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ok well i'm my boyfriends 1st girlfriend and he's not my first but the only on i actally cared about and & none of us never tongue kissed before ... like he tries 2 but i break a way cusz i feel like i dont know wat i'm doiing becuase i dont!!!!
all we do is tap and yeah i want 2 go deeper and us tounge but i dont kno how??? & our friendsz keep asking if we did it yet and itsz so embarrising 2 saii no since i really want to. so how do u tounge kiss?????
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It's okay! The first thing you need to do is relax. Kissing can be very difficult if you are thinking about it too much. The best advice I can give: don't rush it. Wait until you are in the right environment, when you two are alone and in the mood. Think of it this way: he may be nervous too! Tongue kissing is easy, just start out with normal kissing and start SLOWLY placing the tip of your tongue on his lips. If he doesn't accept, don't do it. Just stick with normal kissing. If he does open his mouth, then gently touch your tongue with his...the rest is up to you. Good luck!


do you think it's possible to have a friend that is attractive and never ever have any romantic feelings for them?!..if so why or why not?! (link)
Of course. Many people are attracted to their friends, but have no desire whatsoever to develop a romantic relationship with them. If you feel this way about someone, it is usually because you are attracted to them physically, but their personality is not what you would desire in a commited or romantic relationship.


do you think it's possible to have a friend that is attractive and never ever have any romantic feelings for them?!..if so why or why not?! (link)
yes of course because all because someone is cute dosnt mean that you have to like anyone just because there are cute it really depends on what kind of person they are good luck i hope i helped


im going to lose weight again. i lost around 20lbs in about a month and a half and gained it all back in about the next 2 months. i do the elliptical and situps and eat healthy to lose weight sometimes i run sprints in my back yard too. anyone have any tips or suggestions on eating healthy foods or good excersies??

thanks in advance! (link)
ok the first thing i have to say is i think the best easyest funnest thing anyone on here will tell you is what the person below me told you and what im going to say is all because your eating helthy dosnt mean that you can eat as much as you want it is still food it still has a weight and that weight is going to add to your weight try to eat 5 small meals a day like maybe toast and fruit for breakfest eggs for brunch a small portion of chicken and limonade for lunch and inbetween luch and dinner (when i was little i called it dunch) you could have just a snack like a smoothie and for dinner you could have some rice and if you have any, left over chicken good luck i hope i helped


What's a good place to hide condoms in my room where my parents wont find them? It's not like they'll go looking through my stuff, but they clean it a lot and sometimes find stuff they shouldn't. (link)
uh you could do what the person below me said or you could put it in your back pack if your parents dont look through there OH OH i have a great idea hide them in your parents bathroom if they find them they wont sepect anything thats what i do with my pads it has been 2 years sence i first got my period and they still dont know i have it good luck i hope i helped


im looking bands in these genres:

-indie
-rock
-punk
-pop punk

:] (link)
slip knot,aly and aj,avril lavinge,and mettal mouth i love all of those band good luck


hi, you said you could tell me some stuff about cutting. i would love to hear anything you no about it. thank you!
-genevieve (link)
well im a cutter i have been for 4 years now i am 14 years old i started when i was 10 usally people start cutting because somthing has changed dramaticly in there life such as there parents getting divorced or even moving to a new town and not having any friends some people think that people cut just to get attention its not true most people dont want anyone to know that they cut the only person that i have ever told is my best friend it is very hard to stop cutting once you have started its not a game its your road to death most people dont know that one day they will get so sad and cut too deep and then they could bleed to death people who preform self ingury are not trying to comit suicied they just cant talk about there problems so they just "let" them all out by cutting or burning if you would like some more information about it feel free to ask me good luck i hope that i helped a little bit


Okay so im redoing my room like painting and stuff and i want the color to be teal and silver and im getting a new bed set and im having trouble finding something that would even match that my mom says dolphins would and she saw something like that but its not what im looking for. i want a bed in a bag set that comes with everything sheets bed skirt and pillow cases i dont want it to b alot like $129 is alot. So can someone please help? and Can you tell me what colors to look for that will match teal and silver.

Thanks in advance. :] (link)
This would match teal and silver, because my friend has close to teal colored walls, and she has this bed spread:

http://www.sears.com/shc/s/p_10153_12605_096B4065000P?vName=For%20the%20Home&cName=Bedding&sName=Various%20Coordinates&psid=YAHOOSHOP01&sid=IDx20070921x00003b

or maybe this onee...

http://www.linens4you.net/servlet/the-2263/Plumworks-Bretton-Manor-Bedspread/Detail

that was is a little much but it would match...color wise.

or maybe this one....

http://www.linens4you.net/servlet/the-2264/Winston-Bretton-Manor-Bedspread/Detail

This would be cute in white or silver green fotr your room...
http://www.winterthurgifts.com/product.cfm/mc/1/ct/32/sid/2227/wtid/108400/uc/SHPPNG


Hope I helped inspire you...good luckk


Someone [my sorta kinda friend] asked me if I wanted to go smoke weed in the woods with him...I was with my other friend and she is a big flirt and is all like okay! [she didn't actually smoke anything, she was just playing around] but she walked off with him and I had said no. My kinda sorta friend was like, but you need a buddy to smoke with and I said, well I'm not that buddy. [I know the repructions of doing drugs and drinking and all that, so I declined on his offer knowing I could get hooked on it and throw my life away]
So then, my friend ditched me afterwards, not even telling me she had gone and didnt even say sorry the next day! She left me alone by myself, and i felt like a loser. How could my friend ditch me and say I'm uncool? Am I uncool because I don't want to do drugs? because I know I'm not uncool for doing that, so what's her problem? She always calls me emo and a downer, and I'm not even emo, I have friends that are "emo" but I'm not. what did I do to deserve this?? Any comments and answers would be greatly appreciated because I'm completley confused.
thanks in advance for whoever read that and took the time to answer my question. (link)
your not the loser she is tell her that she is the loser and tell her what emo is because you do not sound emo tell her that all because a boy is "hot" dosnt meen that you can just go throw away your life for him its stupid and has she even meet him in her life before and saying hi dosnt count she must be a complete idiot you should tell the school princable that a boy took your friend to go smoke weed they are complete idiots and they are throwing there lives away and if anyone here tells you that you should of gone with those idiots and smoked soom weed dont listen to them ok good luck i hope i helped good luck


Im not quite sure i understand why people wish at 11:11...help me understand please??????
and does your wish come true. (link)
Wishing at 11:11 is just like making a wish on a shooting star, it's a wish and it's just something cute and sill someone made up to make life more intresting and to have hope that wishes you wish and dreams you dream do come true with a little magic. and who knows, your wish could come true...but you gotta try it first :]


hi :]

im getting over my ex like forsure, like i dont want to be with him at all relationship wise and theres this guy we'll call him Allen and we're getting really close! but his ex just broke up with him like a month ago and he's not over her and he's convinced im not over my ex which for the most part i am bc my ex is over it and doesnt talk to me , but Allen's ex keeps bothering him wanting to get back but he doesnt want to but still has feelings for her. so im kinda stuck here
because allen is really confused about it all, we hang out every day and talk on the phone till like 2am and its obvious he still loves his ex and i do still love mine but im ready to move on but i know allen isnt i can understand and am willing to wait but like i dont wanna wait it out then him just get back with his ex... what should i do, do you think? [ we were kind of eachothers rebound you can say but then we've talked and we both really like eachother] (link)
Tell him that you really want to try to make a relationship between you and him work because you have growing feelings for him that are hard to like, just make go away. And what better way to know that you are pretty much over your ex than to go out with someone else? Allen and you will always have feelings for your ex because you shared a part of your life with them and introduced them to your world, but you both have to move on and before his ex convinces Allen to get back together with him, tell him how you really feel and hopeflly he'll give you guys a chance.


is there a way to get around the page limit? i just need to use certain books for school sometimes and dont want/need to buy it and its more convenient than going to the library bc they highlight key words for you. (link)
I don't think there is a way around it, you either buy it or you don't. It sucks, I know, and the library isn't that bad is it? That may be your only option.
Sorry...


my friend mark and i go to different schools, he was on my baseball team in 4th grade and weve been best friends since pre k
we now go to different high schoools and he doesnt want to talk to me anymore
ignores and/or doesnt respond for years on IMS
doesnt call me as much
neveer wants to hang out
im his best bud and hes too busey for me
i just dont know what to do i really want him and i to be best friends
he does all this stuff with his new friends and he wants to hang out with them more
im not saying hes being like a bad friend
im just saying he could atleast try with me and work with what time we DO have together, or time that he LETS us have together (link)
I'm gonna give this answer to you straight up, no sugar coating and you may not like my answer, but just think about it...
Maybe he is trying to break away from you. When people move, it's pretty difficult to keep the original close relationship you guys used to have. My friend, best friend, moved ta Arizona and hardly, if ever, talks to me, and I miss the realtionship, but sometimes freinds come and go.
I mean, you could keep trying to hang out with him and still talk to him, but one of these days your just gonna get fed up with him and stop trying, because a freidnship that ends never really started in the first place.
Just give him some space and time, maybe talking to you makes him miss you and makes him really sad because of all the people and things he left behind and he is probably trying to still adapt to this lifestyle, even after a ciuple years, and trying to keep his past his past. If that made any sense at all...
I know it sucks and it hurts and you don't understand why they want to do this, but put yourself in his shoes.
It's not you, it's him. Good luckk


Hi, ive been going out with this girl for about a month now and i like her sooooo much, im 17 and according to her she was turnin 16 next month, but last night she phoned me in tears and confessed that she had been lying and is really 14 and about to turn 15.

What should I do? im not a pedofile, ill be 18 and she'll still be 15! Surely that's wrong isn't it? Help me please (link)
i dont think its wrong if you are only 3 years apart and only dating you shouldent have sex though because i think you are too old to have sex with her but not dating if you really like her then contunue my parents are 8 years apart and they started dating when my mom was 20 and my dad 28 so i dont think you should worry about it good luck i hope i helped


last week,me and my boyfriend attempted to have sex,i was nervous,and he tried to get it in and it was extremely painful,so he stopped but I've been stressed out about becoming pregnant from precum,and last night after using the restroom i noticed like blood on the toilet paper,but it was like a stringyish thing,it was like mucus,i know that sounds gross,but thats the only way i know to describe it,and i woke up just now,and i got my period,it seems lighter then usual!and i have cramps,could it be lighter then usual because of stressing out?could this be implantation bleeding after a week of intercourse?how do i know thats what it is,i have an irregular period so i wouldn't know if its a missed period or whatever,my last period was either December 5th or 6th!could i tell when i would have been ovulating even if i have an irregular period?help please (link)
oh bless your heart this all sounds like stress dont get so worked up about it lighter periods and irregular periods can be caused by stress but if you really want all that stress to completly dissaper you can go have a pregnatcy test good luck i hope i helped


Im 16 years old and planning on going to see a play for my birthday, i reall dont know what to see though! I have already seen lion king, wicked, Mama Mia, and hairspray. I LOVED hairspray and wicked. Can anyone suggest a good play to see that they loved? Or one that sounds like i might like it based on my taste? (link)
ok so i dont know where you live but there is this traveling group called "stomp" its not a play but i loved it so much when it came to louissiana it is so hallirious and then theres the classic "annie" you seem to like musicals so you could see "grease" i love it or phantom of the opra or "cats" cats is great it sounds stupid but its the best good luck and have a happy birthday


i live in st. louis missouri. im looking for a nice 98-02, Z28 (preferebly convertable) camaro, i have $6000-7000 to spend. please help me out...any websites, listings, anything but craigslist (it's not bad, i just already know of it lol.)

so help me find my dream car please :] (link)
dont order it my mom did and after 3 years we gave up waiting for it to come so i would just go to any delare and get one good luck i hope i helped


15/f/Australia

Okay, so obviously I'm not going to get casted in a movie overnight but I was wondering, when people call for small parts in ads and stuff, usually they go through agents.

How would I get an agent? And do any ads ever post a spot needed publically? If so...where? (link)
where? everywhere at the mall on billboards practicly everywhere you just have to look closly good luck i hope you become an actress


Well it going to be my 14th birthda soon and i was just going to invite a bunch of friends to the movies and then to coldrock.Well its my friends birthday is the day before and i wan't going to invite her to the movies but what if she invites me to her and i don't invite her to mine..And she can pretty bitchy and get all my friends agaginst me.What should i do should i invite her or not? (link)
its your special day dont let her ruin it ok so i am 14 now and i never had a birthday party until i turned 10 and i invited a girl that i didnt really like but she liked me and she completly ruined my first none cocktail party for the adults birthday she started calling all my friends bitches (yes she was 10 also) and she punched my best friend in the stomach i have never had a birthday party after that all i do is invite my best friend over for movies i really dont think you should invite her if she gets bitchy and just dont tell her about your birthday party and if your just inviting maybe 5 friends over then i dont think it will be a big deal or you could tell her that your friends planned it and they made the invite list i hope i helped good luck and have a happy birthday



my best friend doesnt like who im friends with and everytiime i mention them, she goes nuts
but theyre my friends and i want to tell her about them and all the funny stuff that happens but she gets all jelous and whatnot (link)
you know you could of just told me I know that your talking about me ok im sorry why didnt you just tell me instead of posting how anoying i am on here for all of america to see what kind of friend are you i never want to see you again your so stupid i hate you and i never in my life want to see you again ok i hate you




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