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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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when i laugh really hard i start to pee..its starting to get embarrising. is this a problem? or what can i do to stop?

You probably have a weak bladder, which a lot of people have. Just try going to the bath more more often. If you really not sure about what the problem is or it's still happening, I'd suggest you go see the doctor. Don't be embarrassed at all, a lot of people have the same problem as you.
♥ Krissy

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Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 4 beautiful months. Neither of us have ever kissed anyone before, not even each other. We're both too scared to make the move but I really want to kiss him. I'm really shy so how do I let him know I want to without seeming too obvious. I don't want to make a fool of myself. Please give me some advice on how to overcome that fear.

Tell your boyfriend that you really want to kiss him and that you want him to be your frist kiss. Then just simply kiss him. Don't be scared, because all the fear will go away once you kiss him. Try to calm down a bit and be very comfortable with what your doing. I'm sure he's going to want to kiss you to hun. He's probably just really shy about this, just like you. So, go for it and make the first move!
♥ Krissy

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Hi! I'm having thoughts about marriage, I'm a 19/f btw. I recently viewed the film, Romeo and Juliet and was wondering on what other people's opinions are. Do you think Romeo and Juliet got married too soon? Why or why not? I'd like to talk to someone about this. I gove good ratings. Thank you in advance. =)

I don't think they were too young to get married. They were in love and knew that they were the one for eachother. Back in the olden days a lot of people got married at a young age, so it wasn't really a big deal to them. If you were to actually get married now, I think you should have a good job and be able to support your and who ever you marry. But if your really in love, have a good job and are ready to spend the rest of your life with this guy, there's nothing wrong with that! If you would like to talk some more about this, feel free to IM me.
♥ Krissy

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Last night the guy I liked met my mom and stuff it went good got a hug and stuff. Then today he called sayin the age difference he want sot be friends because if he ges a job we wouldnt be able to see each other and wants to hang out and talk to me because he thinks im the coolest person ever and it makes his day when he gets to talk to me. Then he called me saying I thought I would let you know it was gonna snow when he told me this earlier what does he mean? Does he still like me? Please help I rate high

I think he does still likes you, but he might be a little confused about things. I think you should call him up and ask him what is going on between you guys. Because you really like him and you really want something to work out between you and him. It shows that he does care about you though. If he did get a job it would be very hard to see/talk to eachother. But I'm sure you could find away to get around that and hangout when he's off. Just tell him everything your feeling and try to make things right.
♥ Krissy

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this boy asked me out and i said yes but his friend told me that my b/f said it was over. i asked my b/f if it was true and he said he wanted his friend to tel me it was over but he changed his mind.. i think he's having his doubts, ahould i break up with him b4 he breaks my heart?

You should dump him before he does break your heart. But before you actually do so, ask him if he's still having doubts about you and him. Maybe he was just really confused about being with you and such. He could have been scared or shy about it. You could also go on a break, meaning you could get back together. This may be good. It will give both you and him time to think about things and what you want in this relationship.
♥ Krissy

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how do i congradulate a friend who made it on to a competition?

A simple "Hey! Congratulations for making it to the competition" would be great. If you wanted to show her/him your proud of her/him in a different way, you could make her/him a card and give some flowers or chocolate with the card.
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me and my sister argue like crazy.its constant.my confidence is already low as im struggling at school.shes not making it any easier calling me thick shit etc.i try not to argue cos it really upsets my mum but i cant let her get away with it can i?what shall i do.i tried talking carmly to her but it doesnt werk?plse reply swn i rate good!xxxx

Sisters are suppose to fight, that's just the way it works. When she's bugging you, you should ignore her. Once she realizes what she's saying or doing isn't getting to you, she'll stop bugging you. You should also talk to your sister about this. Tell her that your confidence is already low and your struggling in school, so you don't need her on your back calling you "thick shit". Maybe a little talking and her realizeing how she's making you feel, will stop her from bugging you.
♥ Krissy

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my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do???

Just call her up or sit down and have a talk about this to her. Tell her what she's doing isn't making her "cool" and it's going to give her a name, if she doesn't stop. Once she gets that name, example: Slut, whore and all that, it's going to stick with her and never go away. Make her realize she's better then that. And once a guy know she's hooking up with other guys, they'll just want her for skin. Try to get the point across to your friend and tell her everything your feeling. If she's a true friend, she'll listen to what you got to say.
♥ Krissy

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How do I tell my boyfriend I want to wait to have sex until we're in a not so public place?

Just tell him you don't feel comfortable having sex in a public place. You rather have sex somewhere where it's just you and him, so it's that much more special. He should understand and respect your thoughts and will wait until your not in a public place.
♥ Krissy

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I'm really scared. My grandma (on my dad's side) has Alzemiers...it's where you forget your past and aren't really aware of your surrondings...My mom's brother has something like that, so the disease is on both sides of the family. It scares me thinking that I might get it. I get sidetracked really easily and I just know Alzemiers is in my genes. I'm 13...Do you think they will have a cure for it by the time I'm gorwn up?

Sweetie, I'm sorry. But god only knows if there will be a cure by the time your grown up. You never know though, we're always coming up with new technology. Keep praying and wishing for this and maybe your thoughts will come true. Spend as much time as you can with your grandma and always pray for her. Good bless!
♥ Krissy

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Why do people make fun of white people? I mean, it's just a color....Also, people will make fun of me because I'm Jewish and it hurts because Jews fought for their freedom just like black people, so why is skin color such a big deal?

This is very immature and totally rude of these people. People who make fun of others just because of their race, should be ignored or hit over the head with something. That's just wrong and they shouldn't be doing that. People are people. We all breathe the same. So why hate on eachother because of a different race? Whoever is making fun of you, ingore them and don't let them see that what they are saying is bothering you. Once they realize that whatever they're calling you isn't getting to you, they'll stop!
♥ Krissy

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There is this kid at school that I have known for about 3 years. He constantly bugs me and acts like he is flirting with me. We are both in this show at school and I was dancing for my part in the show and he screamed Work it girl! I know he was talking to me but I dont know if he meant anything my it. I dont like him at all. As a friend but not a b/f. He is always trying to go out of his way to be super nice to me to. Please help me.

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He does look like he likes you. Since you don't like him at all and you rather be friends, tell him that. If he does try to ask you out, just tell him you rather be friends. You don't want to mess up the relationship you already have by going out. And if all this super nice stuff and him saying stuff to you is bugging you, tell him to stop. You can't make yourself like someone, so he has to understand you don't have any kind of feelings for him.
♥ Krissy

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Can someone define the diffrence between love and being in love...anything corny is fine! Or could you define love itself.

Oh and is it possible to find love at any age? 15?

Love is the kidda love you give to your friends and family. Being in love is totally different, because your just in love with one person; your boyfriend or girlfriend. It is very possible to find love at any age, even 15. It doesn't matter what age you are, love is ment for all kinds of different people and ages!
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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*

I think you should forgive him. He did say sorry and that's a huge step to take. It shows that he knows it was wrong to say what he say and he really cares, so that is what he wanted to say sorry. Everyone should have a second chance, so you should really forgive him. Tell him that what he said did really hurt you, but your happy he said sorry. Ask if you can start all over again and just try to forget about what he said. Since he did say sorry, I'm sure everything will turn out great!
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ok my friend is only 12 and she was sleeping at my house and was talking to this boy on my computer about doing drugs (pot, ciggarettes, alcohol) and now i don't feel right when talking to her should i still be her friend?
thanks, ~lost n confused~

You shouldn't just drop your friend because she's talking to a boy about drugs and such. Maybe she's not even doing that? She might just want some information about it all. I think you should talk to your friend and tell her how your feeling about all this. Ask her why she's talking to this guy about drugs, ciggarettes and alcohol. Maybe she has a really good reason for all this.
♥ Krissy

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I just had a really quick question. My boyfriend and I have done some.. hmm "stuff" and I was wondering- what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at 14? ( we haven't had sex ) - and I don't want answers like "do what you're confortable with," because I was very comfortable with what I did, I just want to know if it was right for what age I am.

Age really doesn't matter hun. If your 100% ready, I don't see anything wrong with doing whatever you did. A lot of 13-14 year olds have already had sex, so I'm sure whatever you did with this boy is fine. I wouldn't suggest having sex right now, but anything besides that is okay! Your fine. I mean he is your boyfriend right? So, it's not really a big deal. What you and your boyfriend did is both you and his business, not anyone else.
♥ Krissy

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Does anybody know how i could remember my homework??? Because i always forget and i think i lost my agenda. And they wont give us new ones ??? Any advice would be great ( i rate high)

You could write your homework on your hand, so it's always there and I'm sure you'll never forget. You could also write it down on a peice of paper and put it in your pocket or something you'll always look at after school. You could buy some post-it-notes and write you homework on there. Then you could post it onto your homework or your bookbag.
♥ Krissy

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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?

Yes, this is allowed. Every teacher is different, many do have this rule. They would like their students to come to class and be prepared. If you aren't, they'll usually take points off and that will lower your final mark.
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does stretching help you grow taller?

Nope. The only thing stretching does is help you become more flexible/losen up. Your height depends on your family genes.
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Okay I was hanging out with this one guy tonight.. We went driving around and then we went over to his co-workers house to play some games.. Well things "happened" i should say.. But.. there is one problem.. He has a GF!!!!!!!! I dont know what to do. I like him a lot and he says he likes me more than ne thing.. and then he was telling me what he feels when he is with me. then I asked him if he felt the same way with his gf and he said no.. I dont know what to do.. PLEASE help!!!

If he really wants to be with you/likes you, he'll dump his girlfriend and go out with you. Until he actually does dump her, don't believe the things he says and don't mess around with him. When/if he dumps her, you'll know he does like you. Then maybe you guys can start something up. But until then, just talk to him and be his friend.
♥ Krissy

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