my best friend doesnt like who im friends with and everytiime i mention them, she goes nuts
but theyre my friends and i want to tell her about them and all the funny stuff that happens but she gets all jelous and whatnot
Additional info, added Tuesday January 15 2008, 6:49 am: but when she talks to them its ok
im so confused. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? yoliv answered Sunday January 20 2008, 5:26 pm: Yo.
WELL... you definatly can't control how she feels about your friends, and you can't help it that she is jealous. BUT- you can talk to her and tell her all the fun times you've had. Tell her that you are really good friends with these other people and are great friends with her too, but you don't want her to be jealous. Sit her down and tell her this. If she's still jealos, tell her you're sorry and stuff. Maybe you shouldn't talk about your other friends around her as much. I'm not saying don't tell her what funny thing your friend said or whatever, just dont talk about it as much. Appologize. it usually works. :]
Psycotheis answered Tuesday January 15 2008, 6:30 pm: There are lots of reasons for this problem.
Theres a possibility that she wants your friends for herself.
She might just want to piss you off.
She might really be jealous at you for having those kind of friends and she wants them all to herself.
Theres more but its hard to think of other reasons.
Point is, if it bothers you, get her to answer why shes doing that. She probably wont answer it though. So you should tell her you know whats up and to just stop. If she denies it, go whatever and walk away.
And the reason she acts normal around your friends like that is to not give out that she hates them on the inside. Its a thing that, if you look hard enough, a lot of stuck up girls pull. I dont really know why, but its true, and Ive seen it done before. [ Psycotheis's advice column | Ask Psycotheis A Question ]
livelovelaughx3 answered Tuesday January 15 2008, 4:15 pm: i dont mean this to be mean or anything but you can't control jealousy, and if she really is a true friend you shoudl want her to feel comfortable so maybe just let her know that shes important to you she might just get upset bc she thinks shes loosing yu [ livelovelaughx3's advice column | Ask livelovelaughx3 A Question ]
orphans answered Tuesday January 15 2008, 12:46 pm: you know you could of just told me I know that your talking about me ok im sorry why didnt you just tell me instead of posting how anoying i am on here for all of america to see what kind of friend are you i never want to see you again your so stupid i hate you and i never in my life want to see you again ok i hate you [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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