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Hi. i'M ASHLEiGH.

i HAVE A W0NDERFUL B0YFRiEND 0F 0VER 0NE YEAR. ♥

i L0VE HiM T0 DEATH! ♥

HE'S 7 YEARS 0LDER THAN ME TH0UGH.

HE JUST TURNED 21.

S0 YES, i AM 14. N0, I'M N0T JAiL BAiT.

i'M H0MESCH00LED, iTS ACTUALLY PRETTY C00L.

i HAVE 0VER 20 PiERCiNGS.

i WAS RECENTLY DiAGN0SED WiTH DYSLEXiA. WHiCH JUST MEANS i READ STUFF BACKW0RDS.

i AM BiP0LAR, AND ADHD, S0 i'M SCREWED.

i'M A Y0UTUBE FREAK.

YES, iN MY PiCTURE i HAVE MAKE-UP 0N MY CHEST.

i DYE MY HAiR A L0T.

ACTUALLY T00 MUCH..

iN THE PAST FEW M0NTHS i HAVE F0UND 0UT i HAVE LiTTLE T0 N0 ST0MACH ACiD, AND i CAN N0T EAT S0LiD F00D ANYM0RE. WHiCH CAME FR0M BEiNG ANAREXiC/BELiMiC.

S0 i'M PRETTY MUCH 0N AN ALL LiQUiD DiET F0R THE NEXT TW0 YEARS.

i D0N'T GiVE THE BEST ADViCE iN THE W0RLD, AND i ADMiT iT, S0ME 0F iT SUCKS, BUT AT LEAST i TRYED.

FEEDBACK iS ALWAYS APPRECiATED T0 HELP ME iMPR0VE. :D

i'M N0T G0iNG T0 GiVE A SUCK UP ANSWER JUST T0 GET A G00D RATiNG, SURE i CARE AB0UT MY RATiNG, BUT GETTiNG 0UT G00D ADViCE iS M0RE iMP0RTANT.








[ADDED: JAN 9, 06. I'VE BEEN SICK WITH STREP FOR OVER 3 WEEKS, AND GOT HOSPITALIZED LAST WENDSDAY. I HAVE NO IDEA WHEN I'M GONNA BE ABLE TO GET ONLINE AGAIN, CAUSE MY LAPTOP IS DYING FAST. SO PRAY THAT I GET WELL SOON.]


{JAN 23, 06. HEY. I JUST GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL MONDAY. I HAD A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND STUFF. ANYWAYS, I'M BETTER NOW. SO I'M BACK!}

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ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?

thanks guys.

Remember when in 2000 everyone said the world was gonna come to an end. Well, it didn't. And its not this time. Its not true, only God has control over it, and it says nowhere in the bible that on the "devil's number" that the world is gonna end, blow up, ect. ect. I personally don't believe it. And no, I don't think you should be scared. Its something some idiot made up on myspace (how it got started)

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A guy that I'm friends with and hoping will be my bf one day keeps giving me mixed signals. One day he'll be sweet and attentive and tell me things I want to hear; and the next he's mean and cold. For example; one day he told me that he wanted to be with me and hoped I wouldnt marry someone else. Then another day he sarcastically told me I needed a man in my life. He can also make some rude comments about women in general; like "women always need attentiong"; and that men are smarter than woman. One day I took him to play tennis and the whole time he critized me. Everyone tells me I can do better but I feel I really love him. Even with all his faults he's still really sweet sometimes- once he gave me his computer and desk and when it was my birthday and phoned me and sang happy birthday and mailed me a gift (he lives out of state). He'll also say Bye Beautiful everytime we sign off on msn messanger. What do you think I should do?

I really don't have any advice, its more of a statment from my older bro that he wants to pass on to you. He says that when he says Bye Beautiful, he most likely means nothing by it, its just something that guys do. But he prob still thinks your beautiful prob.

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My 7th grade dance dress is a halter style but has a really really low cut V neckline. (I ordered it online and didn't realize that it was so low) I bought a strapless bra but it SHOWS a little in the back and A LOT in the front!! It is too late to return the dress and I have no money for another. And oh yeah there's no way I'll be allowed to go without a bra. So what do I do????

If you really wanna wear the dress then go to Wal-Mart and go to where the bras are. Then look for where the water push-up pads and such are. Okay, they have stick on bras that only cover your nipple. Maybe you should try that?

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i recently went on a school trip and we stayed in a hotel. the last day we were there, the left side of my bottom started hurting really bad. it was really sore, but there wasnt a rash or bruise or anything. When i got home i noticed some small bumps on my bottom that are really sore to touch and hurt really bad. I sat on the edge of the bathtub in the hotel when i shaved my legs and i was thinking that could be where i picked up these bumps. there is no chance they are an std unless i might have picked up herpes or something on the bathtub because i've never had sex. can you catch herpes off a bathtub? what else could it be?

I know someone that, that happened to. I can't 100% say its herpes, but I know its possible to get from a bathtub. You should see a doctor. But theres something else called Shingles. Thats what I think it is. You can get it from public toliets and such.

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ok so i have this boyfriend. He's awsome and we have been dating for about 6 months.a few nights ago he called me and told me that he was going to be gone for a week. Well he was gone for 6 days and when he got back we were having sex. I noticed a bruise on his stomache. At first i ddin't care but then i got closer and it turned out to be a hickey. i didn't say anything at the time though. THe next day we went to the movies but in the middle of the movies he got a call. When he came back he told me it was a call from his brother. I checked his phone after the movies and it was to a girl named mindy. Two days later i called his house and a girl in the background was screaming his name like in a sexual way! is he cheatin on me??? wat should i do? should i bust him or just ask him about it?

Ask him about it. Tell him how you feel. Explain why you think he is cheating. When you ask him and he doesn't look you straight in the eye, he is probably lieing.

Hope everything works out!

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ON THE SITE, someone answered another question with a girl who got bad stomach aches and they said it might be leaukimia. well i get stomach aches (and usually cramps like on my ribs though) but not horrible ones. also, along with that i get head aches. but doctors say its all in my head and i have to go see a physcologist cause its not improving. is it leaukimia?? :( i don't care if it is just tell me

You can not diagnose Leaukimia. Whoever said that was prob. some little kid that was bored and didn't know what they were talking about. Don't worry about it.

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im supposed to think of 3 different types of songs for our 8th grade farewell dance (im on student council) and i need a "Rap/hip hop" song, a "slow" song and a "overall" song..by overall they mean how the year meant..and it was good and bad and i cannot think of ANY!

5s for anything.and i mean anything!

I'm N luv Wit a Stripper *T-Pain
The Reason *Hoobastank
L.O.V.E *Ashlee Simpson
One Wish *Ray J
Where'd you Go *
Everytime *Britany Spears
Whats left of me *Nick Lachey
You & Me *Lifehouse
Bad Day *Daniel Powter
You're Beautiful *

Those are really good songs for dances.

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Hey folks :D
I bet y'all are getting pretty excited since summer's soon, huh?
Hope you have time to answer this question in the midst of all your excitement though :)
haha

Here it goes; I'm in charge of this game we're gonna be playing tomorrow, so I figured I'd do some research for it, you know, fins out the best way of making it fun to play..

BUT, I'm having a blackout! I just forgot what the game is called xD so I can't search for it!

Haha, stupid, I know -- but will you help me figure out what the words is?

Alright the game is like, I think, I write a word or a situation, on two pieces of paper, because there are two teams..one person from each team goes up to the whiteboeard and tries to draw out what I've written, and the other team members try to guess it! What is that game called? I THOUGHT it was pictionary, but I searched it, and it was wrong..

so either way, know the game name, or not..have any tips? What can I rwite up that is easy, but not too easy..not to hard to draw, and still fun!

Any suggestion?
Thaaank you :)

Pictionary. :D

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well theres this guy i sorta like. but my friends really dont like him. and im embarrased to go out with him or what ever. i dunno what to do cus i cant stop likeing him!

Thats stupid. If you really like him then you wouldn't care what other people think, even if theya re your friends.

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k so my camera is brokwen so im eventually getting it fixed, so i've been using my moms camera. i have some pics on it i want to get on the computer, but i dont know where the cord is. i have the cord to my camera, but it doesnt fit because its a different brand. i heard you can buy them, but i dont know if my mom will let me. so how much do they usually cost?
thanks

Wal-Mart has thousands of cords, they prob. have the one you need. Or Staples. They run around 15-25 dollars.

Maybe you should ask your mom if she knows where the cord is before you spend your money. :D

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today i got the sony psp.
i was wondering
what are some sites i can use to get FREE music?? && how do I put the music onto my psp?
i rateee !

Download LimeWire. Its free and has every song on the planet and more! :D

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i'm 15. almost 16. my special someone is 17. almost 18. our birthday are in the next two months. where I live it's ilegal for a 18 yr. old to date anyone under the age of 16 and i'm not quite there yet. but we've agreed we're not going to let that stop us. my mom doesn't let me go out with him because last week she decided that he's a loser because he droped out of school. and she thinks he's too old for me. my someone and i have been together for 8 months and i would do anything for him and we have a undying love for each other. but it's getting so hard and now he's listening to peoples opinions and wants to break up with me because he doesn't want to try anymore. i know i could have tried more instead of trying to find someone else. but now i regreat it. i know that if i convence him that we can do this then we can make it.. i just have to get him to see that we're supposed to be together any suggestions?

feel free to ask me any questions about this

I know exactly what you are talking about. I'm 13 and my boyfriend of over a year is almost 21.

So, from what I can understand he broke up with you because of what people are saying? If so, then thats just plain stupid. If he really loved you as much as you say he does, he wouldn't care what other people think or say.

But whatever. I think you should call him up, and tell him he shouldn't worry about other people cause they are dumb. Tell him how much you love him and want to be with him. He will understand. I promise.

Good Luck. :D

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how long does it take for cement to dry?

overnight.

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Are there many girls that don't shave down there? Or do most? I was messing around with my bf today, and his hands "slipped" down there and I hadn't shaved. I asked him if he minded and he said he didn't, but I dunno. I've never shaved it before and am not sure whether I should start. Can someone give me some advice? I don't want him to be grossed out.

A lot of girls do shave. But some don't. Its all about personal preference. If I were you, I would shave just for the simple fact that I don't want my boy feeling all that hair. Its jsut gross, I'm sorry. But most girls I know, and myself, start shaving when they get a serious bf that starts feeling down there and such. I think you should, but hey, don't let me tell you what to do.

Good Luck. :D

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Is there a proper way to deal with online harrassment? Can something be done? This needs to stop.

Earlier this year, I had to deal with this. So heres what I did.

1* Save the emails, IMs, comments, ect.
2* Print them out
3* Take them to the police station

Do not talk to those people, don't fight back, don't do anything that will make it look like you are trying to get them to harrass you.

At the police station, they will do whats needed to be done, and if what they are saying is threatening your life, like it was mine, then they could get a criminal record.

Good Luck and God Bless. :D

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so I fantizise about my gf a lot. not like sex but like making out and stuff. we've never made out but I know she'd like it but I don't know how to tell her that I want some of these things without seeming like a perv. like making out and laying on a bed and stuff... laying between her legs and kissing her that kind if thing. how could I tell her that I want that or would it be better to just do it and see how she reacts?
thx!

Well, my boyfriend of over a year, just came out and said it. But he's crazy so..I think maybe you should come out and tell her, she might feel the same way. Or, you could just do it, surprise her with little kisses at first, then move onto making out. She'll love it. Just when you decide to do it, don't like jump into and do it really hard, that will def. freak her out. Just make sure both of yall are having fun! :D

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now be honest when you see a person with acne or just some pimples maybe just a break out ... what do you think of them? do they seem ugly to you? would you talk to them even? become their friend? or are you grossed out and do you judge them right away, even if they are really pretty but have acne?

Everybody has or has had pimples. So why look at them like they are not a person. Personally, I look at people with acne the same way as I do someone with perfect skin. Its just stupid not to. End of story. But hey, thats my opinion.

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ok, im going to have sex for the first time, my bf and i've already planned it. 14/f, and DONT say im too young, im ready. anyways, i watched a few porn movies so i could get it down a bit, but i was wondering, do guys like it when girls like moan and have orgasms? thanks a lot.

Lets see here...I lost my virginity when I was 13, and most girls do, so yeah. I know what I'm talking about.

Guys LOVE it when girls moan and have orgasms. The guys that I know love it. Moaning prob. isn't something you wanna do the FIRST time, its just wierd, but hey, if you got to just let it out.

Sex is nothing like the porn movies, its all different when you are doing it, unless you're really kinky. Who knows.

Good Luck, use some rubber, and have fun! lol :D

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what would be a good age to start shaving your legs? i don't know what age my child should do it. i forgot when i started. and if the hair is pretty noticable would 10, 11, or 12 be good? i need ranges.

i rate.

I started when I was 11. I remember cutting myself with the raor and it hurt so bad, laster I discovered an electric razor, where it is impossible to cut yourself. So, if you do decide to let your daughter start, then buy her an electric razor. They runa bout $10+ and you hardly ever have to buy new blades and you can cut yourself :)

Most girls that I know started when they started middle school (10-11) but some girls start when it gets noticable. So if your daughter is embarresed I would let her, but until it actually starts bothering her, then thats the time.

Good Luck and God Bless! :D

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Heyy. I just wanted to know what clothing stores you reccomend. I'm looking to buy new clothes for summer. Maybe links and such. Just cute clothes from different sotres that you like. Just not super duper expencive. I like Delias, but I can't fit into they're jeans (too big), and I like forever 21. I even like Abercrombie. I would aslo like to know some stores that you might think I could fit into they're jeans. I'm rather small. 00's don't fit me, unless they run small.
Thanks so much for your time!

Wal-Mart [walmart.com]
PacSun [pacsun.com]
Hot Topic is my fav [hottopic.com]
Wet Seal [wetseal.com]
Aeropostale [aeropostale.com]
Hollister [holister.com]
Old Navy [oldnavy.com]
Gap [gap.com]
Belk [belk.com]
Sears [sears.com]
Claires [claires.com]
JC Penney [jcp.com]
L.L Bean [llbean.com]

Thats about all I can think of. Good Luck

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