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my bf wants to ALREADY have sex
today i was at my boyfriends house. ive known him for 2 years but weve only been going out for a month. we were at his house home alone today and he kept asking what did i want to do. then he started being like oh well your boring you dont want to do anything. (he ment like i didnt want to do IT) and i jsut said...weve only been together for a month! and then he was like...well thats not what you said to that guy that you had sex with!!! (im not a virgin and it was the biggest mistake of my life) and then i just got up and walked away. and he came after me and he was like babe im really sorry and he just kept hugging me and saying he didnt mean to say that and how sorry he is. it just really hurt my feelings. and i know hes not just using me for sex. hes an awesome bf. we hangout all the time and i tell him almost everything. our parents even like eachother. i duno he just really made me mad today. what do i do? do i just let it go? or next time he asks me to come over do i say something and bring up how rude it was of him to say that? i duno im confused..
ps..that wasnt the first time i been to his house..we hangout all the time..
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Be strong continue to say no!! in the future ull be happy!!
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Well i wouldnt have sex with him either.. you should be in love with him *more then friends* and it should be somethings special between you two weather your a virgin or not doesnt mean you'll give up to anybody and he should respect you for that and respect your body.. tell him how that really made you feel and also tell him what i jus said about him having to respect you and that it should be special between you guys.. rushing into things might jus end up ruining this good relationship you have with him and im sure you dont want that to happen.. and a month really isnt a well committed relationship that is ready to move on to sex.. much luv dez x0x0
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shit just do it yall have new eachother for awhile idk its up to u.......
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Just talk to him about it. Explain to him that you personally think that since you've only been together for a month, that it's just too early, and that you losing your virginity to that other guy was just wrong now. Don't dump him. Most guys would probably get angry if they got turned down after asking if their GF said no to sex... He's probably just curious and maybe, in his own way, is asking if you're ready!
So just talk to him about it! <3 EJ
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just talk to him if he want to have sex tell him your not ready yet and that u dont wanna do that again
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I'd tell him how hurt you feel, that really wasn't nice at all on what he said, but he might have been mad, so try talking to him. ♥
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HEY! ight. You should, well you should wait 'till u are ready. talk about i guess. if he is using you break up w/ him. i dont really think he is using you though, it doesn't really sound like it. he proly wants to sooner becuz of that mistake w/ the other guy, he might feel presured by it. hope I help.
=)=)luv ya! t-28 old1
hey, you need to wait till BOTH of you are ready.
talk about doing IT with him. when youre both ready you know it will be the right time. but, he might just be using you for sex, and if he is, break it off!
=)=) luv ya! t-28 young1
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i think you should forgive him you would ruin everything if you didnt you dont no how hard it is to find someone to love you back like that and seeing how you have it you wouldnt want to lose it
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Tell him how much of an ahole he is.
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your boyfriend may be sorry now but he will still make a move on you another time.
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He said he was sorry..guys make mistakes I know he hurt your feelings and trust i know how it is..But you make mistakes too. You dont want a little thing like that come between the two of you..Just tell him how you feel that it really hurt you nad how you dont want him to say things liek that again..He will understand and you both will go on.
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ok well since he;s sorry and all i say give him another chance, especally since oyu seem to like him so much. if he tries to have sex with you before oyur ready or anything, dump him. thats a big sign that he only wants to have sex with you. but the next time you go over, have sumthing planned out so it doesn't end up to wat happened today. i hope i helped ya
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