Aright well just 3 weeks ago...my b/f broke up wit me cuz he thought that i cheated on him, when he was the one that slept with sum chic that he met ova the net...so basically he's blaming everythin on me! So anyway...ever since he broke up with me ive been kinda wantin to go bak out with him, but i kno that if i do all he's goin to do is hurt me again! I mean i guess i still kinda love him in a way...but i hate him at the same time,cuz of all the pain that he has put me through...i don't even talk to him anymore! so like i said before i wanna go bak out with him but then again i don't! Please sumome help me!
sparta answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 9:06 am: Run away!!! turn away and never look back. Listen i have had the same thing happen to me! It sucks, i mean it relly freaking sucks. My guy cheated on me, then spread a rumor i cheated on him etc etc. He's a jerk ok. Plain and simple. This guy desn't care about you, and if he does its only once and awhile! Love and respect yourself. Don't settle for him. Start dreaming of a man that loves you more than life itself, someone who would smack some hoe off his lap before he ever hurt you. It can happen i promise that. Just snubb that piece of garbage, and feel sorry for the stupid girl he's with now. [ sparta's advice column | Ask sparta A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Monday March 21 2005, 11:39 pm: Well hun i think you should continue to not talk to him he sounds like an asshole.. any guy that cheats is an asshole to me hun.. but i think you should try to move on with somebody who isnt going to do that to you.. i mean it doesnt seem like your exactly madly in love with the guy so it would be easier to move on.. dont try to get back with him cause you might actually fall for him deeper and then he'll do the same shit again then you'll jus be put through more pain.. much luv dez x0x0 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
jamziix16 answered Monday March 21 2005, 9:52 pm: hey hun, i'm going through the same thing. you may think you love him so much, but you probably don't. i know my ex boyfriend will hurt me again. i think you need to move on.. i'm sure you can do better. he'll see you with someone else and he'll regret breaking up with you. hope i helped :) [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
LoViny0ux914 answered Monday March 21 2005, 9:35 pm: thats normal. youre not a total freak for feeling like that lol. its just how people are, i mean we can hate a person sooooo much for hurting us, and at the same time we love them more than anyone else in the world...theres nothing you can do about it. no one on this site can help you...its just a feeling thats probably going to stick with you for a while and i know this is the complete opposite of what you want to hear, but im not going to lie to you. just try to have fun in the meantime and just do what you think is right...because no one else can make your decisions for you! im really reall sorry that happened to you, but i hope everything works out! xoxo [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
angelinluv6767 answered Monday March 21 2005, 9:34 pm: thats the same thign with me. i went out with this guy ove rthe summer and he cheated on me so we broke up, and havent talked since. i still like him alot, i even think i love him. But i hate that he cheated on me. I still want to go outw ith him too, but i dont want to go through all the pain again. I think you should talk to your ex more instead of not talking at all. Then get closer again and later see if he would ever go back out with you. I know alot about this situation cuz like i said, i am in the same situation. so you can aim me on ((angelinluv6767))!! i wont mind at all. hope this helped adn hope to talk to you again soon! [ angelinluv6767's advice column | Ask angelinluv6767 A Question ]
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