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My boyfriend's Ex is pregnant
My boyfriends' ex is pregnant, she isn't trying to break us up or anything. She stays out of my way and I stay out of hers. I love my boyfriend very much, do you think that the baby could break us up or make us closer. Please help. Should I talk to the ex or just leave things as are.
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I dont know either of them. You'd have to talk to them/him about this all. If your boyfriend loves you he will try to make this work.
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Its hard to say what the baby would do to your relationship, untill it actually is born. I think you should leave things as they are if shes staying out of your way and not trying to break you guys up. Theres no need to stir things up. If you and your boyfriend do stay together, there will be a time that you might have to say something because shes going to have to be in his life, considering the baby is his.
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Have this situation settled talk to her if necessary a baby could break you too if you let it happen. Just because his ex is pregnant doesn't mean he's the father but if it turns out it is you should be supporting your guy if you are willing to be with him. It shows you care about him he'll take care of the baby and you too could still be together like Britney Spears and Kevin Federline look at them they are together or Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise those are two good examples. Another way I could put it is like sticking to a committment try looking at it that way. But if you don't want to be in this situation you don't have to make the right decision for yourself.
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If the ex isn't bothering you, I see no reason why you should do anything. If your boyfriend is the father of the baby, you should be prepared to have his ex in your life though. If you don't think you can deal with him having a lifetime tie to his ex through the baby, then you should break up with him. If you think you'll be ok with it and that it won't cause problems, they stay with him and see how it goes.
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Well, it depends... Is your boyfriend the father of his ex-girlfriend's baby? If he is, he needs to be there to support his child, and you might need to take the backseat for awhile. If he is the father of the baby and you can get along with the ex-girlfriend, then there's no reason you can't help her out with the baby, if you're inclined to do so. If your boyfriend isn't the baby's dad, then this really shouldn't affect you at all, but you should at least make an effor to be friendly towards her even if you don't like her very much.
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dont talk to the ex. talk to your boyfriend. its possible that the baby COULD break you guys up, but if your love is strong enough for each other it wont.
good luck!
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I think you should try to become friends with the ex that way things wont be strange between you to and you can stay with your boyfriend bet allow him to see his baby.
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I don't think that the baby could break you guys up unless you honestly had a problem with the fact that he shared a baby with his ex. Things might get hard with money issues & things like that, but I think that you should just stay with your boyfriend if you truly love him. As long as his ex doesn't try to cause problems for the two of you, I don't see why the baby should be a problem! I hope everything works out for the best & if you need anything just leave it in my inbox!
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well if she doesnt mind you helpen him out i dont see why it should be problem.. it could bring you closer in that way.. but it could bring you apart with possible money problems and what not.. just stay by his side through the whole thing.. ♥ Dez
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To be perfectly honest, it's none of your business. If you break up it will be because of decisions you or your boyfriend make. How would a baby break you up? If you are going to be together, you are going to be together. No baby is going to change that. The baby and the way your boyfriend and his ex handle the pregnancy and, possibly, parenthood has nothing to do with you.
It would be best if you just stay out of it and support him as well as you can for as long as you are together.
Sorry if this sounded harsh. I've been through something similar and it's not easy for any party.
Good luck,
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i would just leave things the way they are for right now...if crap starts talk to her. but you may want to tell her that you are there for her. but nothing else...at least not untill anything happens. and it doesnt sound like anything that would break you two up not enless your boyfriend got her pregnant.
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eventually the baby will come and things might get rough for her and your boyfriend she might want all of his attention when the baby does come
she just acts tough now to show that she doesnt need him
i say you should talk to her before she starts things and trys to break you guys up
because a baby is a big responsibility and either way she would want you boyfriend to help her out
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