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sigh. ive already asked a question about this guy, but i feel the need to ask another. I still really like this guy, but it seems that he likes another girl, we'll call her "L" he has a bunch of stuff in his profile and away messages about "L" . he knows i like him, and i was pretty sure he liked me too. whenever i asked him about "L" he said it was a joke between him and her and that he had no chance with her. does that mean he wants a chance with her? shes probably a lot more prettier than i am, also. also, i know a couple of his good friends smoke weed & get drunk quite often, and i really dont like that. now drinking a little i can get over.. but i dont like the whole drugs thing. as long as he doesnt do it, im fine. so i had my friend tell him she heard from someone that he did, and he denied it. hes never done anything to lose my trust, so i didnt question it. but i still think that he does / or has done it before. please dont tell me to get over this guy, because i still think there might be a chance for us.. im not ready to move on
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obviously you dont want me to tell you to move on so i wont. even tho i think u SHOULD.......i wont,if you really want this guy then you gotta talk to him. tell him how you fel and let him know that you want to be with him. if hes never done anything to lose your trust then you should trust him when he says he hasnt ever done drugs.just because he hangs out with people that do doesnt mean he does.also trust him that its just an inside joke with this other chick "L".hope i helped XoXo
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He's an asshole. Move on, I`m sure you could do better, If he says that crap while knowing you like him, he`s nothing but shallow, unless he`s trying to get you jealous which is another story.
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It sounds to me like you still have a pretty good chance with him.
He might like "L", but like you said - he said he doesn't have a chance with her.
About the drugs & the drinking, I think you should just take his word for it. If you have actual proof about it, I would confront him & ask him if he does it & see what he says.
I'm not going to tell you to get over him because I know how hard that is & I think that you still have a pretty good chance with him. I hope everything works out though! If you need anything else, leave it in my inbox.
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since theres stuff going around that he is good friends with "L" er anything like that, you shouldn't totally be waiting for him to come to you. why dont you talk to her about it? maybe she'll say something you dont know about. if that doesnt work, talk to him and remind him how much you like him. if nothing is really said, then juss try to leave it go. if there IS a chance for you guys, he'll come to you. as long he knows how you feel, he has to deal with the rest. im not saying to move on, but look around a bit. meet guys, talk to them. you never know. maybe theres someone else out there for you, or maybe its him. so juss talk to him.
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well to answer your first question about "L" he might like her and want a chance with her but he cant seem to get a chance
now on to the whole drug/smoking thing
the best thing to do is let it go for now because you cant accuse him of doing drugs if you dont have prove and like you said he didnt do anything to you to make you lose his trust so for now just trust his answers and him
but if he really does do drugs and you find that out let him go because like you said you cant live with that
but for now dont give up if you think there is still a chance with you and him
i hope everyhing works out if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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