me and my sister argue like crazy.its constant.my confidence is already low as im struggling at school.shes not making it any easier calling me thick shit etc.i try not to argue cos it really upsets my mum but i cant let her get away with it can i?what shall i do.i tried talking carmly to her but it doesnt werk?plse reply swn i rate good!xxxx
Spike answered Monday February 28 2005, 3:10 pm: Just find a moment that your getting a long and ask her honestly why she does it----Spike [ Spike's advice column | Ask Spike A Question ]
SAMzasis answered Sunday February 27 2005, 6:07 pm: Okay, what you two need to do, is sit your ass down on a chair, and talk it out, at a local ice cream shop, while eating ice cream. Ice cream makes people feel better, cause it's that sugar-sweetness.... Mmmmm.... anyway, yea... that's my advice... sorry this isn't funny. But at least you get ice cream!
MummuM answered Sunday February 27 2005, 5:30 pm: Sisters are suppose to fight, that's just the way it works. When she's bugging you, you should ignore her. Once she realizes what she's saying or doing isn't getting to you, she'll stop bugging you. You should also talk to your sister about this. Tell her that your confidence is already low and your struggling in school, so you don't need her on your back calling you "thick shit". Maybe a little talking and her realizeing how she's making you feel, will stop her from bugging you.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
x_next_2_you_x0 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 5:21 pm: your sister sounds pretty harsh...if she dosent excpt you talking to her calmly you should just try and avoid her even though that may be hard but there is nothing you can do if she wont cooperate you are just gonna have to accept it...just dont take the mean stuff she says abut you seriously...you cant get brought down by her try talking to her again calmly and tell her that you dont like the way she talkes to you and how you deserve more respect...hope i helped <33
~danni [ x_next_2_you_x0's advice column | Ask x_next_2_you_x0 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday February 27 2005, 5:15 pm: If talking to her didn't work, you need to ignore her for a while. She will then notice that there is no one to argue with so she will stop. My brother and I always argue and I just ignore him and he has stopped a little bit. It's not your fault that you two argue a lot because it's normal for siblings to argue but she shouldn't be calling you "thick shit" and such.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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