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boyfriend problems
ok so i have this boyfriend. He's awsome and we have been dating for about 6 months.a few nights ago he called me and told me that he was going to be gone for a week. Well he was gone for 6 days and when he got back we were having sex. I noticed a bruise on his stomache. At first i ddin't care but then i got closer and it turned out to be a hickey. i didn't say anything at the time though. THe next day we went to the movies but in the middle of the movies he got a call. When he came back he told me it was a call from his brother. I checked his phone after the movies and it was to a girl named mindy. Two days later i called his house and a girl in the background was screaming his name like in a sexual way! is he cheatin on me??? wat should i do? should i bust him or just ask him about it?
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ask him about it calmly.. because letting out all your emotions and getting angry or sad right away will make him feel attacked and cornered.. and will probably make him blame everything on you, lie instinctively, or something like that.
i would think, that if he he had a hickey you didn't give him, it would be from someone else...
don't let this stuff go.... once i thought my boyfriend had a bug bite.. but it turned out to be a hickey.. he had cheated on me and i actually found out a LOT later... i didn't press the issue at the time like i should have.
i'm sorry if he is... it's a horrible thing to go through... hope things work out and you always have people here to talk to! <3
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Ask him about it. Tell him how you feel. Explain why you think he is cheating. When you ask him and he doesn't look you straight in the eye, he is probably lieing.
Hope everything works out!
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Ask him about it first. present all the facts. if he squirms, that's a yes. Then you bust him. catch him in the act to make sure of your accusations. Remember that you are better than that, you deserve someone faithful.
I hope it works out.
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Yes, he probably is. Why even bother wasting your time asking him? He'll most likely just lie and try to convince you that he isn't. I can't believe you didn't say anything right away when you noticed these signs, don't you believe that you deserve to be treated better then this?
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Sorry to have to tell you this, but yes, it appears he's cheating on you. He even had the nerve to lie about it. =/ What an asshole. You deserve someone way better than him. You definitley need to confront him about this. Don't get mad at him at first, just ask him outright. If he denies it, tell him what you've found out. You DEFINITLEY need to do something about it! What he is doing is completely wrong, and he needs to fess up now.
Good luck.
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You should most DEFINITELY bust him!!! I'm sorry but there is really no doubt in my mind that he is cheating on you. After all, how else would he get a hickey on his stomach?! Why else would he be calling some girl named Mindy that you have never heard of and telling you it was his brother?! Why else would there be some girl, at his house, screaming his name?! I would be interested to know what excuse he came up with for that one.
You could try talking to him about it but he's already lied to you and he will do it again. He'll tell you that she's just a friend, that you're being paranoid, so on and forth. Then, when he eventually does admit it, he'll probably tell you she didn't mean anything to him, that he really cares about you and doesn't want to stop seeing you. Personally, this is when I would kick him in the groin, turn on my heel and walk. However, I don't think I am allowed to provide that sort of advice.
Instead, I strongly suggest you confront him about it. Don't ASK him if he is cheating, TELL him you know that he is cheating. Let him know you think he is a cheating, lying scumbag and that he doesn't deserve you. Then walk out on him and let that be the end of it. Most importantly and I am begging you with this one. Don't let him talk you into taking him back. Guys like this will not only take their cake and eat it but they'll take the cake from the starving family next door and eat it! You deserve a lot better than him and you will find it. Ditch the loser and get out there and find your Knight In Shining Armour.
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Well lets see here...
1.) gone for a week and doesnt tell you why
2.) a hickey on his stomache
3.) a girl named mindy calling his phone
hes definately cheating on you... tell him that you know everthing that has been going on and you think you need to be seperated cause a relationship is about honesty and trust...not about going and getting laid by another girl. basically what im saying is break up with his ass lol
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I would fricken bust him! If you ask him he's probably going to deny it, he's a waste of your time if he's cheating on you I'd move on. I'm sorry and good luck.
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