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I'm really tired of just wearing jeans and a t-shirt to school. I want to start dressing nicer. But all the nice/cute clothes that I find are tank tops or spaghetti straps. And the problem with that is at my school all tops have to have a strap of 3 inches.
Does anyone know of any place that has nice/cute tops that aren't tank or spaghetti?
Thanks.

american eagle
wetseal
jc penny
macys
new york and company

polos are so cute too.

-hope i helped!

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idk why but lately i have beenreally depressed i talk to my freinds and everythng and cousins but i just want to tel them something but i cant and thenit makes me depresed i dont cut myself or anything i just dont know what to do anymore and when i need to talk to my freind or some1 they are at work or leaving or something nad im really close to my cousin but the problem is that the 2 that im really attached to they dont live by ne they lvie in other states like ATL and LA and i talk to my best freinds but they just odnt understand
wat do i do?

try meeting people you can become close friends with. always talk to someone about it. it'll make you feel better.

-hope i helped!

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I'm going to either Wal-Greens or Rite-Aid to get some acne stuff. I have really bad acne and scars from pimples all over my face. What would be a product that will actually help clear up my skin?

Please answer to the best of your knowlegde!

Thanks.

proactiv..my friends told me its good!

good luck!

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i have a hard time falling asleep is there anything i can do or buy?

sleeping machines! idk anything w/ noise helps me

heres a website-
http://www.breastcancer.org/fatigue_sleep.html

good luck!


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My boyfriends' ex is pregnant, she isn't trying to break us up or anything. She stays out of my way and I stay out of hers. I love my boyfriend very much, do you think that the baby could break us up or make us closer. Please help. Should I talk to the ex or just leave things as are.

dont talk to the ex. talk to your boyfriend. its possible that the baby COULD break you guys up, but if your love is strong enough for each other it wont.

good luck!

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ok i kno your not supposed to go swimming if you hav a heavy period....but its not that bad and i want to try and wear a tampon if it is too heavy...wut i wanna kno is if it hurts wen your wearing a tampon? im always afraid of putting stuff up there becuz i think it will hurt....does it??

please help my friend is coming over tomorrow and i want to go swimming....i rate high!

im not really into tampons myself, but the first couple times are probably a struggle. you get used to it though. tampons are definately better for swimming.

good luck!

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Ok my friends a girl but shes just a friend and she says that she is really fat but shes really not like shes really skinny. And she says shes on diets and stuff like that, how can i make sure that she wont like hurt herself or anythin bad?

the best thing to do is talk to her about it and tell her your concerned. theres alot of stuff she can do to watch her weight, but its not totally a diet either. you can actually help her by telling her better ways to lose weight, the healthy way. she needs to sleep at least 9-10 hrs every night, make sure she eats breakfast, and all 3 meals w/ 3 snacks inbetween, healthy 1s. that may seem like alot but if you eat every so often, it helps your metabolism. she also needs to exersize. maybe if she thinks she really DOES need to lose this weight, at least you're telling her the healthy way to do it. if you don't want her dieting at all, tell her how you feel.

good luck!

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sigh. ive already asked a question about this guy, but i feel the need to ask another. I still really like this guy, but it seems that he likes another girl, we'll call her "L" he has a bunch of stuff in his profile and away messages about "L" . he knows i like him, and i was pretty sure he liked me too. whenever i asked him about "L" he said it was a joke between him and her and that he had no chance with her. does that mean he wants a chance with her? shes probably a lot more prettier than i am, also. also, i know a couple of his good friends smoke weed & get drunk quite often, and i really dont like that. now drinking a little i can get over.. but i dont like the whole drugs thing. as long as he doesnt do it, im fine. so i had my friend tell him she heard from someone that he did, and he denied it. hes never done anything to lose my trust, so i didnt question it. but i still think that he does / or has done it before. please dont tell me to get over this guy, because i still think there might be a chance for us.. im not ready to move on

since theres stuff going around that he is good friends with "L" er anything like that, you shouldn't totally be waiting for him to come to you. why dont you talk to her about it? maybe she'll say something you dont know about. if that doesnt work, talk to him and remind him how much you like him. if nothing is really said, then juss try to leave it go. if there IS a chance for you guys, he'll come to you. as long he knows how you feel, he has to deal with the rest. im not saying to move on, but look around a bit. meet guys, talk to them. you never know. maybe theres someone else out there for you, or maybe its him. so juss talk to him.

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yesh oh yesh, me again, and i have had two people moaning abot how people like people who can type well, not shit, so, this typing is for you he he!!
well with this guy i have decided i want to tell him that i like him, but not quite yet, waiting seems like a good idea because i dont want it to mean nothing to him when i say it, do you think if i keep hanging out with him, and talk to him alot more, that if anything were to develope, i should say no the first time, and explain it to him if he looks puzzled?

i think you guys should juss keep talking and over time tell him how you feel. it'll be easier to explain then.

good luck!

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i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!

what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend

you dont NEED to be her friend. you need to believe in yourself. the most attractive thing about someone is their smile. my theory is that if you look confident you can pull off anything, even if you have know clue what you're doing. i think you need to let her know how you feel, and if she still feels the same way about you, then you need to let her go. you can find better friends than her. juss believe in yourself.

good luck!

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hi, ok, i just wanted to thank the people who answer spirituality questions because i asked a question about how i could convice my parents to go back to church but to a difrent one and then they did. now, im going to take my 2 friends to church (yea). and i LOVE my new church. im going to go water skiing with them sunday and then going to a bmx thing next saterday! SO THANK YOU!

thats cool that you were trying to get your parents to go back to church with you. soo this isnt really a question right? well if you have one, juss leave a feedback.

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ok well there is this guy at my school he i really like him he isnt in any of my classes but gym and im too shy to talk to him lol but he knows i like him but ive never talked to him i really wont to meet him thought like talk to him... so maybe then he would go out with me but im too scared to talk to him

if he already knows you like him, he probably expects you to talk to him at one point or anything. all you have to do is build up the courage, breathe, and juss be yourself.

good luck!

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I was thinking about pledging for a sorority when i go to college this fall...I was wondering what kind of stuff they do and how they work. thanks!

im only in high school but i found this-
http://teenadvice.about.com/library/bl10thingsfratsoro.htm

-hope that helps!

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When I am about to do a backflip I get nervous and fear falling on my back or head... do you know of a good place to practice... is grass sutible.. please repond..
Thank you

theres mats you can actually buy at different stores like sporting good stores.

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how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this

a slut is really a girl that has more than 1 guy at a time and has sex alot, so dont worry about what they say to you, because they're probably juss saying it to get you mad OR trying to get a reaction out of you.

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ok i have this friend. we used to be the CLOSEST BEST FRIENDS EVER! everyone in our school new that we were best friends. we were always together and we hardly ever got in fights. we were in every class together (except 2)
then in 8th grade, we kind of slipped away because we werent in ANY classes together...
so near the end of 8th grade, she started calling me a slut and not calling me or hanging out with me and she just ignored me...
we havent seen each other all summer.

and her mom also hates me...i have no idea why...but her mom doesnt like my friend hanging out w/me...i have no clue why! kuz im nice to her mom, and polite and everything...i just dont get it!!!!

i tried pot once...
she made a bet w/her friend...and she won the bet
so i got mad kuz she mad a bet...she got mad kuz i did pot (thats what the bet was about)
she sent me THE MEANEST E-MAIL EVER! i cried for like 2 hours that night! just because i love her and i really wanted to be friends with her.
we talk and i guess you could call us friends again but i KNO she still thinks im a slut and a pothead
ok..i tried pot ONCE and i decided im not gonna do it again.
and she thinks im a slut kuz i make out w/guys that arnt my b/fs...which i've only done like 3 times...but it wasnt like...IM GONNA MAKE OUT W/A TOTAL STRANGER! and then the next day IM GONNA MAKE OUT W/HIM!
it wasnt like that...i make out w/guys if i LIKE them...and obviously my b/fs
so i was jw what to do about her...or how i could "change" for her...
she said she liked me better in 7th grade and i changed A LOT...i didnt even realize i changed...so i just dont know what to do kuz shes my best friend and she helps me out so much! i just dont know what i would do without her

talk to her about it. its the best thing you could do.

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my computer is messed up really bad and i cant go on any lyrics site . can anyone get me the lyrics to the song nasy girl! by nitty i think thanks a bunch

Nasty Girl


Do it.
Whoo, Little nasty girl
(Yo man, see that??)
Damn!

Yo Yo Yo Yo
Hey girl I like your flava
Wish I could be your neighba
Must be coffee by the way you shakin your perk-u-later
I'm the smooth operator
Hot mommy motivator
What I really wanna do
Put that thing on you
Butter up yo hot potato
Gettin more dough then bakers
Rim's spinnin like I knew your break is
You got it all give me a call
I'm ballin like the Lakers
Hey ma now I won't chase ya
Sweetheart ignore them haters
Let's have some fun
Bittys' got me on the run
Come on girl get this paper

Well honey (Whatcha got Mr. Mans)
I got a lot of money (I don't see no keys in my hands)
Could you be my nasty girl
And let me do that dirty dance witchu (If you want just give me money)
Mommy (Ooo Whee Poppi)
Shake that sexy body (Do you like what you see?)
I just wanna nasty girl
Now tell me is that nasty girl you? (I can love you long time)

I'm in the Escalade, you in the Navigator
You talkin dirty wanna serve me in the elevator
Wanna give it to me now not later
Mommy's body was a dime, can't hate her
What a brother gonna do when the bitty rolls through
Who's lookin just like Jada
We hit the elevator
Of course there's always haters
But it didn't matter yo
We were puttin on a show
Free for all your spectators
Mommy threw it like a champ (Yo wait up)
Yo i didn't even know her name (What!?)
Bitty's opened up your eyes
Haters better recognize
That Nitty got this playa

Well honey (Whatcha got Mr. Mans)
I got a lot of money (I don't see no keys in my hands)
Could you be my nasty girl
And let me do that dirty dance witchu (If you want just give me money)
Mommy (Ooo Whee Poppi)
Shake that sexy body (Do you like what you see?)
I just wanna nasty girl
Now tell me is that nasty girl you? (I can love you long time)

I gotta pick my date up
To dinner I'ma take her
Last time we sexed I had her crawlin like an alligator
She just came from jamaica
The land of booty shaka's
Her names Candy
Give it to her nasty
Sometimes I even taste her
I'm here right now she's dressed up
Hourglass shape, long hair, makeup
Lookin downtown, she said right now "I want it now, I'm straight up"
We're standin face to face, uh
I knew right where to take her
That private room called the bathroom
Uh oh, here's comes the waiter

Well honey (Whatcha got Mr. Mans)
I got a lot of money (I don't see no keys in my hands)
Could you be my nasty girl
And let me do that dirty dance witchu (If you want just give me money)
Mommy (Ooo Whee Poppi)
Shake that sexy body (Do you like what you see?)
I just wanna nasty girl
Now tell me is that nasty girl you? (I can love you long time)

East coast
West coast
Worldwide
North side
South side
Let's ride
Let's party all night
Nasty girls come inside

Honey (Whatcha got Mr. Mans)
I got a lot of money (I don't see no keys in my hands)
Could you be my nasty girl
And let me do that dirty dance witchu (If you want just give me money)
Mommy (Ooo Whee Poppi)
Shake that sexy body (Do you like what you see?)
I just wanna nasty girl
Now tell me is that nasty girl you? (I can love you long time)

for next time try
-www.leoslyris.com
-www.azlyrics.com

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Anyone know any good/fun/up to beat rap songs?

i know quite a few.

akon-bananaza[belly dancer]
black eyed peas-my humps
nasty girl-nitty
pon de replay-rhianna[not exactly rap, more r&bish but really good]
fat joe feat nelly-get it poppin
will smith-switch

-feedback for more

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okay well I start high school in about a week and I’m turning 16 pretty soon I don’t have my permit and I don’t have a job and I don’t have a cell phone which is the problem I really want one but my mom says I don’t need one I haven’t talked to my mom in 2 whole days I hate her for it I don’t want a job but if that’s what it takes for me to get a cell phone I’m getting one so does any one know any places that would hire a 15 year old girl because I really want a cell and that’s the only way I can get one but I don’t mean like babysitting I mean a real job please help and also do u think I’m being stupid about this like is having a cell phone that big of a deal? so please list thanks alot!!

*K

i dont think i can really answer that, only because different places have different job limits, but my friend is 15, juss turned 15, and she works at this place called yeagars. its like a pharmacy, so probably pharmacys hire 15 year olds, like cvs, eckard, etc. if you want a cell fone badly you juss have to prove to your mom you need one. like me, i got lost at the beach last summer and for xmas that year they bought me one.

good luck!

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i think i just made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. me and my best guy friend have always had a friends-with-benifits relationship. he was fingering me today and ended up sticking his penis in me. we were going for a little, but we had to stop because he had to leave. he didn't get to cum and we did full out have sex. but knowing that his penis was in me... is that enough to count for losing my virginity?

this MIGHT help you feel better but it might not. being a "virgin" doesnt really have a true definition cause you can think of it in many ways. it depends on your beliefs. some people think any sexual contact is losing your virginity while others say its when you have full sex and EVERYTHING happens. theres different sites you can look up on google for more information.

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