"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥


Do you feel like your a better parent than your parents?

Are there some thing that your parents did that you couldn't imagine doing or not doing to your own kids?

With raising my children, I do think I am doing a better job than she is. Not so much than she did with me (because she did a GREAT job at raising her two Girls,) but more so her disciplining my children. She can never say no to them. So in turn, they always expect everything out of me and their Father. But, I have to have rules, or my children are going to walk all over us when when they're older, especially when they hit the Teenage Years.


I'm going to be a young mom, My boyfriend is my age too were both 18. We had many plans and everything was going fine, until he came over one day (Im living with my mom.) And he started ranting out on me, saying "I don't want a kid, I don't want to take care of it, I dont want to college, I cant handle this. Im not your boyfriend , tell your parents the baby isnt mine. Make you seem like a slut. Im not taking care of a baby its your fault." And so much more. Well that was 2 days ago. I've been crying for hours a day and I dont know what do to anymore. Do I call him? Should I call him? What should I say? They were his ideas and I liked them. But I need him, ALOT!

I think it would be best to talk to him about this first. Call him or have him meet you somewhere so you can have a mature talk. Sit him down and ask him what he really wants. If he wants this baby or not. And if he wants to step up and be a real father to this child. If he doesn't and he is still calling you down, leave him have his space. You do not deserve to be treated this way. Leave him think about this by himself. Some people have a very bad temper and they tend to say things they don't mean while fighting. Maybe if he has sometime to himself he'll cool down and realize what a bad person he was being.

I hate guys like this, though. I mean, it wasn't just you in the bed making the baby by yourself. So he should be a real man and step up to his responsibilities. If he wants to be a little child and be immature about this situation let him. He's the one who's going to miss out on his daughters' or sons' life and that is something you can NEVER get back. So if he wants to do something foolish and childish like that, let him. It'll be his entire fault in the end. Not yours, his.

Right now you need to look out for yourself and be around people who love and support you and this child. You need to stop worrying about him and focus more on yourself. It sounds like you're the one holding this together. It sounds like you do want the baby and you want what is best for it. This baby sounds like its going to have a great mother! If the dad doesn't want any part in this babies life, at least you know the baby will have a loving and caring mother. And you can be a father as well. It sounds like you're really mature and you're going to make this work, no matter what. Don't give up. I'm sure you'll pull through this all in the end. And once you have that baby in your arms, everything will be worth it. ♥


I'm only 2weeks pregnant. I'm a young expecting mom, But I have a great way to work this out.
I'm living with my boyfriend (He has a job & goes to college) and getting help from my parents and my boyfriends parents. Its all working out pretty good.
I clean houses as a little job, right now. My boyfriend doesn't want me to have a real job.
I'm already picking out names, and going to baby stores looking clothes, you know. Its early but its fun to hangout with my friends.
But I'm afraid of being a bad mom to this child.
What will this child think when it may find out I didn't want the them at first, That i needed help to raise them from my parents?
I should be able to raise a baby, I took the chances of getting pregnant by having sex.
its my fault.

It doesn't sound like you are going to be a bad mom at all. You're out there picking out names for the baby and buying clothes for it. That right there shows that you have a good head on your shoulders and you want what is best for this baby. You're only 2 weeks pregnant and you're already going out of your way for this child. I think you're going to be an excellent mother and your boyfriend sounds like he's going to be a great father. That baby is going to have an amazing family to grow up with.

This child isn't going to get mad because your parents helped raised it. When this child gets older he/she will understand why you needed help and support from other family members. They'll realize you were so young and it was a hard job to do. Your child isn't going to hate you because of it, sweetie. You're going to be a great mom. So don't think differently. ♥


Okay, I know that just about everyone on this site (or atleast the girls) has at one point thought about what to name their kids one day, so I need your help. I need boy & girl name suggestions middle names would be helpful too. Thankyou guyss I appreciate it.

Here are some of my favorites:

-- Jayden Marie.
-- Emma Elizabeth.
-- Hannah.
-- Oliva.
-- Madison.
-- Ami Lee.
-- Jenna Jayden.
-- Abby.
-- Brooke.
-- Kimberly.

-- Ethan.
-- Andrew Anthony.
-- Justin.
-- Christopher Joseph.
-- Ryan.
-- Bradley.
-- Joshua Jacob.
-- Aaron.
-- Erik.
-- Daniel.

Hopefully you find something you like. ♥


is it necessary to breast feed? like does it HAVE to be done or will the formula stuff work just as well ?

It isn't necessary to breast-feed. Some mothers do, while others don't. I guess it just depends on the person and what they're most comfortable with.

However, most mothers that do breast-feed their babies help out their kids. Breast milk is the ideal form of nutrition for newborns. It provides ideal nourishment and a special bonding experience between the mother and her newborn. It also helps protect the baby from infection. You save a TON of money if you breast feed, too. Which would be a huge help, since the formal is rather expensive.

Whichever way you choose, make sure it suits you and you're comfortable with it. ♥


Hi myself and partner are not married and im trying to decide which surname suits him better mine or my partners

Jack Harte


Jack Stapleton

Im Stuck with the name jack as it really suits him.

Id be grateful for your opinions

Thank you

Personally, I like Jack Stapleton better. ♥


GiNGER QUiT! =( =(

Aw, really? That sucks! ♥


I'm 13 years old and I got pregnant. My friends think I'm ready to be a parent, but I haven't told my parents about it yet because they will scold me. Should I go for abortion? WIll it hurt? At least I won't drop out of school, right? I'm really at a loss! I know abortion is wrong but I hate babies! I don't want one!! What do I do?!


I think your friends don't know how hard it is to be a parent, if they are telling you that you're ready at the age of 13. It's actually a lot harder then it looks, especially when you're at such a young age. You know your parents have the right to know that you're pregnant, right? So really, I think the best thing to do would be to tell them the truth. They're your parents and no matter how dissapointed they might be in you, they will still love you, your their daughter. I'm sure they will be right by your side and will support whatever choice you make. I know it's hard since you are so young, but you need people that love you to be by your side and help you along. I'm not a big fan with abortions, I think they are totally wrong. And to get an abortion you need to be 4 months pregnant. So really, either way, your parents are going to notice at some point in time. I think the best thing to do would be to tell you parents and talk this over. You should either keep the baby, or give it up for adoption. But please don't get an abortion, that's just like murder. You're killing something that hasn't even had the chance to see the world yet.
♥ Krissy


hi i have a slight problem.. i cant stop sleeping with guys 15 years older than me. My last boyfriend had 3 kids with me. How can i stop sleeping with all these guys? what should i do?

Please help me... I need help..

If your not on the pill, get on it. If you don't use condoms, your going to have to start. You can't afford to have anymore children. It sounds like your addicted to sex. Try laying off for alittle while. You're only young and you already have 5 kids, wow! Maybe when you feel like you need sex, try to please yourself, instead of going out to find a guy to do it for you.
♥ Krissy


whats ur friends email?

♥ Krissy


Hey i need some info on teen pregnancy like web sites or hot lines i could call..or even to chat with someone who has been through it !! help me please!

You could talk to one of my friends about it. She was pregnant, but got an aportion because of her age. If you want her e-mail, just leave one it my inbox =)
♥ Krissy


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