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friends...til the end?


Question Posted Thursday August 11 2005, 2:45 pm

ok i have this friend. we used to be the CLOSEST BEST FRIENDS EVER! everyone in our school new that we were best friends. we were always together and we hardly ever got in fights. we were in every class together (except 2)
then in 8th grade, we kind of slipped away because we werent in ANY classes together...
so near the end of 8th grade, she started calling me a slut and not calling me or hanging out with me and she just ignored me...
we havent seen each other all summer.

and her mom also hates me...i have no idea why...but her mom doesnt like my friend hanging out w/me...i have no clue why! kuz im nice to her mom, and polite and everything...i just dont get it!!!!

i tried pot once...
she made a bet w/her friend...and she won the bet
so i got mad kuz she mad a bet...she got mad kuz i did pot (thats what the bet was about)
she sent me THE MEANEST E-MAIL EVER! i cried for like 2 hours that night! just because i love her and i really wanted to be friends with her.
we talk and i guess you could call us friends again but i KNO she still thinks im a slut and a pothead
ok..i tried pot ONCE and i decided im not gonna do it again.
and she thinks im a slut kuz i make out w/guys that arnt my b/fs...which i've only done like 3 times...but it wasnt like...IM GONNA MAKE OUT W/A TOTAL STRANGER! and then the next day IM GONNA MAKE OUT W/HIM!
it wasnt like that...i make out w/guys if i LIKE them...and obviously my b/fs
so i was jw what to do about her...or how i could "change" for her...
she said she liked me better in 7th grade and i changed A LOT...i didnt even realize i changed...so i just dont know what to do kuz shes my best friend and she helps me out so much! i just dont know what i would do without her


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margarita_luvs_ya answered Saturday August 13 2005, 5:30 pm:
Friends grow apart from each other even bestfriends. Time has changed and maybe you and your friend should meet new people and start hanging out with a different crowd. You can't change a person physically or mentally so just be nice and if things aren't going out so well forget her. There are tons of people and I'm sure you can find someone else.

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Shanicole08 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:10 pm:
okay this is important. YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO CHANGE FOR YOUR FRIENDS. THEY SHOULD LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE, REGARDLESS. Everybody loses friends in their lifetime. Just be open to making new friends. If you really don't trust her, then maybe you shouldn't be talking to her.

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xomegaroni answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:43 pm:
talk to her about it. its the best thing you could do.

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jean_nicole answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:16 pm:
Maybe she just doesn't like you because you can't spell.

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t0xicParadiSe answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:00 pm:
first of all you should never change for any one even if they mean a whole lot to you

if she cant except you for who you are then she is really not your friend

maybe its her that changed not you

if you think she still thinks of you as a slut and a pothead you shoudnt be friends with her because you know your not that

you could try talking to her and find out what changed about you

if you have no problems with the person that you are then dont change and by the way you are not a slut just because you make out with guys

a true friend would except you for who you are

if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥

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lovemenow_kissmelater answered Thursday August 11 2005, 2:57 pm:
well mayeb the whle mom not liking you guys hanging out togetrher thing is because she heard you smoked weed once. she miught not have trust in you for a while. but dont worry about her, or your friend. i mean, i know what it's like have ing a friend completley turning their back on you,and i know how it feels.if she will listen and be nice, tell her how you felt when she sid those things, ask her what you did to make her say those things. if she keeps on being mean and nasty, then its not worth having her as a friend. she will only bring you down. i really hope this helps, and good luck. drop one in my inbox if you have any more questions!! :D
~*jaimee*~

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