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busey for me
my friend mark and i go to different schools, he was on my baseball team in 4th grade and weve been best friends since pre k
we now go to different high schoools and he doesnt want to talk to me anymore
ignores and/or doesnt respond for years on IMS
doesnt call me as much
neveer wants to hang out
im his best bud and hes too busey for me
i just dont know what to do i really want him and i to be best friends
he does all this stuff with his new friends and he wants to hang out with them more
im not saying hes being like a bad friend
im just saying he could atleast try with me and work with what time we DO have together, or time that he LETS us have together
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NO offense, but he seems like a jerk, maybe he's moved on, you should to, find a bestfrnd that can spend times with you and all, dont just rely on him, or maybes hes got something on his mind he doesnt want to tell you or something, just wait and see if his attitude changes, if doesnt my advice is to move on and forget about him.
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I'm gonna give this answer to you straight up, no sugar coating and you may not like my answer, but just think about it...
Maybe he is trying to break away from you. When people move, it's pretty difficult to keep the original close relationship you guys used to have. My friend, best friend, moved ta Arizona and hardly, if ever, talks to me, and I miss the realtionship, but sometimes freinds come and go.
I mean, you could keep trying to hang out with him and still talk to him, but one of these days your just gonna get fed up with him and stop trying, because a freidnship that ends never really started in the first place.
Just give him some space and time, maybe talking to you makes him miss you and makes him really sad because of all the people and things he left behind and he is probably trying to still adapt to this lifestyle, even after a ciuple years, and trying to keep his past his past. If that made any sense at all...
I know it sucks and it hurts and you don't understand why they want to do this, but put yourself in his shoes.
It's not you, it's him. Good luckk
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Y'all have just simply grown up. As you get older, guys sometimes think they can't hang out with girls. If you really want to hang out with him, tell him. Just say, I really miss the relationship we used to have as best friends...or maybe he just doesn't want to hang out with you. Since yall are older, he probably gets better along with his guy friends and wouldn't know what to do with a one-on-one friendship with a girl. I really don't know, because I don't know how your relationship previously was, but that is the most reasonable explanation i have.
Hope I helped.
~countriebabe08
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