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To kiss or not to kiss...
Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 4 beautiful months. Neither of us have ever kissed anyone before, not even each other. We're both too scared to make the move but I really want to kiss him. I'm really shy so how do I let him know I want to without seeming too obvious. I don't want to make a fool of myself. Please give me some advice on how to overcome that fear.
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Just answered a question like this heh, well the way it happened with me was, we were on the couch, and we jsut looked at each other and our eyes met and it jsut happened, its not sometihng you do, its something that happens----Spike
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just peck at him
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awww. dont be shy you two have been goin out for 4 months you know him... Just look at him and get his attention. then look in his eyes and smile... just kind of touch his chin with your finger and move a little closer and just kiss him... he will be suprised that a girl made the first move.. he will kiss back and then you two will not be afraid ne more
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Just talk to him and tell him that you want to kiss him and then kiss him. You will feel so much better and you won't be shy and nervous to kiss him anymore. It's alright for you two to be scared but one of you has to take a chance and make the first move. You won't make a fool of yourself. Your boyfriend is probably just waiting for you to make the first move. Your fear of being shy to kiss your boyfriend will go away. Just be confident and calm down before you do something and things will go better for you.
-Karen
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Ok. I went out with this one girl for a while and really thougth about kissing her. I told her how i felt. It made me feel alot better. It feels good to finally tell a person you want to kiss them. (besides...he might feel the same way)
---Trevor
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well just think...neither of you have kissed anybody before so he must feel the same way and he must be just as nervous as you are...just wait for the right moment i bet he wants to kiss you too...to let him no you could give him small hints that you want to kiss him...hope i could be of some help... <33 ~danni
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heyy...kissing isnt that much of a big deal..you should definitly go for it and once you do you will be liek "i was fretting over that?!!?" l0l its really not that bad...hehe i wish you two the best of luck...mucho love...kayla xoxo
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Tell your boyfriend that you really want to kiss him and that you want him to be your frist kiss. Then just simply kiss him. Don't be scared, because all the fear will go away once you kiss him. Try to calm down a bit and be very comfortable with what your doing. I'm sure he's going to want to kiss you to hun. He's probably just really shy about this, just like you. So, go for it and make the first move!
♥ Krissy
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This may sound weird but bring it up on the phone or online, wherever its easiest to talk about it and say something corny like "so...why don't u ever try to kiss me?" More than likely he'll give you some goffy reason and just say "I think it's cause your to scared" At that point your questioning his "ego" and he's going to get defensive (in a playful way) and just tell him "prove it."
Another alternative: hug him by and say "oh I don't get a kiss???"
Last suggestion would just be the suprise attack. Make it flirty and fun and maybe push him up against the wall and then kiss him. It's simple.
Do it in a moment that feels right. You'll know and when it happens it happens. Don't stress.
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I think your boyfriend would be happy if you kissed him. He'd be haveing his first kiss im guessing with the girl he likes a lot since its been 4 months. Tell him that you want to kiss him, i dont think he'd have a problem with it. Good Luck!
~Brina~
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Make the first move guys are shy too like girls.
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