0
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Hey I need urgent help and I will rate fives to anyone who helps me!!!
Well my mom's b-day is coming up and I am making her a clay precious moments figurine,but the problem is I do not have the money this second to buy some clay so does anyone have a good recipe for making pottery clay?
i dont think clay cost very much hun.. i did this thing for my grandma and it only cost me like five dollars for the whole thing.. but it came with some stuff to color it in with..so it probably is cheaper then five dollars.. much luv dez x0x0
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today i was at my boyfriends house. ive known him for 2 years but weve only been going out for a month. we were at his house home alone today and he kept asking what did i want to do. then he started being like oh well your boring you dont want to do anything. (he ment like i didnt want to do IT) and i jsut said...weve only been together for a month! and then he was like...well thats not what you said to that guy that you had sex with!!! (im not a virgin and it was the biggest mistake of my life) and then i just got up and walked away. and he came after me and he was like babe im really sorry and he just kept hugging me and saying he didnt mean to say that and how sorry he is. it just really hurt my feelings. and i know hes not just using me for sex. hes an awesome bf. we hangout all the time and i tell him almost everything. our parents even like eachother. i duno he just really made me mad today. what do i do? do i just let it go? or next time he asks me to come over do i say something and bring up how rude it was of him to say that? i duno im confused..
ps..that wasnt the first time i been to his house..we hangout all the time..
Well i wouldnt have sex with him either.. you should be in love with him *more then friends* and it should be somethings special between you two weather your a virgin or not doesnt mean you'll give up to anybody and he should respect you for that and respect your body.. tell him how that really made you feel and also tell him what i jus said about him having to respect you and that it should be special between you guys.. rushing into things might jus end up ruining this good relationship you have with him and im sure you dont want that to happen.. and a month really isnt a well committed relationship that is ready to move on to sex.. much luv dez x0x0
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hey guys i didnt know what to put this under but, i want to get a tan this spring break since im not going anywhere. the thing is m, my mom doesnt want me to go in a tanning bed. what are some ways i can convince her to let me go? thanks anyone that replies!
Well other then going to a tanning bed you can lay out in the sun.. i dont know anyways to convince her in letting you go to the tanning bed... sorry i didnt help but i tried..much luv dez x0x0
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I am 15 I had my 1st love and after we broke up I was down all the time and i cud never have a boyfriend cause they always reminded me of Joey then after 9 months of being single i got back with my ex CJ and we were happy i forgot all about joey then we broke up and he is with my bestfriend..I try to have a boyfriend to forget about Joey and CJ but it dont work..I cant find a guy 4 me...Whats wrong with me?? Please help!!!!!!!
Let there be time for you to get over them..everytime you get dumped to plan on finding a guy ride a way and then them be able to help you get over your feelings you had for somebody it most likely isnt going to work..much luv dez x0x0
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can the foods you eat affect your skin(acne)? does eating chocolate or greasy foods make you break out? and does makeup make you break out? i heard these were a myth but i think this is true.. well in my case.
THANKS!!
im pretty sure that those things cause acne and sometimes make them worse.. much luv dez x0x0
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Ok... I was in a porno Video cause i needed money to go to a school trip in France..! But now All of the guys at my school .. Are porno freaks.!! and all they want is sex from me..! i dont want to give sex to them cause i only did that 1 time to get money for a trip and all the girls think im a slutty ass bitch.. and im not i was always the nice girl and now after one mistake i am called a slut! All the guys try to talk me into sex but i dont want to.. when i go on a date i always get forced to hhave sex. its really annoying and bad.. I hate it and i dont even think i want to go on this trip. after all thats happening.. One of my friends told me that She over heard her boyfriend and his friend saying that this kid that goes to our school may rape me.. Im scared and i dont want to start more drama .. Not only that but the tape was sold on the internet. Im doomed for life. What do i do to repair my reputaion and stay away from getting raped..
any advice is apperciated..
Ps- IM NOT A SLUT!
i dont consider you a slut for doind that.. alot of girls i know are stripping for money so they can go to college.. but um hun im not real sure on how to repair something like this..it sounds like its a little to late to try and do something bout it not.. i mean keep your respect for yourself and not let guys force you into sex.. hold down a good reltionship before having sex with somebody.. and about the rape thing well okay thats a rumor.. and first of all if he was really planning on raping you he wouldnt be tellin everybody... his ass would get caught in a minute if he actually did do it.. i wouldnt really worry about it to much but to be on the safe side i would maybe not do things by yourself stay close with some friends.. and watch out for eachother..much luv dez x0x0
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ok so i like this guy from work...and he obviously lieks me back...he flirts all the time and he asked for my number.is it bad to date someone from work...i mean i dont even know if it would get that far...im just asking for furture referense...i read the code of conduct or whatever for my job..and they say you can date ppl from work but you have to tell the "big boss man" whoever the hell that is..and he has to give you persmission or sumthing weird liek that. But just in general is it wrong to date someone from work??
No its not wrong to date somebody from your work.. And i dont think you should have to get permission from anybody to date somebody from work thats kinda stupid.. i think it should be nobody's business as long as you keep your dating and your relationship outside of work and not do things while your working.. but i hope i helped much luv dez x0x0
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i never do anything on the weekends except hang out at home... and with only one frined...i dont know what to do i want to start hanging out with more people but they always have plans
try going other places with the friend you hang out with and comunicate with people.. then you'll meet more friends and will eventually go other places.. i would suggest going to like the movies..much luv dez x0x0
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OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?!
Well i never heard of a nine year old to be like that.. but thats a regular boy.. much luv dez x0x0
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when i was a little girl my aunt went out with this really tall and ugly guy. he was nice but he liked to play with my private area and he stuck his in side mine a few times. i dont considder it rape or sexual abuse but i dont no what 2 say when people ask me if i am a virgin cuz besides that little thing i havent had any sex. what should i tell people. i dont mind it if people no that i am not a virgin but i really mind it if i have to tell them how i lost mi virginity and when. so am i still considerred a virgin or not and wat should i say wen people ask me that question?
You arent a virgin.. whats wrong with you for not tellin on this guy.. much luv dez x0x0
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